After a breakup, are they old and dead or friends?

After a breakup, it means that two people want to live each other's own lives, and since there is no other person in their lives, then don't be related to each other anymore. So, my opinion is that after a breakup, we should never get along.

Once, when two people were together, they were still extremely happy and sweet, they could say anything, they could do anything, there were no constraints, no fetters, and they lived freely, as if the whole world only existed with each other. But what about after the breakup? These beautiful images are gone forever and disappear into the sky.

How easy it was to say what was once promised, but now what? In the face of the cruel reality, it seems so pale and powerless. Who will mention the past vows, and who will be responsible for your future.

It's over, it's separated, and the dream has woken up.

We are immersed in the pain of a breakup, but we also resent the other person for ruthlessly pushing us away and leaving ourselves alone to suffer this unexpected pain. Because the deeper the love, the deeper the wound, as if you hit your head against a brick, the harder you push, the more pain you will feel. After the breakup, we will give ourselves a period of calm time, because no matter how much we cry and make trouble, it is irreparable.

We began to seriously think about this failed relationship, find out the reasons for the failure, summarize the experience, and learn the lessons. After a period of healing, we came back again.

The reason why many people are still entangled with their ex after breaking up and want to be friends with each other and stay by each other's side is actually a manifestation of unwillingness. Staying by the other party's side, as long as they are still friends and have a little relationship, he feels that there is still a chance, and there is a chance to get back together with the other party, in fact, it is all wishful thinking. Not everyone is like you, so obsessed with feelings, so infatuated, hurt but don't know that the wound hurts, and you have to rub salt on the wound.

The more you want to be friends with the other person, the more they will dislike you, because some of your actions are always a potential implication to him that I still love you.

Don't be stupid, child, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. Hoping for someone who gives you pain will only hit you hard again. Even if you are a friend, it is difficult for you to calm the desire in your heart, and you may not be impulsive one day and do something out of the ordinary, then it will be really irreparable, and the friend will not want to do it, and may even develop into an enemy, which is tantamount to adding trouble to your own life and that of the other party.

Therefore, the best way to deal with things is to be familiar strangers. You still know him, but don't pay attention to his new life, no matter how good his life is, it has nothing to do with you, you are no longer his person, you should pursue your own life. For yourself, for tomorrow, work hard, be responsible for your own life, don't leave any regrets, and bravely meet new challenges!

If you are separated, you will be a stranger, and you should die and never get along! Not opening each other is the greatest respect for each other and retaining the last dignity! Self-esteem, self-love, self-respect!

In fact, most couples will worry for a while before they break up, and most of them are separated due to trivial things, but I didn't expect it to be completely separated like this. So for each other, it is really so easy to guarantee that it is "like a stranger". For sentimental women, of course, it is difficult to completely guarantee a breakup, and it is very likely that they will focus on the other party according to some other method.

Look back at the men who don't seem to care. In fact, it will come to a lonely time period, and thinking of the wonderful time when two people are together, but what can it be. It's just a matter of worrying about yourself, and at this moment objectivity will eventually defeat reason.

Even if two people can no longer get back together, they can no longer fall in love, and it is difficult to work hard to be "like strangers", although there will be no more contact, but at least the heart has not really forgotten, is it will also think of the other party, and the pastime of the years is just grief.

Only I can solve the emotional problems completely by myself. Just as everyone has seven emotions and six desires, there are really very few people who can achieve the four major emptiness. When a person lives in this mundane world, he will inevitably have feelings, and even put a lost feeling in the deepest part of his heart.

may say it very ruthlessly, but only I know the softness of my heart, and I loved so deeply before, how could I forget it. I think that in the deepest part of your heart, there has always been the shadow of the other party, but you don't want to admit it.

So those who are "like strangers" are actually just holding back their inner thoughts, and they seem to be calm on the surface. But my heart has already turned upside down. As long as you have loved deeply, there will be indelible scratches, even if the years will slowly repair, but this imprint is lingering, and the deepest part of your heart will still care about it, and you can't forget it at all.

After two people in love are separated, they will give people a feeling of "strangers", and even vow never to contact each other again. But two people have loved each other after all, even if they can't reach an unforgettable level, it doesn't mean that it can be easily eliminated, it seems to be a kind of sudden enlightenment, but in fact it's just self-inflicted humiliation. In addition, the person who keeps saying that he will forget you may have already hid in a corner where no one is sobbing and is nothing more than trying to pick up the last dignity, and it is not possible to guarantee complete forgetfulness at all.

When two people used to love each other, they had already been united to a certain extent. Nowadays, if you want to easily withdraw from love, it is obvious that it is impossible to do anything. Especially when two people have long loved each other deep in the bone marrow, unless it is a false love, this kind of assertion will naturally be broken.

But if you are deeply in love, it is not possible to guarantee "strangers" at all.

No matter what the reason is, since two people who once loved each other can't overcome difficulties and choose to break up, there is a knot in their hearts. Falling in love with a person's first love for a lifetime is always the most desired result, but most people's emotional path is not so beautiful, and there will always be regrets and stories. In fact, it's best not to contact again after a breakup.

Absolutely. The two used to love each other, but after the breakup, they couldn't restrain themselves, and they couldn't be friends at all.

Yes. If you don't have any thoughts about the other party anymore, even if you don't get along with each other for old age, there should be nothing wrong with it.

Whether you want to continue to entangle or keep your distance after a breakup depends on the situation. However, in most cases, one wide may be the better option.

First of all, if you break up with someone, but your feelings are still strong, continuing to be in contact may make your relationship more complicated and confusing. This may exacerbate your pain and confusion and make it more difficult for you to get out of the relationship.

Second, if your relationship is no longer sustainable, continuing to entangle may hinder your growth and development. If there is a fundamental disharmony or difference in values between you, then even if you try again and again, it will be difficult to make your relationship healthy and stable in the end.

Finally, if you decide to end the relationship, then parting and forgiving can help you better get out of the relationship. This can give you more time and space to heal and recover, so you can be better prepared for your next relationship.

In short, when the relationship between you can't last, parting and forgiving may be the best option. Of course, the specific situation also takes into account various factors, such as each other's feelings and wishes, as well as future development prospects, etc.