If you can t see the future development of love, should you break up?

I don't think we should break up if you still like each other. But in fact, the emotional is not whether it should or should not be, but a question of wanting and not wanting.

Although people always like to joke that falling in love without the purpose of falling in love is playing hooligan. But in fact, many times we choose to start a relationship, not because we know that person is the one who wants to grow old with us, but simply because we like that person. Simply because we like it, we resolutely chose to start, and we didn't think about anything later at that time.

Just like many people who confess at their high school graduation party, they know that they may be separated after this summer, but they still confess and still want to be with the person they like.

In addition to graduating from high school, there are many people who have been together in college. Almost all of the people at the university are from all over the country, and there are many couples who come from different places. I don't think when they chose to be together at that time, they didn't know that they would definitely make it to the end.

But it's also because I like someone, so it's natural to be together. Some people may say that it was because we were too young to think about the consequences of anything, and we always did things according to our own hearts. But what I want to say is that no matter what other things are, feelings should not follow your heart, it should not matter what age you are.

Since when we were together in the first place, it was only because we liked each other, so if you still like each other now, then why break up? If you say that love can't see the future development, then I want to ask what is the future development, whether it is to get married or to be old? Moreover, who can say for sure what will happen in the future, the future is not imagined, but passed day by day.

For the future development of such a can't be seen or touched, you might as well not care too much, it is better to have that heart and think so much than to be together while you still like it now, and love each other well. After all, the future is out of reach, and it is more important to cherish the present and live the present.

In my heart, I always feel that whether a relationship should continue or not is determined by whether two people still have feelings for each other, that is, whether you still like each other. If you still like each other, you shouldn't separate for any other reason, and don't give up easily because you don't see a future. After all, people don't often say that it's not easy to meet people who like each other, so you have to cherish them.

I think the breakup should be when there is no relationship between the two parties, and that is the time when it ends. As long as you still like it, as long as you still want to be together, you shouldn't let it go. Even if you feel that you can't see the future, you must work together to fight for a future and development for your feelings.

Now young people are young people in love after all, and now they are more ignorant at this age, no longer as ignorant as before, but they are not like parents who have experienced society, they are in a more embarrassing period, so it is inevitable that two people will not see the future together, this is a very normal phenomenon, the future of two people is to you work together to create talents, not every day is to show affection, do that kind of superficial work will have a future. If you give up just because you can't see the future, it means that you can't stick to one thing.

After all, you are all students or young people who have just entered the society, and there are still many things that you don't understand yet. But as long as you feel that two people are still very happy when they are together, then both parties should stick to each other, and everything is not the kind that can be done best at the beginning, and it can only be done through time and experience of some things.

When every couple is together, they will not be happy every day, because you are people you don't know before you are together, from different families, different personalities, different family education, there are many, many differences on the road of this love is the process of continuous running-in, there have been quarrels and breakups and then reconciled. But every relationship is like this, and it is important to know each other.

Two people together is to think about each other for each other's sake, if the relationship is only one-sided, how can two people not go on for a long time, want to see the future is two people to work together, together also to communicate more, two people to understand enough to get along will not be so laborious, as long as you look or a small gesture he will understand very well what you want or want to do. <>

Good love should be evenly matched, supervise each other, and be able to make progress together with each other, if two people can't see the future in love, then why bother to be together.

Often some couples begin to return to a dull life after the hot love period, and girls are usually a little more mature than boys, she will consider the future and the plans of the boy in front of her, but now many boys are not mature, only take into account what is happening now and not think about the future, finally admitted to college, play games in the dormitory every day, skip class and sleep lazy, and then play basketball together, go out on a date with girlfriend to play, it seems that four years have passed so quickly, I didn't learn any skills, I just lazy and played games. When the two were together, the girl talked about the future with the boy, and the boy just was silent and said, I don't know.

But in the past few years, the boys have been confused, and the girls have actually seen it in their eyes, although they don't say it, in fact, they know very well that the future of both of them is very slim, she began to question the future of the two people, and she couldn't even hear any promises on the boys' lips, indicating that the boys didn't think about this problem at all, let alone the plans and plans of the two people, so one day, the girl was disheartened and left the boy, but the boy said that the girl was material and liked rich people, but the boy never really thought about what action he had paid.

When two people are together, they should be comfortable and talkative. Two people can discuss the future of two people in a bland way, everyone participates in it, you have me in your future, you have you in my future, we hold hands together, work together, struggle together, I think this is what good love can continue to look like.

If you're young, give it a try. If you are already a big man, a person in your thirties, it is better to divide it early, if you can't come together in the end, there is no need to waste time on impossible people.

If you're young, why let it go so easily? I guess I won't be reconciled. You don't see the future, it's just that you don't want to continue to develop with him.

If you really like someone, don't you often fantasize about your future life with him? If you can't see the future development, you can only say that neither of you wants to work hard, you don't want to work hard for your future, or rather, you don't want to have a future.

I once saw a sentence that was used to refute the remarks of "why do you want to be together when you know you will break up", that sentence is: Then why do you want to live when you know you will die. Actually, I think this sentence makes a lot of sense.

If you feel that you have no future, and you give up so easily, then you are too useless. The future is self-created, not imagined.

Your relationship is maintained by the two of you, what kind of direction it will take, and what the final result will be, depends only on the two of you, the key is not whether you have a future, but whether you are willing to work hard.

But if you are already the eldest and know that there is no future, it is better to divide it early. You are not young anymore, your thinking should have matured, and "no future" at this time means that there is really no future. You are looking for someone to live with you for the rest of your life, not someone to experience the ups and downs of love.

So, for a relationship that doesn't see the future development, whether or not to break up depends on your age and situation.

What is the future you are talking about, is this future what you expect from him or is it the end of the two of you working together? If his future plan does not have you, then he can't see the future; If he doesn't care about the future of the two of you, then you can break up.

Since you all know that you can't see the future, don't hesitate, find a reliable partner to definitely live better, this is also no way.

Hello friend, since you can't see hope, you can't see the future, so why continue?

1.Start by figuring out why you can't see the future. Give yourself a clear reason and give yourself confidence in the decision, glorifying the problems between you will leave you powerless to get out of this painful relationship.

2.Accept the facts. You can't convince your unqualified lover to get better, so why should you follow each other with all your heart and expect an impossible miracle.

3.Don't let your unqualified lover affect your mood anymore. Think about the days when you were still happy without him, even if you didn't have the other person, you can still be happy, right?

4.Let's face it. Yes, it can be difficult at the beginning of a breakup, but if there are some distractions that make you feel like getting out of a breakup will become easier than you think.

5.Think more about other people of the opposite sex who are attractive to you. Appreciating other members of the opposite sex is the best way to make you quickly forget about your ex and not give up the whole forest for the sake of a tree.

6.Try to like other people. You don't have to date someone, but try to like other people of the opposite sex and think about the good times you have together, which will make you forget about your ex.

7.Don't embarrass yourself. Don't surround yourself with people who will never be able to love you the way you love each other. After much deliberation, leave this deformed relationship, don't drink to quench your thirst, you deserve someone better.

8.You can't forget the loved ones. Don't forget each other.

Instead of trying to forget about each other, learn to accept that you still love each other, but you have to let go because you can't be together anymore. Try to find a new person of the opposite sex to take your ex's place. In this way, you will quickly come out of the shadow of broken love.

9.Learn to adapt to life without your significant other. If you still haven't broken up and you want to know how to leave the other person, try to get along less with the other person, adjust to life without the other person, and don't take the initiative to contact the other person.

Make new friends, or connect with old friends, hang out with them, travel, etc. Try to say no when the other person asks you out, for example, if you want to work, you want to study, or that you are tired and you want to rest, not to go out and play.

I think that since you can't see the hopeful love, you should break up, don't waste the other person's time, and let yourself pack up your mood to meet the right person.

Falling in love is uncertain. Then you have to see if he is suitable for you and if he really loves you. Whether it is suitable for marriage. If you are not sure about anything, then of course you should break up and not delay your youth and time.

If you can't get married and have children, you have to think about it, think about it, hold on to it if it belongs to you, and let it go if it doesn't belong to you.

If he doesn't have you in her future plans, they shouldn't be together.

It depends on what kind of mentality you have, you go with the flow, then go with the flow.

You can't see the future, and whether you break up or not depends on what you want in the relationship.

If in this relationship, what you value is the process, you have this capital, and the end of a few years of youth long-distance running will not have any impact on your financial and mental match, then you don't have to break up.

If you can't afford it and hope that your relationship can have a result, you should think about it, it is unrealistic and impossible for you to talk about the future between you. Because normal love should have a future and results.

If you love the other person very much and want to have a future relationship with him, you should have an in-depth and open talk about this issue. Maybe you'll have the answer yourself.

Love is definitely hoping for a result, being able to enter into marriage, and if a girl can't see the future, it's best not to waste time. If your boyfriend can't give herself a promise and can't talk about marriage with herself, give it up appropriately. Maybe the boyfriend doesn't really like him, or he doesn't want to marry him, and it's just a waste of energy for Qin Doo to be with him all the time.