What should I do for the sake of my child s future? 15

There may be two reasons for this: the first is caused by the lack of certain trace elements, and you should eat more foods containing zinc and choline, but this can only be improved, and I think most of it is caused by psychology. This is also the second question to be said, as a parent, you should go to your child's school to find out how your child lives at school, find out the reason, and then prescribe the right medicine.

You can also take your child to places where there are many people, such as amusement parks, supermarkets and other places, and have more contact with others, so that he can play with other children of the same age. There may also be family factors, such as marital discord, frequent quarrels in front of the child, or being severely scolded by the parents, which may also cause some psychological pressure on the child. Parents can communicate with their children more, understand their children's inner world, and then find out the reasons and prescribe the right medicine.

If the child's autism is more severe, it is recommended to see a child psychologist and receive a professional **.

You don't have to worry too much, or get anxious. Like you said, it shouldn't be a big deal. Spend more time with him, discover his hobbies, try to cultivate his interests, and boost his self-confidence!

If you really don't feel at ease, take him to see a psychiatrist, do some simple tests, and the doctor will give you a satisfactory answer.

You don't have to worry too much. This problem is prevalent among children nowadays.

This address is the Child Attention Development Method. Hope it helps.

Moreover, the child is introverted and afraid of life, what about boys or girls? I usually take him out for a walk, and the character cultivation of children is generally developed when they are with their friends, and if they always stay at home, they will inevitably be introverted. One more thing, is the child going well in kindergarten?

Whether there is something in your heart that has not been said is also the key.

It's better not to go to those trainings at the age of 5, your child has no problems intellectually, these institutions are nothing more than teaching those things in primary school, which is not of much use, so that the child knows a basic concept and participates in the courses he is interested in.

Primary school only needs to develop good study habits.

I know that there is a professional organization in Beijing, you can find it on the Internet, you can consult it, it is called You Qianqian.

Recently, a mother changed the antidepressant medication she was taking to vitamins in order to improve her child's academic performance, which attracted a lot of attention and related discussions. Whether this mother's approach is appropriate needs to be understood from three aspects: the disease must act in accordance with the doctor's instructions and cannot act without authorization, the parents must have a correct understanding of the child's situation, and the parents must pay enough attention to the problem of their child's depression.

1. ** Diseases must be acted upon according to the doctor's instructions, and cannot be acted upon without permission.

For any disease, it is necessary to pay attention to science and follow the doctor's instructions. Neither people with medical knowledge nor people who do not know the specific situation should not act on their own, otherwise it may lead to serious consequences. ......The mother's self-management of her own medical knowledge would have a serious impact on her rotten child and must be stopped immediately.

2. Parents must have a correct understanding of the specific situation of their children.

The fundamental reason why this mother would do that is that she does not understand the specific situation of her child and thinks that the child's situation is not so serious. That's why she dared to switch from antidepressants to vitamins. ......And if she really understood the specific situation of her child, I believe she would not have done that.

Therefore, it is important for parents to have a clear understanding of their child's specific situation so that they can know what they should do.

3. Parents must pay enough attention to the problem of depression in their children.

At present, the pressure on children is very high, so the problem of depression in children of all ages cannot be ignored and must be taken seriously and measures must be taken to effectively solve it. ......Specific to the child's parents, they should also pay attention to their child's depression problem, and actively help the child solve the problem, so that the child can return to normal, so that the responsibility of parents can be fulfilled, in order to let their children grow up healthily.

1. Children grow up under the negative energy of "I suffer for you", and they will feel attacked and unaccepted; More hurt, more likely to confront the mother, more rebellious.

2. Low self-worth, feeling that they are a drag from their parents, their existence is meaningless, and their parents will live better without their own existence.

3. Overly sensible, feeling indebted to the mother, having an excessively close relationship with the mother, feeling that he should bear the happiness of the mother, acting as the emotional "husband" of the mother, it is difficult to live for himself, and it is difficult to obtain his own happiness.

So, don't say that you don't divorce for the sake of your children, and your children can't carry such a heavy pot. What you think is "for the sake of the children" is likely to do more harm than good, and the gains outweigh the losses.

People are responsible for their own lives, and the phrase "for the sake of the child" will make people feel full of moral kidnapping and control, so the mentality of "for the sake of the child" is really unacceptable.

For the sake of my children and grandchildren, I will not insist on not divorcing. Because the husband and wife have no feelings, this kind of life is also a kind of harm to the children, the damage to the soul, the harm of divorce is not necessarily comparable to the harm you have to the children now, if you are for the sake of the children, it is not necessary. If it's because you are reluctant to give up this relationship, then you can communicate well with him and work hard to get this relationship again, don't ruin the child because you have wronged yourself.

In the era of soaring divorce rates, many people choose to divorce, but there are also many people who choose to persist in their marriage, and there are many reasons why they choose to insist, but what I hear my friends say the most is: "I can't divorce him for the sake of my children, what should I do with my children if I divorce him?" Or is it:

If it weren't for the child, who would be able to continue living with him? It's long gone. ”

We all have children, and we all love our children deeply, and the first thing that comes to mind when we divorce is our children, thinking that children can't do without father's love or mother's love, so the two who broke down are still insisting on the so-called marriage, even if the two people are relatively speechless and tired of each other, they are still insisting on the children. We all love Gao Yan's own children very much, and we are reluctant to suffer a little bit for our children, so we think that our persistence and grievances in marriage have brought the happiest life to our children.

But isn't the seemingly detached attitude of the two people a kind of harm to the child? Many times, we say "don't divorce for the sake of our children", so when you say that, please give your children a happy and harmonious family before saying this. Naturally, when you can give your children a happy and harmonious family, you don't need to divorce.

But if you can't do it, you're still saying "don't divorce for the sake of your children".

So when you say this, please think carefully about whether the conflicts and feelings between the two of you will affect the child.

It is not to persuade divorce if the relationship is not good, but to say that marriage and divorce are very important things, and both marriage and divorce must be considered. The relationship between two people needs to be run-in, and there will inevitably be small frictions in the process, but more importantly, you should set a good example in front of your children.

I don't think it's worth it, but sometimes it's frustrating.

A lot of youth was spent in it.

I will educate him well.

Life goes on, work hard, live hard.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has a sense of happiness that I think is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said:

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, we may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

I feel that as parents, we should give our children the opportunity to try and make mistakes, so that he can feel that ** is right? Is it wrong? It is better to let him sum up his own experience than to tell him directly how to do it, not only in his studies, but also in life

There is no fundamental reason for learning, children have no direction for learning, and parents can only be anxious.

In the pattern of learning, it is said that Professor Kapoor's research has achieved ineffective success, effective failure, and effective failure is that parents can tolerate their children's mistakes so that their children can benefit from their mistakes.

Many parents see the report card, and when they see the results, they don't analyze them, and they just scold their heads and face after scolding, and they will still be like this next time.

It doesn't matter if you don't know how to learn the books you let go of your child, help the child sort out the knowledge points, see which ones are the child's more vague and weak points, and then make a plan, how to make up for it, and then how many days later can it reach what extent, accompany the child to stay up and stay up the most difficult night to sit and sit, the most difficult problem, really into the child's heart, you are, understand, and give support.

As parents, we always feel that our children are still pretending to be young people, and we always persuade and educate our children from the front, and we always hope to give our children more "help to dismantle the hall". However, it is more contrary to expectations, the more we convince the child to "help", the later the child will learn to walk, as long as the child is given more opportunities to try on his own, let the child explore by himself, to trial and error, in the mistakes will grow better.