After I confess my failure, should I continue or give up

Updated on society 2024-04-09
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think she may still like you, but maybe she won't accept you so quickly due to the influence of the previous relationship, you can not mention this matter for now, and confess it again after a while, say it to your face, girls are very reserved, if you say it once she agrees, it is also possible that she is not very serious about feelings.

    If you are rejected once and disappear, it means that you don't love her, and girls don't like such boys.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Take your time! She can't be unsympathetic to you, she just doesn't feel the time! Originally! If you don't confess to her so early, you can get along slowly, from holding hands to hugging, to kissing, and then there's everything! Do you still care about a confession?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Forget it, netizens

    Online dating is so impractical

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I also sympathize with you, because I also confessed to being dumped, but I want to tell you.

    Love doesn't just come out of nowhere, you don't think the same way as it is. And you've only known each other for a long time, do you think a woman's heart is so easy to get? If you really like her, slowly get to know each other and let him feel your love, you know!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you have identified the right path, you will continue to walk and do your best to pursue your happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let's talk about it! Many laughing poor people have different opinions and opinions, but I think that after the confession fails, whether you can continue to be friends completely depends on your heart, if you feel that the other party is worth dating and can bring you growth, you should not give up easily, you can still continue to be friends, if the other party makes you miserable and makes it difficult for you to sleep, then you can consider giving up contact. When we go to confess to our beloved with great anticipation, there are generally only two kinds of waiting, if we succeed, we will become sweet lovers, and if we fail, we will become the most familiar strangers.

    But many also believe that confession is a clarion call for victory, not a gamble. It does make sense, only when you have enough understanding of both the old and the other party, or when both parties are silently maintaining this ambiguous relationship, the confession can be successful! But the reality is that there are many people who have a crush on each other without the other party's knowledge, and they are afraid that they will lose each other, so they will always take a certain risk to try to confess.

    Needless to say, the odds of such a confession winning are almost small. Not only will you not get the approval of the other party, but you will also lose a precious friendship because of this. After the confession fails, it is difficult to take the initiative to contact the other party, first, you will feel that you are interfering with the other party's life, and second, you will feel that you are licking a dog, which is undignified.

    There is nothing wrong with this feeling, but what we have to be clear about is that it is a question of whether we can be friends after a failed confession, not whether we can be friends after a breakup! The two are not the same, and it is easier to continue each other's friendship than to confess defeat than to break up. Don't let this friendship come to an end because of your wrong feelings of lack of dignity or so on.

    Before the confession, the two sides have endless topics, but after the confession fails, there will be an inexplicable estrangement between the two parties, and the key to whether you can continue to be friends is to see how you deal with this estrangement. In my opinion, I think a friendship worth cherishing is more important than the so-called face, and a person who is worthy of your confession will definitely have something for you to appreciate, and such a friend should not be given up easily. We should be rational about love and friendship, love and friendship are separated, and no love does not mean that there can be no friendship.

    Life is short, it is rare to meet a lover, and having a friend is an important network resource, so I advise all friends who confess failure, love is gone, and friendship must be firmly controlled!

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