How to make up for the lack of heart, always want to grab things, always afraid of many things.

Lack of heart, you should read more books, enrich your spiritual world, fear is because there is no courage, no self-confidence, want to do a lot of things and have no confidence, sometimes your own level is very difficult, you have to try to take the first step, believe in yourself, you are the best.

Human beings' sense of security originally comes from the control of the things around them, and the difference is that some people have strong control and some people are weaker. The higher the cognitive level, the greater the variable you will find to do things, and after the process of continuous training, your ability is getting stronger and stronger, and you are more and more able to distinguish the boundary between decision-making and luck. After a long time, the mood will gradually become calmer.

And at the moment, if you want to grasp, but you are afraid of failure, you want to grasp, it is your upper progress that is driving your behavior, and it is your reason that is helping you to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. This entanglement is very normal.

First of all, you have to have faith in yourself.

Don't be afraid, believe that you can do what others can do. Stand up for you.

See more and contact the outside world.

emmm…What kind is it about? But be brave and fight for what you want, and you won't be afraid after taking the first step.

Go to the library, find a corner to read, stick to it, and you will find the energy to replenish your heart!

Lack of self-confidence, first of all, position yourself.

The reason for the lack of heart is that there is no specific goal, to be precise, it is idle panic, first of all, we must determine our interests, we must have a goal, whether it is in work or life, to find some trouble for ourselves. Life will be full, and the heart will be full.

First, arrange your daily life reasonably and try to ensure that you have something to do at every moment.

Second, make sure that everything you do has meaning, no matter how big or small, whether it's good for you now or in the future.

Third, try something you haven't done before.

Finally, the implementation method, pay attention to the work and rest, regular exercise, read books, listen to **, play games, go out for a walk, find a boyfriend and girlfriend.

If it's powerless for your future life, then read more books, no matter what, reading books can solve it, believe me.

I suggest you just read a book. Read. Start with what you like!

I like martial arts. I like biographies. I like popular science.

To read a book is to communicate with the author. Heart-to-heart communication. Especially reading in a quiet place. It's as if the reader is talking to you.

That's not going to put it down. I even hate it when others interfere. "There are poets and books in the belly, and people are self-Chinese".

It's a process of slow accumulation. There will be no lack of heart. You can give it a try. This is not a cliché.

Just like it.

Inner deprivation is lack of spiritual life, which is a very serious problem, indicating that you have been less communicative recently, and you have less communication with the outside world, and you have no motivation to understand the outside world, and it is easy to get depression. You should "go out", open your heart, and enrich your inner world in order to relieve stress.

This is very simple to enrich your heart, such as reading books, listening to classical ** or light **, purifying the soul, you can also make an appointment with three or five friends for dinner, talk about the bits and pieces of life or go out to travel, in short, let yourself no longer lack your heart is OK.

If you are lacking in your heart, it is nothing more than not filling yourself up, filling your schedule, and learning something from it, and then rewarding yourself from time to time, I believe that your heart will not be lacking at that time, such as getting yourself up early, reading a book, and running for a week.

Read more books, high-quality movies and TV series, watch documentaries that interest you, or do something that interests you.

Only you can save yourself from being poor in your heart, read more books, read more newspapers, eat less snacks, sleep more, do good deeds and do meaningful things.

Learn more and keep enriching yourself.

Learning is a continuous thing, and over time, the heart is slowly enriched.

Let the brain decorate something, you can read more books, books are the spiritual food of human beings,

Make the crux of the problem, prescribe the right medicine, and exercise more to make your heart stronger.

When the Buddha attained enlightenment under the Bodhi tree, he discovered, "Amazing! All sentient beings have the wisdom and virtue of the Buddha. But this treasure is under the cover of ignorance and afflictions, even though it is nothing, which is what the Buddha went on to say, "It cannot be attained because of ignorance and delusion."

This ignorance, in turn, gives life a primal sense of scarcity and loss, and makes us constantly look for external support so that this "I" can be proven and affirmed.

The problem is that the supports we are looking for are fragile and impermanent, and each additional support increases the danger of collapse and the instability.

Therefore, this lack is by no means something that can be filled, but it is to be looked inward. Once the inner treasure of life is opened, we no longer need external support. Just like those Zen practitioners who live in the woods by the water, although they have nothing in life, they don't feel that they lack anything.

The reason is that they have realized the full nature of enlightenment.

As the Six Patriarchs sighed when they realized the Tao: "What a self-nature, originally pure; What a self-nature, originally sufficient; How self-natured, unshakable; How self-natured, it does not give birth to and perish; What a self-nature, it can give birth to ten thousand laws. "Recognizing such an enlightened nature, like holding a treasure in your hand, will you still be tempted by the rubble?

Will you still chase the dust?

But we lose our nature and don't know who we are, so we look around for a sense of existence. "Lengyan Sutra" is called "lost head recognition shadow" - forgetting that the head is on the shoulder, but the shadow is regarded as "me".

We project this feeling onto our bodies, onto our identity, onto our families, onto our fame, onto our careers, and we always think that we will be solid after grasping something.

In fact, what we are grasping is only some illusory and ephemeral existence. What's worse is that when we grasp these things, we will unconsciously form dependence.

1. Life is bumpy, busy, and you can't forget anything, and you can't forget your true feelings and conscience. No matter how poor or frustrated you are, you must always have a true affection and treat others sincerely. No matter how rich or proud you are, don't destroy your conscience, your true feelings and people.

2. There is no unfinished story in this world, only an undead heart. In the emotional game between two people, it is not necessarily the winner who is tempted in the end; And the last one who dies must be the loser.

3. There are some things that you really can't do, forget it, don't embarrass yourself. Endure the calm wind and waves, take a step back, and open the sky. A good temper is the best thing a person can wear in a social setting.

It's not terrible to fall, the important thing is to be able to get up where you fell, don't ask about the spring flowers, just face it happily. Many times, people live with a state of mind.

Fourth, if you want to train a person who can do great things, you must make him endure hardships and hardships, and he must be unsatisfactory, so that he can develop a stoic character. After a person has exercised to different degrees, he will obtain different degrees of cultivation and different degrees of benefits. It's like spices, the more crushed they are, the finer they are ground, and the stronger their fragrance becomes.

5. Some people quarrel with you every day, but they wake up and love you again. Some people, who don't even quarrel, have disappeared into the sea of people. It turns out that indifference is more terrible than quarrels.

Sixth, the more a person experiences, the less he complains, which is an interesting phenomenon. Because he may have endured more twists and turns than those who complain all the time. The crux of the phenomenon of the phenomenon of being better and working harder is that excellent people can always see better than themselves, while mediocre people can always see worse than themselves.

7. The only thing that doesn't change in life is that it keeps changing. Tension and relaxation, heaviness and elegance, are all states of life, and life is empty and dull only in the eyes of the dull and boring person. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, you have to show it a thousand reasons to laugh.

Smile, smile can change your life.

8. You can do everything, but only if you don't grieve for the result. A person's strength is not determined by what he can do, but by what he can bear.

9. Be brave, and the world will give in. If sometimes you are defeated by it, and you keep being brave and brave, it will give in.

10. People will not suffer for a lifetime, but they will always suffer for a while. Many people have suffered for a lifetime in order to escape suffering.

Charging, what's the deal? (What's the lack of a thread, let's find a girl).

This is a long-term character defect, because the poverty of the family environment during the growth period of the socks has caused a kind of inferiority complex and closure in your inner world, and at the same time, such inferiority and isolation will become the rejection of the surrounding good environment and people.

Barren thoughts mean that this person does not read much and does not have a lot of ink in his stomach, but this person may be simple and happy, and his heart is full.

Lack of heart means that the person may or may not know a lot, but they will always feel lonely and lonely.

Not a meaning that the mind is barren, it means that your mind has no thought at all. The heart is lacking, the heart is very lacking.

Inner deprivation refers to a state of inner deprivation, which is not specified.

What is lacking in the heart can be responsible, moral, loving, thoughtful, and so on.

And the barrenness of the mind indicates the content of the lack of the heart. There is a lack of heart and no thoughts.

In fact, I don't think they mean the same thing, or even some of the opposite, the person with a poor mind is that she is not aware of her own problems at all, and the person who is lacking in heart is aware but does not know how to make changes.

There are similarities in meaning, but also subtle differences. Ideological barrenness refers to the inability of the mind to reach a certain height, and inner scarcity refers to the emptiness of the spiritual world.

Hello is not a meaning, the barren mind means that it is your thoughts, and the lack of heart is the shortcoming after you think.

This level and lack of heart should be the same meaning, they all express the meaning of a person, who has no ideological realm, and who has a license to do things.

Poor thinking means that there is no own opinion, no unique thought, no independent cognition, lack of heart, that is, the lack of gratitude in the heart, I understand the normal feelings of people.

The meaning of these two words is similar, and the thought rating is more focused on thought, that is, the person's thought dimension is relatively small, which does not mean that the heart is not rich.

Hello friend, I feel that the lack of thought and the lack of heart should be the same feeling, this person is more lacking, and he needs to work hard to change and pick on me.

The impoverishment of the mind and the deprivation of the heart are very close in meaning.

Lack of thought is more focused on the IQ aspect.

The barren heart is more focused on the aspect of emotional intelligence.

The meaning should be similar, that is, the mind and the heart are sometimes the same, so this situation should be understandable.

This should be a meaning, because one of the situations expressed by this idiom is that the two of them are the same, and then from this emotion, some of his meanings can be judged later, and this can be changed between him and him.

Xiao Pingweixing's inner lack is a meaning, and it means that there is no knowledge connotation.

Yes, friends mean the same thing, no matter what, we have to change our thinking, we have to enrich our hearts, and develop ourselves towards a better self.

It shouldn't mean the same thing, I feel that my heart is lacking, and it should be more serious.

Is it the same meaning as the division of pain in the mind and the wish of the heart, and I am also an art, or it may not be a meaning?

Life, in order to achieve your dream goals, to achieve success, hardship and pressure are inevitable, unless you want to forge ahead, close yourself, out of touch with society, as long as you set foot in society, the difficulties of work and life frustration, the intrigue of interpersonal relationships, cynicism, will force you to face change, the so-called change is passable, improve and enhance yourself, the change of mentality is crucial, the so-called ideological attitude determines success or failure, regardless of good times and bad, keep an open mood, smile, hint at yourself, all problems always have a solution, sunshine and optimism, turnaround and hope will always appear.

Don't want to listen, like to practice kneeling how to speak English is the same? But there is no genus on our side.

True strength should be to consolidate what you have learned and stick to what you believe in. In this process of becoming stronger, we must read more books and have the courage to listen to the opinions of others, only by reading more books can we form our own thoughts, and we can talk about our own opinions from the small things in daily life.

Let yourself become stronger first, then you must increase your knowledge and cultural connotation, read more, pay more attention to the dynamic development of society, and then, when you have the opportunity, you must exercise yourself in time to improve your experience. In this way, we can slowly make up for the lack of material.

We must set an ideal for ourselves, and we must realize that we cannot decide our birth, but we can determine our future. Set your attitude right, and then continue to increase your knowledge so that you have more ability to create a better future for yourself.