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Facing difficulties and setbacks.
Setbacks are also the dregs of life's wealth, and almost everyone expects smooth sailing. Many people say: On the way forward, even if there is no song and swallow dance, no blooming flowers, it is best that there is no wind and rain, no setbacks.
Actually, it's impossible. I'm not thinking about this topic here, though. I would like to talk about my own views on setbacks.
I realized more and more deeply that setbacks are also an asset in life. A life without setbacks is overshadowed in a sense.
Saying that "setbacks are the wealth of life", the main point is that setbacks make us smarter, stronger, more mature, and more perfect. Of course, this requires us to withstand setbacks in the first place. As the saying goes:
Suffer a loss, grow a wisdom". This is an absolutely "old man's words", an absolutely reasonable philosophical saying. For example, a child was accidentally bitten by a dog, and it hurt and cried.
For the child, this is a setback. After this setback, the child knows that dogs can bite, and he must be wary of dogs. The next time, he will find a way to avoid being bitten by a dog.
Wouldn't that make it a little smarter? However, in real life, I just noticed that people who have been bitten by dogs have been bitten by dogs again! How can this be understood?
I analyze it and think that the key lies in people's attitude towards frustration. Similarly, to avoid being bitten by dogs, some people take the method of yelling and screaming when they see a dog, pulling their legs and running away, which backfires and fuels the arrogance of dogs, and it is inevitable to be bitten by dogs again; When someone saw the dog coming, he just bent down and pretended to pick up a brick from the ground, and the dog immediately slipped away with his tail between his legs. Even people who have never been bitten by a dog can still use the latter method against dogs.
This is because smart people are not only able to understand some truths from their own setbacks, but are also good at summing up lessons from the failures of others. From this point of view, isn't setbacks a rare spiritual wealth? It is true that we can learn from the lessons of others.
But I always feel that the path of life is too flat, and the whole life becomes boring. So, I thought, many of us who are parents, teachers, elders or leaders now, can we let go more and let our children go on their own, so that they can rely on their own efforts to achieve a career? There are also students who fail in the college entrance examination, can they also get something from the setbacks, cheer up, and start a new round of fighting?
If you have had more setbacks and hardships than others, then, once you succeed, you will inevitably have more joy than others. After experiencing setbacks and hardships, you will work harder, cherish more, and be more productive! The more afraid you are of dog bites, the more you will always be bitten by dogs.
Instead of always being passive, learn to take the initiative to attack. As long as we can withstand setbacks, then setbacks will make us smarter. Isn't it precisely the various setbacks that mankind has experienced that have been underneath human society and held up modern civilization?
Setbacks are indeed a wealth of life.
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