The boy I like says we re not suitable, do I want to keep chasing?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-22
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If the guy you like says it's not suitable, then you don't want to pursue him anymore. Because it is destined to be a fruitless process. And there isn't much joy that the process can bring you.

    On the contrary, he will make you feel that you are particularly depressed during the whole period of liking him. Because your life always revolves around it. <>

    His reply to you is just a polite response. But in front of the mobile phone screen, you are smiling because of his reply. But you can't have the last laugh.

    If a boy says the two of you are not suitable, it must have been carefully considered. Whether it is from the values of two people, or the concept of consumption, all aspects. He may feel that you are not particularly suitable for him, and two unsuitable people will naturally not end well.

    If you continue to chase him, you will feel physically and mentally exhausted, and it will also make the other person feel physically and mentally exhausted. You will have a pain that you can't get, and he will have a sadness that he can't refuse. And in the process of chasing boys, if you don't succeed for a long time, then after a long time, you will have an impact on your psychology.

    I used to have a boy I liked, and I confessed to him, but one night later, he wrote me a long reply to the general idea that we were not a good match. He wanted me to try to accept other people. When I saw this letter, I was more or less disappointed, but I felt that since the two of them were not suitable, there was no need to try.

    In this way, my confession failed, and I did not continue.

    It wasn't long before I learned that he had a girl he liked. I can't say what I want to do with my heart. But at least I ended this unrequited love journey. <>

    The feelings imposed on others always make others feel particularly painful. If the other party is a more understanding boy, he will also feel particularly guilty. If you let go at the right time, then both of you will reap the corresponding happiness.

    Maybe he won't be your lover, but you'll be glad to have such a friend. It's not just an ordinary friend, it's something you recognize. Think about how many friends you can be recognized?

    Sometimes a good person doesn't have to be his boyfriend, he can also be his male friend. The space and time left for both of you is often greater and more. So my advice is to stop chasing it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    <>I don't think there's any need to continue chasing, because as a boy, I know the psychology of boys very well, since he said that the two of you are not suitable, he is not tricking you, depending on how much you like him, the average girl may be like this, the boy will never be, if the boy likes a girl, a girl confesses to him, he can't wait to push the boat down the river, since he rejected you, he must have thought it through, so there is no need to continue, to tell the truth

    If you really like it, if you want to try, it's okay, but at this time you must be in a good position, because you have already confessed to him, if you still chase him or worse as usual, it will be counterproductive, and the boy will only increase his dislike for you, not his good feelings, because I'm like this, I don't shy away from saying that the girl I don't like likes me and was rejected by me If you keep chasing, although I don't say anything, I'm still very polite or something, But the heart will only become more and more alienated from this person. So you have to grasp this scale

    Teach you a way is to "retreat as advance", since you have been rejected, you can be appropriately estranged, and then interact with him in the tone and identity of a friend, while paying attention to your own image, dress up yourself, improve yourself, so that you will add points to your own psychology in him, because boys are like this, the more you can't get it, the more you want to get, you let him feel that you are not easy to get, let him realize that what he did was wrong, so that you win!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hopefully you'll give up. Originally, chasing people should be a boy chasing a girl, if you really chase a boy, the boy also said something like this to you, all you have to do is not continue, his meaning is very clear, he doesn't like you, you don't have a chance, you continue, in his opinion, it's just a dead face, even if you finally catch him, the unlucky person who is injured is also you, because the person who pays more is only you.

    We often say that women chase men, but it is still difficult to really catch up. The boy is actually a very weird creature. He promised that you may like you or may not like you, but if he doesn't promise you, then he definitely doesn't like you, so you don't need to hang yourself on a tree, so the love you pursue is also unequal, you will blindly be good to this boy, and you are willing to do everything for him, but he takes all of you for granted, as everything you should give, so if this boy says this to you, please give up.

    You are a girl, a little princess in your parents' hearts, there is no need to humble yourself for a man like this, you have someone to love, he doesn't know how to appreciate you, and there are people who can appreciate you, so all you have to do is to be sad for a while, and then pack your bags again and start again, there is always someone who loves you in front of you and tells you that the two of you are very suitable, and he likes you.

    You have to learn to let go at the right time, so that you can minimize the damage to yourself, so, don't hesitate, you may be a little reluctant, and you will be a little unhappy, but believe me, without him, you will still have a very happy life in the future, after all, no one must be who's who.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's better not to chase, boys refuse to say it's inappropriate, and there is generally no chance.

    He said it wasn't suitable, ** it wasn't suitable? I don't have an object, you don't have an object, you're a man and I'm a woman, why didn't I see ** inappropriate, so I said, if he said other reasons, he could convince himself, it turned out to be in this regard, and he directly said that it was not suitable, ** not suitable? Temperament?

    Or is it a hobby? Or something else? I didn't say anything, don't think about it if it's ambiguous, it's better to adjust and pursue a new life.

    Like the guy I used to like, confessed to him that he was too sudden and he had to think about it. I don't know if it's all of a sudden, I've been in touch all the time, and he also knows that I like him, and other people who get all kinds of couples on the Internet think we're a couple, but he said it was too sudden. Maybe he's the kind of person who thinks about everything, but I'm not, I think if I like it, I'm together, why do you think it's useless.

    Later, it was gone, and now I think about it, maybe it's still a shortcoming, I have too many feelings for him, and he doesn't have no feelings, but he doesn't feel to that extent. <>

    If you really like it, you should ask him clearly, whether it is suitable or not, and whether it is possible, and let him give you a clear answer. Girls are easy to think wildly, give you a candy and forget the injury he gave you, and if you have a little hope, you will insist brainlessly. It's appropriate to know after getting along, and before I get along with you, you'll sentence me to death.

    Of course, I don't think it's possible, after all, he said it was not suitable, and he must have considered it, so after knowing the answer, I'll be better off myself, it's better not to chase it, it's enough for a woman to chase a man once.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As the saying goes, a good man chases a woman, and a woman chases a man, since you open your mouth to confess to the boy, and the boy also shows that the two of you are not suitable, this is also someone else's euphemism in rejecting you, give up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A man says he likes you, but he says it's not suitable, mainly because the conditions are not suitable and he wants to give up.

    Not only will women lose confidence in front of the people they like, but men will also, when a man likes you and deliberately distances himself from you, then it may mean that he has no self-confidence.

    Like will always add a halo to the other party, feel that the other party is getting better and better, such a wrong perception will always make you inferior, so you don't dare to get close to the person you like easily.

    Therefore, men should keep a distance from the person they like because they feel that the person they like is too good, so they dare not approach.

    Whether it is a man or a woman when they encounter love, they will change from brave to cowardly, and they will also become strong for love, and love always has its magic to change a person.

    Although there is a big difference between liking and love in the eyes of men, when they fall in love with someone, the other party will be regarded as the whole world, and men are more rational than women's love, and they will not give everything they have for love.

    Adult love should be based on material foundations, so they should not be reckless because they like it, and they will take the initiative when they have full confidence in their hearts, so sometimes men will like you but alienate you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Liking someone is not so much if, liking is acting. For the sake of their own happiness, it is not necessary for men to chase women, and it is necessary for women to chase men. Equal rights.

    Men chase women over mountains and mountains, women chase men, sandwich paper. Have faith in yourself, understood, and if you want, go after him. Treat him with courtesy.

    Don't be together after that, think for yourself. It's not good to feel regretful. Let your youth have no regrets, it's not something to be ashamed of.

    You can't get it by pursuing, you can only get it by attracting.

    There's nothing to be ashamed of, just ignore other people's voices and be yourself. Hope it helps you somewhat. People who like you won't say no like that, and they won't update the quotes again and again.

    If you refuse, you will refuse. When you're stuck, you see it and you know what you like. Then you'll be playing dumb and worrying about your appetite.

    Don't be upset. Go to bed early. What you can do, if you refuse, give up.

    He rejects you, which means he doesn't like you.

    If he doesn't like you, it means he doesn't have vision. He doesn't like you, he doesn't have vision. Not worthy of your liking.

    Give it up, emotional things, barely fruitless, there is no need to wronged yourself to embarrass others, there are so many excellent boys, you will meet boys who like you and have a good impression of your kindness and you. I wish you happiness. There's no shame in being rejected by a guy you like.

    Everyone has the experience of being loved. There are very few people of their kind in this world, and there is nothing to refuse.

    At least you can tell him what you think, it's brave. Generally, a boy will not refuse a girl who takes the initiative, and this boy's rejection of you means that this boy does not want to hang you. It's a good boy.

    When you first get rejected, there is always a little bit of embarrassment. At this time, we should not feel anything, just be generous to him. If we can't be lovers and friends, that's fine too.

    Boys who reject girls have a high eye. Maybe girls can't resist the boys' staring, but they are such boys.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Boys like a girl, nothing more than from four aspects:1Your physical appearance attracts him.

    2.Talking to you makes him feel happy and comfortable, you know him. 3.

    Some of your special personality charms are his pride and a manifestation of his worth. 4.You make him dependent on you, both physically and mentally.

    When a guy says it's not suitable, it may be that you don't attract him in some way, not necessarily because of your appearance. In fact, whether you like it or not and whether it is suitable or not are two different things, but the suitability is run in, two people are together only love and do not love and do not get along, and people who quit halfway are nothing more than not loving enough, too lazy to make efforts in the relationship, and then they will classify failure as inappropriate. True love is persistence, there is no purgatory-like run-in with each other, how can there be a lifetime of companionship with a heart, if you really love him, then continue to insist, don't hit the south wall and don't look back, if the south wall also hits, he won't look back, then let go, even if you love again, you should let go, let him go, let him go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The boy I like rejected me, saying that you are not suitable, you should not insist on pursuing at this time, there is a high probability that there will be no result, don't let yourself be hurt.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The boy you like actually refuses, you say that you are not suitable, I don't think you need to continue to insist on pursuing, because a man is the kind of person who is the better you treat him, the more dissatisfied he is, if you wait for him, if he treats you or this is still not good, you give up, if he treats you well, you may still be together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think it's better to go and keep going. Because men and women are not the same. Men may become disgusted with you because of your persistence for a long time. Women are good.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The boy you like refuses, you say you are not suitable, then I suggest you give up, first, such a boy, he may have a girl he likes, so he will say such things, second, if he really doesn't like you, he will not say that you are not suitable, but will say that you are not suitable for love now.

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