How do you evaluate Mayashu s approach to education?

I don't dare to compliment Ma Yashu's education method, I am too doting on children. And the tube is too wide. Although she is there to protect the child from harm, the right thing to do is to teach the child how to protect himself, not to keep the child in captivity.

Mashuya's education method may still happen to many parents, in order to love their children, they have lost themselves excessively, made wrong choices and still don't know it, and they think that everything is for their children, but they have never thought correctly about how to give their children love appropriately.

Her way of education may be a phenomenon that exists in many families. Excessive spoiling of children is actually harming children, as her husband said: "She is doing what she thinks is right, in order to make herself feel more comfortable."

She herself is comfortable, but what about the child? When the child cries, she will back down, and she will say "no" and "no" to the child at every turn, and never respect the child's ideas.

I didn't approve of her approach, she was afraid that the child would hurt her, so she carried away all the furniture in the living room, and the living room was empty. During the meal, everyone also sat on the floor and ate.

As a novice mother, although it is understandable that she is a loving child, she is afraid that her child will be hurt a little bit.

However, by doing so, she was a little overprotective, and love changed its flavor. It's not love, it's control.

I personally do not approve of her education methods, education needs to be adjusted from person to person, teaching thinking without a fixed law, according to the parents' family background and character characteristics, as well as the child's temperament genetic factors and behavioral habits, love him to let him understand love, respect him is to let him respect his own words and deeds, only self-love, self-respect, spiritual self-reliance children, will have the ability to self-education and learning as soon as possible.

She has no education method at all, but it is different from being completely free-range, overprotective makes the child become unscrupulous!

In the process of educating children, Ma Yashu can actually see that she also wants to work hard to make her children develop in a better direction. But her 2 reasons why the whole education is a complete failure!

1. Overprotection.

Just because the child fell and touched the furniture, all the furniture in the living room was removed, and the family only spread a cloth on the floor to eat. So if the child falls down on the road and hits the car parked on the side of the road, should Ma Yashu remove all the vehicles on the road?

To prevent children from being injured, parents need to do some necessary protection, such as anti-collision table corners, such as socket plugs, etc., but don't overdo it! Overprotection deprives children of the ability to explore the world.

2. There is no bottom line.

As soon as the child cried, Mayashu immediately compromised. This kind of bottomless education method will make parents more and more passive in front of their children, until they are helpless in the face of their children's distress. Dare to say "no" to your child, and be willing to say "no" to your child.

Let children understand from an early age what is okay and what is not allowed. Understanding the importance of rules is also a very important educational point in the process of parenting!

Personally, I think that this kind of education is not worthy of publicity, it is too strict with the family, resulting in a different way of life at home from others, and the overprotection of children does not allow children to really practice what they do in the process of growing up, which is not only detrimental to the growth of children, but will put children in an environment without safety awareness and practice.

Support Ma Yashu, I think there is nothing wrong with pursuing happiness, this society is too harsh on women and too tolerant of men, besides, this is a private matter of people, I don't want to say who is right and who is wrong, I feel that Ma Yashu is quite real, I have watched the interview show between her and her husband, and the two of them are full of feelings of love, bless her.

Recently, I was watching the second season of "Mom is Superman", and I found that Mayashu's way of educating children is really worth our comparison, are we educating children like her?

Because in the show, Ma Yashu clearly interpreted how a super anxious, bottom-line, and mother-in-law who would only give in step after her child cried raised a super willful and splattery child through her interaction with her child.

In the show, I found out that Ma Yashu is a super anxious mother, and when she takes her child, "no" and "no" are like mantras, saying to her child at every turn.

In this way, the mother who treats "no" and "no" as mantras will face the consequence that the child does not take her words to heart at all, and does what she wants to do and do, and ignores her at all.

The child not only touched the fish, but also touched the big bones, which made Ma Yashu very nervous.

It's not that we shouldn't say "no" to our children, a series of dangerous things like children playing with sockets, playing with fruit knives, etc., parents should of course stop it, and it is absolutely not okay to do it without discussion, but we are thinking about why Mayashu's strict prohibition does not work for children at all.

Spoiling children too much, sacrificing everything for children. There is no private space for the child.

Ma Yashu has big watery eyes and a melon seed face, which can not only play a pure and resolute bitter woman, but also incarnate a mature and glamorous fashion woman, whether it is appearance, figure, temperament and acting skills, she is very good (Natalie evaluation); She is also a very potential actor, and her eyes are very clear, which means that the audience can see the play through her eyes (Liu Xuehua's evaluation).