Right now, I m a little overwhelmed by the future.

Heck, in fact, you don't have to complain, the right to read or not to read is all up to you, but you should also consider what your parents expect from you, parents in the world, understand them more, and you will insist on reading it! In fact, everyone is very ignorant about the future, if you haven't finished your studies, talk about your future, so what's the point? Why bother to enter a larger school --- society after completing your studies!

You will naturally know what you are looking for, what the future you are looking for, and you will do your best not to let down your parents, and not to abandon yourself! Believe in yourself, the social school is really enough to learn, you can't finish learning, you will do it, right? Come on, come on, come on!!

Trouble, thanks!

When I first came to work, I was in the same state as you! After analyzing myself, I chose to leave my old company.

Now I feel like my life is amazing!

My experience should be my advice to you:

1. Ask yourself a few questions:

Who am I? (Whose colleague you are, whose friend.)

I'm from **?

I'm going to **?

What kind of life do I want? (You can use "happiness" and "joy"...)words to describe).

What kind of life am I going to live?

To be refined, specific, such as what is the material life? What kind of wife (husband) will you marry in the future?Be specific.

I'm going to **?

This is very important, where can you achieve your goals? What is the state of reaching the goal? Think about it.

I'm from **?

If you know that you have come from **, you know how wide the resources behind you are, so make good use of it! These are the resources you already have.

Who am I? — Know who I am? Just know who will help you, who is your potential resource, and who is a strong support for your development.

3. If you have read the previous one and two, make a bold decision!

Why do you think people should live? What's the point of living just to be like you? You can also find something that interests you to do and make good arrangements for your future life without taking into account the eyes of others.

Don't force yourself to hit the height of others, you will never reach the height of others, being yourself is the best. Others will also fail to meet your standards, and once you understand, accept and believe this truth, your inferiority complex will disappear.

You're only in your third year of junior high school, and it's still too late to look back and step up your efforts. There are several things that need to be done:

Clause. First, we must work hard. You should spend all your energy and time on studying, and you should concentrate without distractions, and other things are small things compared to studying.

Clause. Second, be self-confident. If you don't get good results now, it doesn't mean you won't do it in the future. We must listen carefully, ask for advice with an open mind, and do not feel inferior and give up on ourselves. Believing that if you put your time and energy into studying, you will gradually improve, which is a certain thing.

Clause. Third, you must be able to persevere. Whether the results can go up in the future is by no means dependent on temporary efforts, but on continuous efforts. You should not fish for three days and dry your nets for two days.

Like long-distance running, you have to have sustained endurance and anticipation, and you can't run 10,000 meters at a 100-meter sprint speed, you can't go far in that way. You have to tune your energy into the right state, just like playing a guitar, the strings are too loose and too tight, and you can't play a beautiful sound.

Clause. Fourth, there are many cases. Continuous efforts to achieve academic success; Later, I caught up and achieved my dreams, there are too many cases in this regard, and I am afraid that I can't work hard and can't persevere. There is a point of hard work, there is a point of harvest. As long as the effort is deep, the iron pestle is sharpened into a needle.

Let's learn about car repair, blue-collar technicians are better.

The world is hot and cold, there is no need to cater to it, people are warm and cold, don't care. The body is in all things, and the heart is in all things.

Do what you can and find direction in it.

It's too late to regret anything.

First of all, you have to be confident. Find the reason for your lack of confidence and make yourself confident.

Surround yourself with confident people to boost your self-confidence. Self-psychological suggestion, constantly reinforcing oneself positively, and avoiding negative reinforcement of oneself. Once you have made progress, say to yourself:

I can do it! "I'm great! I can do better!

And so on, which will constantly improve your confidence. Establish a confident external image. First of all, maintaining a neat and decent appearance is conducive to enhancing one's self-confidence; Secondly, self-confidence in behavior, such as walking and looking ahead, may not be used to it at first, but after a period of time, you will have confidence from the heart; In addition, exercising and staying in shape can also help boost your self-confidence.

Don't be overly modest. Humility is necessary, but it should not be excessive, and it is extremely detrimental to overly devastate oneself in the cultivation of self-confidence. Learn to smile. Smiling increases happiness and, in turn, self-confidence.

and learn to play to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses. In study, life and work, seize the opportunity to show your advantages and specialties, and at the same time pay attention to make up for your own shortcomings, and continue to make progress, which will definitely enhance your self-confidence. Read more biographies of celebrities, because many celebrities do not have good qualifications and external environment before becoming famous, and if you read more materials in this area, it will help improve your self-confidence.

If you are well prepared before engaging in an activity, you will be more confident in doing it, and it will help you to complete the activity successfully and increase your overall self-confidence. Set yourself the right goals, and once you've achieved them, set higher goals. The goal should not be too high, otherwise it will not be easy to achieve, and if it is not reached, it will destroy self-confidence.

Take another risk. When you do something you didn't dare to do before, you will find that there is nothing great about doing it!

It's a great way to boost your self-confidence. Eliminate stress. Excessive stress can make you depressed and doubt yourself, which can destroy your self-confidence, and learning to eliminate stress can help you maintain your self-confidence.

Do what you love. Because you are more committed to what you like to do, it is easy to achieve success, and then you have a sense of achievement, which is very conducive to the improvement of self-confidence.

Finally, stay healthy. Pay attention to comprehensive nutrition, ensure physical exercise, maintain a happy state of mind, and good physical and psychological conditions will make you feel happy and then self-confident. Try to rely on yourself.

Try to solve things by yourself, you can continue to stimulate your own potential, and through success again and again, you can constantly improve your self-confidence.

Self-confidence is the first key to success, and those who are aspiring to become successful should cultivate your self-confidence. Believe in yourself and I can do it.

I'm also bored, taking care of the kids every day, and I really don't have any time.

You should design a life goal.

You can reply to him like this:

What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

When you first start looking for a job, you just need to avoid being too picky. What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up.

To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.