Why are all the girls I like like this?

I think it should be that they have never thought of becoming a couple with you before, they just want to keep a friend relationship with you all the time, they think this is very good, and they like you as a friend, but suddenly one day you suddenly tell her that you like her, she may not be able to accept it for a while, because the relationship has been so good before, you suddenly say that you like her, she doesn't know how to reject you, for fear of hurting you. So I had to avoid it. Because they think that avoiding it is the best way.

I think that to be a real man, you must first make yourself rich and powerful.

Women, a lot! I think if you only try to find a woman, in fact, this question is also very simple, the key is to get to know her, and then spend a night with her in a hotel, naturally she will treat you differently.

They don't like you, they don't mean that to you, they only treat you as a good friend, maybe they all think that you are only suitable to be a friend, not a lover.

It's okay to confess, but you also have to see if people are a little interesting to you, and if people don't like you at all and confess, of course they will avoid you.

Because they never thought you were the person they were going to date.

So when you confess to them.

They will be scared.

So choose to escape.

Maybe it's the fear of taking it, it's okay, and it's advisable to run away without love.

Then you should be a good friend, they stay away from you so that you don't like them anymore, and most girls do that!

People just don't feel for you, don't force it, don't force it.

Friends and loveThey are very right Choose friends, you have to respect them!

What you like, not necessarily like you, like, not love!

I don't feel it for you! It started out as a friend!

I also have such friends of the opposite sex, it's okay to be a friend, but it's not bad to be a lover, you should understand.

Friends and lovers are not the same after all.

As for your family of origin, your parents, you can choose to reconcile or not, forgive or not, and solve the original trauma, so that you can have more confidence to establish an intimate relationship.

Secondly, to look at the emotional problem calmly and rationally, in the process of pursuing love, you should have a little bit of your own opinions, don't like it because of the scum others are good to you, you like it, this kind of love is not necessarily love, and don't easily take gratitude as a sedan to know the excitement of love, such feelings often can't go to the end, the best thing to do is to understand your own deep feelings, and have a correct attitude towards feelings, so that you can really have the love you want!

Third, the lack of love when I was a child will indeed form a kind of dependence psychology, and it is normal to like a person who depends on it, just like your admiration for girls, but it is impossible to achieve love for a one-way like for one person to another, it must be a manifestation of love for each other, there is no difference between liking the same sex and the opposite sex, it depends on whether you like that person or not, will you want to have further intimate contact with closed socks? If you have both, of course, it can't just be a friend.

Fourth, you have resistance to intimate contact with the opposite sex, largely because you don't know or understand intimacy, and instinctively have fear or resistance to such unknowns, on the one hand, you don't like it enough, on the other hand, you don't know enough, if you meet your own heart and make yourself feel at ease, it may be much better, these things that only you can be sure of.

Finally, study psychology appropriately, read more books on this subject, learn to deal with all kinds of psychological distress, try to get yourself out of mental internal friction, and the first step in establishing intimate relationships with others is to establish correct cognition, and at the same time have a strong heart, everything must come slowly, come on!