What do girls often mean by feeling safe???

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, long and thin boys are insecure in the eyes of some girls, and girls hope that their boyfriends can protect themselves when they are in danger, which is a subconscious feeling. Don't be strong, but it's really not good to be too thin...

    Second, there should be a sense of responsibility. Boys who are responsible will give girls a sense of peace of mind and feel that they have something to rely on. You're with her.,I have a responsibility for you.,It's not just playing.,For the current situation of falling in love as a meal.,Compared with the love boy in love.,Needless to say, the sense of security.。。。

    Exclude those girls who also like to play.。。 )

    Third, there is also the connotation, there is a knowledgeable other half, when you have any problems, you will feel that someone can help you solve them, which will make girls have a sense of worship and satisfaction. (This is not necessarily an academic qualification, everyone has different fields and majors, which is very attractive for girls.) )

    Fourth, in this society, of course, economic reasons are not ruled out... This is what many consider to be the definition of security ... I feel that with money, I have to rely on, and I have a sense of security... Ay...

    It's just a personal feeling.,After all, everyone is a different character.,The sense of security expected is also different.,Some girls are still very confident.,There's no need for a so-called sense of security.。。。

    Hope it helps you ha, o( o

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The sense of security is very abstract, each girl has a different opinion, that is, when you are with him, you will feel very relieved, in fact, I think it has nothing to do with whether you are fat or not, the main thing is that the boy's sense of responsibility, a good man will give people a sense of security, the most important thing is that you must be sincere to the girl, do not deceive her, I think this is already very good

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In terms of appearance, thinness itself will give people a very thin feeling, with no shoulders to lean on;

    Secondly, a man's self-confidence is very important. A man must be psychologically mature, if you are not confident in yourself, the girls around you will not have confidence in you. All think you're insecure and unreliable.

    The so-called sense of security is to give people reliable and down-to-earth, to put it bluntly, it is "the sky is stepping down, and we men are resisting".

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are two aspects, one is the external aspect, which allows girls to stand up when they are bullied, and the other is the internal emotional aspect, which can no longer be messed with outside. If you can reassure a girl from the inside out, it means that this person has a sense of security.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A sense of security is a feeling that is different for everyone. However, most girls have a father-love plot, look at her father and maybe you can find the answer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, for girls, men's sense of security is not single, and different men can give different women a sense of security.

    For example, if you go shopping with your girlfriend one day and some men are always staring at her, what would you do?

    Or what someone does to him, will you be because the other person is tall, or rich and powerful, or you are always unwilling to stick to it no matter what you do? It's up to you to find out for yourself!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think it is to protect her and love her. It can make girls feel your presence.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, the sense of security means that you have a car and a house, and you guarantee that all the money is spent on her, and you absolutely don't like others.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A sense of security that others can afford to fight when they see you. You can block a knife for your girlfriend at a critical time! You're too thin, can you cover your girlfriend?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A good man will give people a sense of security, and the most important thing is that you must be sincere to that girl and not cheat on her, I think this is already very good.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Landlord, the sense of security is your promise, and you want you to say "I will protect you for the rest of your life".

    Hehe: Thank you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Banknotes. Except that banknotes are still banknotes.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Why are all girls talking about security, what is security?

    - Qu San. I was bored, I happened to see a blind date show, and I watched two episodes in a row, and four or five female guests mentioned a sense of security at the same time, which scared me so much that I didn't feel safe, so I quickly turned off the computer.

    What exactly is security?

    The psychological interpretation is the possibility of physical or psychological danger or risk, as well as the individual's sense of powerlessness in coping with things, which is mainly manifested as a sense of certainty and control.

    We hear the word security most often in a relationship, and it's usually girls who say it the most. To put it simply, when a girl says that she is insecure in a relationship, she actually has a sense of uncertainty and uncontrollability, uncontrollability towards the other party, and uncertainty about the future.

    Where does the sense of security come from?

    We habitually look for security in others, because it is easier than creating security ourselves. From the beginning of our lives, from the beginning of being in the mother's womb, our sense of security begins with our mother, when we begin to grow up, family is an important part of our sense of security**, when we enter social life, the connection with the family becomes less close, the sense of self in us begins to awaken, the desire to leave our parents, the sense of security is lost**, and then, we begin to re-establish intimacy (boyfriend and girlfriend), our sense of security is re-established, so we find security from our partner. However, the relationship between lovers is different from blood relationship, the death and life of our love in one second may be like a stranger in the next second, there are too many unstable factors, and it is easy to be disturbed by the outside world, so there is a lot of instability in this sense of security.

    A true sense of security should be in yourself, in your own confidence and self-confidence, in your spiritual wealth and material freedom.

    Spiritual security requires us to constantly improve ourselves. Each of us comes from a different family of origin, more or less in the process of growing up in the process of encountering some problems, leaving some psychological trauma, I think reading a book or extensive reading is a process of self-healing, listening to different stories, experiencing different lives, a book is a kind of landscape, the lack of spiritual security is essentially psychological trauma at work (don't doubt it, almost everyone has it). Some people say:

    I have walked more roads, I have seen more scenery, and the whole person has become much more transparent.

    Girls should have a job they love and a fancy makeup.

    Material security. Economic independence can be personality independence, this sentence is reasonable, compared to spiritual independence, economic independence is the foundation, at least, we will not lower our living standards because of any person, will not be unable to live because of anyone. For financially independent women, love is the icing on the cake, and without love, I still smile like a flower and live a vivid life.

    Girls' insecurity is sometimes more of an emotional need and a spiritual vacancy, so we should study hard, see the scenery well, clean ourselves up, and become more calm and confident!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1.A sense of security is a boy's concern and concern for a girl.

    2.It's the trust that boys have in girls.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    200727. What is the sense of security that girls say?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It refers to whether the marriage or boyfriend relationship is reliable, whether it feels reliable and reliable, whether it can give itself a guarantee not to be hurt, and whether there is no third party to intervene to live happily and happily, which is a sense of security.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Everything has a fall, everything has a response, not a quarrel to say whatever you think, let alone a cold war.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    With the Lord, don't flirt everywhere, of course, your love for her must be expressed, and it doesn't matter if you are domineering and strong.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your boyfriend has few friends of the opposite sex and introduces you to his friends.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It is to reassure people, there is no uneasy psychology, no risk factors, and a safe mentality.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Have an economic foundation, be ambitious, be very mature in terms of feelings, have a sense of manhood, be responsible, and be able to plan for the futureKnow how to respect the woman.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    is protected, and her boyfriend has few peach blossoms. I don't always make myself jealous.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Have a career foundation financially, be emotionally mature, and have a manly spirit.

    Be responsible, plan for the future, and be in control of the overall situation.

    Totality is a feeling of reliability, a sense of dependence.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First, no matter what you do, tell him in time to let him know what you have done so that he can rest assured. Don't wait until he hits the ** check before you tell him, if you wait for him to hit the ** check before telling him, he will feel that it is not important in your heart at all. Second, if you have something to do, tell him in time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Women must know how to put forward needs in relationships.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What exactly is a woman's so-called sense of security.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    200727. What is the sense of security that girls say?

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