There is borrowing and repaying, it is not difficult to borrow again, is it good to owe others favor

A friend said to me that if someone else has helped you, you have given someone a gift or a red envelope, and someone else accepted it, which means that you have returned the favor. Otherwise, others don't accept this red envelope or this gift, then you are very bad, because you owe others favors, and it is not good to repay if you owe favors, and the most feared thing about people is to owe favors, because when you pay back, you have to consider whether you have the ability, if you can't pay it back, others will complain about you.

In this life, I am most reluctant to owe others favors, and if I owe others favors, I have to consider whether I can afford to pay it back, I am a person who is embarrassed to refuse others, others ask me for help, if I can help others within my ability, I will definitely try my best to complete. But many times will create trouble for themselves, I remember once an old classmate came to beg me, came up is a burst of compliments, I was immediately moved, on the one hand, it is a classmate friendship, on the other hand, it is a matter of face, and I feel very moved by the compliments of others. This vanity can't stand it, easily agreed to other people's requests, and spent a long time helping others to complete, this task, I was very happy at the time, and the other party also expressed gratitude to me, but I didn't expect this matter to have a follow-up.

When I heard someone relay my old classmate to say my words behind my back, I was mad at the time, because I thought that when I was in school, I owed this old classmate a favor, so he came to ask me for help today, I thought about returning the favor to him, this favor to return, I didn't expect it to be so difficult. This incident also tells me a truth, you can't owe others a favor if you owe anything, and if you owe someone a favor, think about it quickly and don't think about delaying.

Things that can be solved with gifts and red envelopes, you must be willing to give up that I have a friend before I don't understand his behavior, I think he is very worldly, the two of us do things together, as long as he asks me to be a little busy, he will always use some gifts for the first time, or send a red envelope to repay my favor, at that time I think he is very hypocritical, because we have a good relationship, so I give you as a friend, I take the initiative to help you, I don't want to ask for anything from you. But the other party and I have different ideas, people feel that they owe others favors are the most tired, and people use gifts and red envelopes to solve this kind of thing for the first time, just don't want to burden themselves, and don't want others to leave a tongue.

Now I can especially figure this out, because I have also experienced some things, so I am the most reluctant to owe favors to others. Because other people's favors are the worst, what can be solved with money and gifts, hurry up and do it, don't delay.

It's not good to owe someone a favor. It will make you feel a little indebted in your heart, and it will also make you feel very uncomfortable.

It's not good to owe others favors, and I always feel that I have no confidence to speak in front of others and I don't feel the respect of others.

It's not good, I always feel that I owe someone something if I owe someone a favor, and there will be a big burden in my heart, and one day I will have to return it to others.

It's actually bad to owe someone a favor, because you may feel guilty and uncomfortable all the time.

It is not good to owe others favors, and the most difficult debt in the world to repay is the debt of favors

So sometimes I personally think that it's not that we don't lend them money, it's just that some of their credit really has a bad influence in our hearts, which leads to our reluctance to lend them money. This is also a very normal phenomenon, so try not to have an economic relationship with friends in the future. Because there may be some conflict between you.

Some people ask you to borrow money because you want to have a split ending, and blindly compromising in exchange for not necessarily gratitude, but also worsening the damage. Money is not a means of maintaining friendships, but borrowing money is more likely to tear a relationship apart.

Your side is already stretched thin and cannot afford to pay your debts again. When you meet such a partner, you can only treat it as a waste, hoping to see the money back in your lifetime.

This kind of person is generally more selfish, and it is also the most angry, he has money to spend, but he does not repay the debt, and he can only take legal means in the face of this kind of person.

More and more people are not paying back the money. Why is that? Ultimately, there are three reasons.

1) Selfishness. The characteristics of this type of people are: they have money to spend by themselves, but they don't pay their debts. I buy it myself, and I don't have the money to pay it back to others.

2) No money. Under the influence of Western thought, people nowadays generally live a life of advanced consumption. Car loans and housing loans overdraft people's financial capacity, repay the loan every month, and become insolvent! There is no extra money to pay back relatives and friends.

3) Hate the rich. This kind of person always feels that everyone else owes him. If you have money, you have to spend it. When I said that I borrowed money, it was actually a disguised way of asking for money. So I owe it and don't pay it back.

Whatever the reason, you still have to pay back the money you owe to someone. Don't hurt the feelings of relatives and friends because of money. Acquaintance is fate, do it and cherish it!

Knowing why more and more people owe money and don't pay it back? Therefore, when someone borrows money like you, you must think twice, don't blindly lend money to others, even if it is a particularly good relationship, if you have to borrow, you must have enough understanding of some of the other party's situation, such as economic status, repayment ability, etc., and then make a judgment on whether to borrow.

Because there are so many old people in the whole society who do not repay the money as an example, and there will be no particularly serious consequences if they do not repay the money, everyone has learned not to be honest.

So, now it's up to you to be vigilant. If you want to borrow money, you should first be mentally prepared that you don't want the other party to return the money. Otherwise, don't borrow money out!

Why are more people lending now, who borrows money from you when the time comes, you tell him that he can borrow money in **, Baitiao, Huabei, these early consumption channels are more, just say that you are spending in advance now, see if he is embarrassed to borrow, last time a male classmate who has not seen for many years said to a female classmate that he borrowed 200 yuan, and there is a problem with the man's character, and there is a problem with the strange netizen who has never met on the Internet, this kind of character is a problem, he wants good popularity, why not ask for help from the people around him, Such people have long been isolated in their lives.

People now. It's more impetuous! I like to slap a swollen face and rush to the fat man.

There is no money. I really love to enjoy it. A house and a car.

I like to follow the trend. Love the loans. I like to engage in credit cards.

Loves to brag. In the final analysis, it is moral education. People don't pay much attention.

I think there are indeed a lot of people who borrow money and don't pay it back, this social phenomenon is really bad, it is the uncle who borrows money, and the one who wants others to repay the money is the grandson. So I think it's better not to borrow money, if others really need to manage you to borrow money, you should also look at the integrity of the other party, so as not to hurt the harmony when you want others to repay the money in the future, after all, the money is not blowing in the wind, it is not easy to make money, some people can lend money to him, and some people can't borrow it, and they can't borrow it back, and they have to hurt their feelings, so they have to be cautious when lending money to others.

There are several kinds of people who borrow money and don't pay it back, one is that there are too many bankruptcy debts to pay off, the second is that they can't repay due to natural and man-made disasters, and the third is that they don't pay it back, so there are many people who don't repay the money they borrow now, and they must be cautious when lending money in the future.

In today's society, there are a lot of people who borrow money and don't pay it back, some borrow money and really don't have money to pay it back, and some people who have money just don't pay it back are very thick-skinned, and people in today's society are very selfish and immoral.

Hello, this is also what people are used to now, if you pull down your face and say don't borrow when he borrows, there will be no such things.

So don't borrow money now, you won't get it back if you lend it out, and you'd rather make him angry when you don't borrow than when you ask him for money!

Then why are there so many people who lend money to others, is it a relationship or high interest, so you can only give a small number of people who borrow money, forget it, and if you provoke this kind of thing, it is better not to do it, or give, borrow what to borrow.

In today's society, people's hearts are unpredictable, and real friends are not easy to make, so in this society, we must be cautious and optimistic about the essence of people before associating with him, and trustworthy friends can lend him money, otherwise this thing will never happen.

Now people's hearts have changed. Society has changed. There are too many people who have no conscience. There are too many selfish people who always ask for others. Take it for granted.

There are a lot of selfish people now, so you should be cautious when borrowing money, don't borrow money casually, it will be too sad and hurt your money if you don't come back when the time comes.

In these years, don't lend money to others easily, when you borrow it, you are a relative, and when you repay it, you are an enemy, and in the end, you can't even be an ordinary friend.

One is that I can't afford to pay it back, and the cost is too great. Second, some people just deliberately don't want to pay it back, but want to continue borrowing.

It's a matter of personal qualities and upbringing, so don't just lend money to others.

These are people who have lost their integrity and are not worth associating.

Since childhood, our parents have taught us to be an honest and trustworthy person, and told us that when we borrow other people's things, we must return them on time, as the so-called good borrowing is not difficult to borrow again, but when we grow up, we often encounter some dishonest people in real life, and these people often borrow money from us or other people around them, deliberately default and do not return, the reason why these people would rather go to jail than pay back, I personally think that it is mainly due to the following factors.

First of all, we have to admit that in fact, most people are unwilling to be a laid-back, and they are very concerned about their reputation, but some people are often because they are not doing well in business, and it is difficult for them to really bear the debts that are about to expire, so in this case, these people have no better solution, and have to choose to be a lai-do-old way to escape, but no matter what, as an adult, you should be responsible for and pay for your actions, or should you actively think of a way, Pay off the money you owe in a timely manner, so that you can make yourself truly relaxed.

On the other hand, the reason why some people would rather be old men than pay back the money is that these people think that the cost of being a bad guy is lower than the cost of repaying the money, so these people also ignore the so-called integrity, only look at the actual interest choice, when the old man does not pay back, for such people, I personally think that in the law should be given more severe punishment means, so that they can really have pressure in their hearts, so that these old men are really willing to return the money they owe.

But no matter what, back to the beginning of the sentence, to be an honest and trustworthy person, is the most fundamental principle of our life, no matter what kind of reason and reason, for the money we owe, we should return it as soon as possible, so that we can really feel at ease.

Why do many people borrow money and don't pay it back? What kind of psychology are they? What are the excuses? Generally speaking, people who borrow money and don't pay it back often have the following ten excuses, which make people speechless, have you ever met something more bizarre?

1.I borrowed money from you to show that we have a good relationship, otherwise, why not borrow from someone else? You borrowed it to show that you are interesting enough, and on the surface our relationship is indeed iron enough.

But how did our relationship come about? Why did you lend me money? Isn't it because I helped you before?

Without my help, you probably wouldn't be where you are today? So, I borrowed some money from you, and I deserved it, why are you in a hurry, really.

2.You can borrow money from me, it shows that your economic conditions are good, it shows that your luck is good, your fate is good, if I were like you, I will not open my mouth to borrow money from you, you look at me now, and then look at your appearance, this money is not so urgent for you, don't be so stingy!

3.I was ready to pay you back, why are you still urging every now and then, either explicitly or implicitly, urging me to be upset, just for that money, what are you doing, as for it, the more you urge like this, the more I just don't want to pay it back, see what you can do, right?

4.In life, who doesn't have a difficulty, I'm not happy now, I just borrowed some money from you, can you take advantage of people's danger like this, fall into the well, and force people into a corner? It's still so ugly, if you do it again and push me into a hurry, I really won't pay it back.

5.It's so unjust, I will lend you some money, you go around saying that you make yourself like my savior, borrowing money is my personal privacy, but you use it as a handle to step on me, it's really unkind! If you want to take a few broken money to insult my personality, you are unkind, then don't blame me for being unjust, don't want to go back to this money for the time being, see if I am in a good mood that day, right?

6.You said that when you lent me the money, you said that you were not in a hurry, you would pay it back slowly, and you would pay it back, but why are you in such a hurry now? (Take other people's politeness as an excuse).

7.Don't say it, if you refused to lend me money at that time, it would be fine, if it wasn't for your money, I wouldn't have been fooled by my investment? In other words, if you hadn't lent me money, I would have been able to stop the loss in time, and I wouldn't have lost so much at all!

I've lost all my money now, I don't have any money, I just want to die, you can do it!

8.Didn't you just borrow some money from you, and your face at that time made me unhappy when I thought of it, and treated me as if I was asking for food. Now that you've come to ask me for money, you can first experience the humble feeling I felt when I borrowed it.

9.Don't think I don't know where you got that money, and now asking me for money is pushing me so hard, be careful that I tell your secrets!

10.You have a car, a house and a deposit, and I'm struggling at the trough right now, can't you give me more leniency? Besides, it's not that I won't pay you back, it's just that I'm really tight now, so you are so aggressive, you know, the rabbit is in a hurry and bites.

After reading the above ten psychology or excuses for borrowing money and not paying it back, it really makes people speechless, and it is reasonable to borrow money and not pay it back, which is really unreasonable! Well, you've met even more bizarre.