What should I do with such a boyfriend We have been together for four years and have beaten me twice

He has beaten you, proving that he has a short temper, and for whatever reason, a man can't do anything... You're still with him because he must still have some other virtues, and you're with him because you like his merits, but you find it hard to stand his temper and hope he changes something in the future... So, you waited 4 years?

If you have asked him to change before, and he has promised to change, and now he has not changed at all, it proves that he is a man who is not a man at all, and there is no reason to be together again, and it is not worth making yourself uncomfortable for such a man... If you think he is still saved, give him some time, if it's still the same ... If you should put it, you have to put it...

I wish the landlord happiness =v=

Now they are doing this to you, do you want to get married in the future, will you two still have a good life? Whether it's boyfriend or girlfriend, or husband and wife, it's all about respecting each other. Under such a premise, there will be peace and harmony.

He doesn't know how to be good to you now, he cherishes you, and he won't do well in this regard in the future. Let's talk peacefully and see if we can change him. If not, you should leave him.

You've been around for too long, and you've been a little bit comfortable with some things between you, even if they're not equal. If you go on like this, you won't be happy. It's even harder to make up your mind to leave him.

The premise of the two being together must be to be good to each other. So you can be apart for a while and see if anything changes.

He has a very serious tendency towards domestic violence, and if he lives with him for a long time, it may easily lead to the onset of mental illness such as depression, and it is recommended to end the relationship as soon as possible.

To put it another way, would you be willing to live for decades with the person who was abusive to you?

Why are you together?

I want to ask you why you are still with him Why do you still live with him I don't know if he loves you But from your complaints, you don't seem to like him very much anymore He finds fault with you I can't say that he doesn't like you Although he doesn't do it very right, but I think since you are someone who loves each other, the problem can be solved Have you talked about it well Are you often angry When you talk about it, don't say what you want to do, but say that I didn't do anything good Find my own bad It's been together for four years It's not easy, it's best to solve it, don't keep talking about breaking up, wait until he gets used to it, don't be fierce to you, that's the day he doesn't love you.

The boy who beats the girl is the most decisive.

He is too possessive of you and does not know how to be considerate of others. This kind of person is not worthy of love.

It's been four years and you're still like this, so you should think about whether you can stand it if you continue to live like this in the future. Were you like this before? If it is a sudden change, there must be a reason, you need to find this reason to solve it, you might as well find a suitable opportunity to talk to him well, to see if the problem is on him or you, maybe there is some misunderstanding in the middle.

And if you empathize with each other, do you have something that makes him dissatisfied, if these are done, and he still doesn't improve, then it's his problem, don't delay your youth, and then find your happiness.

Is there still love between you? It's like this before you get married, you still plan to be with him, and you will be unlucky with him for a lifetime, and this kind of person who likes to lose his temper at home is generally a person who has no ability, and he threatens you when you say you break up! Break off with him as soon as possible, take the law when you encounter this kind of scoundrel when necessary**, you must be careful of him in the future, and finally advise you, you have no future with this kind of person.

Legal measures can be taken! That's what he said. You don't have to be affectionate with him.

Hurry up and break up, such a man is so terrible, I feel cold when I look at it. I don't have to do anything in the future!

Dizzy, no children, nothing else.

For men with violent tendencies, we must have zero tolerance, because there is a saying that there is only zero coldness and countless times of domestic violence, and for a man who feels that his fists can solve the problem, he is not a good man himself. Now it's just a relationship, and he throws his fists at you, so if you really walk together, he will be even more unscrupulous. Of course, there are exceptions, but they are only a handful.

If you still want to test him, and don't want to let four years of relationship go to waste because of a single move, then try the following methods.

First, see if he apologizes to you. If your boyfriend apologizes to you in a timely manner after hitting you, and the apology is very sincere, then you can try to see if he is sincere. If he hits you and still feels that he is not wrong, and he is not willing to apologize to you at all, nor is he willing to say good things to you, then such a man will not be nostalgic and resolutely break up even if he gets along for a long time and loves again.

Second, see if he promises you that there won't be a next time. If he apologizes to you and promises that he will not have a next time, let you see his performance, and if there is a next time you can dispose of it, then you can also give him a chance to mend his ways. If he apologizes to you, but only makes any promises and guarantees, then he just wants to appease you instead of really realizing his mistake, so we must also resolutely break up in this situation.

Finally, see if he can live up to his word. Of course, it is not an apology, a promise, that we can forgive each other unreservedly, because if we are hurt in this way, it is we who will be hurt in the end. There must be a look at his actual actions in the days to come, to see if he is doubly good to you as he promised, whether he can really do what he says, and if he can do what he says, then it is still worth forgiving.

If you just talk about it, he will not be good to you in the future, or will be violent towards you, in this case, you must propose to break up.

In short, we must be cautious about boyfriends with violent tendencies, and never trust our lives to such people. But if the other party is really just confused for a while and doesn't really treat you badly, we might as well give him a chance, after all, the four-year relationship can't be broken.

Four years of relationship is a long time, if he starts beating you, you should choose to break up with him, no matter what a man does? He can't do it, there is violence, it shows that this man is very hot, he may have a bad temper, if you start beating you again after getting married, you definitely have no ability to resist, so in order to live a better life in the future, I think you can choose to break up.

Faced with such a situation, you should break up with your boyfriend immediately, because such a boyfriend is violent and not worth being with the other person.

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and it's a very bad start to hit you. I suggest that you should separate from him, dare to do it with you if you are not married, and dare not think about it after you get married.

Your boyfriend beats you for several reasons. First, you did something too much, which made him angry and anxious. Second, the boyfriend has violent tendencies.

The third point is that your boyfriend's love for you is gone. In fact, the most taboo thing between boyfriends and girlfriends is fighting. If you get married, you will definitely get out of control.

The specific way forward is up to you.

You have to find out the reason why he hit you, because there is something or the temper is like this, I personally think that the man who beats the woman is to be considered, and when he falls in love, he will do it, and there are more trivial things to live after marriage, so isn't there often domestic violence? If you are willing to endure it, then you can continue, if you feel that it is not good, the long pain is better than the short pain. I really can't put it down.

If so, it means that your boyfriend is a very short-tempered person, and under normal circumstances, men will not hit women.

Look at what it is, if you do it because of some small things, it means that his patience is not good, and he does not have a good sense of responsibility, and you have to consider whether you and he are going to a happier result.

This is not a good sign, no matter what the situation is, it is obviously not advisable to hit someone Hitting people can be addictive, especially when a man hits a woman It is even more incomprehensible Maybe it is a natural irritability and love impulse But if this is the first time, you still have to sit down with him and talk about it.

What is the situation, why is it fighting, what is the reason for your problem, then you correct the mistake, if he is wrong, break up. Anyway, I can't answer it right.

It's too much to start doing it before you get married, even if you get married, you can't do it, and it is said that there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence, and now it's starting to be like this In fact, it's not recommended to continue.

Break up directly, this kind of violent man should never give him a chance, once there will be a second time.

Sisters, let's divide it. There are only zero and countless times of domestic violence, and this is not married yet, it has already been started, and it is still necessary to get married.

I feel like you can break up with him because it's not good for the development of the relationship at all.

Summary. Most of the time, you don't love him much, and you can't forget your relationship, you love that beautiful past, and many times it's not that person anymore.

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I got along with my boyfriend for three years, he beat me when I quarreled before, the last time I quarreled very badly, he also started to beat me, we fought at his house, I called the police, and then he blocked me, I didn't contact me for half a month, I found out that I was pregnant, I went to his house and knocked on the door, he and his mother didn't open the door for me, I said I was pregnant, my mother let me open the door, my mother said I came back from the hospital and heard the neighbor say that you two fought and called the police, it was too stumbling or something, he said the last one I said let you go home and talk to your parents, If you want to, discuss marriage, you don't want it, this is worse than the previous one, and then he didn't have a good attitude towards me at first, and the child also said that he beat it, I don't know if it was angry, and finally his mother and his last meaning was to let me go home and talk to my parents, and talk to the two families during the New Year, let me go home and think about it, because my parents have not agreed to deal with him, so I didn't tell the family, and the next day he called ** and said that he and I went to the hospital to do the child, he said okay, and he deleted my WeChat after doing it, how can I get it back.

Most of the time, you don't love him much, and you can't forget your relationship, you love that beautiful past, and many times it's not that person anymore. If my answer is helpful to you, please give a thumbs up (in the lower left corner), I look forward to your like, your efforts are very important to me, and your support is also the motivation for my progress. If you feel that my answer is still satisfactory, you can click on my avatar for one-on-one consultation.

Finally, I wish you good health and a good mood!

Not satisfied with you.