Will you get married because of each other s request?

I'm a man, a married man.

My evaluation of a good man is limited to three points:

Filial piety, responsibility, self-motivated.

Many times we take money too seriously, especially after we are poor. may be out of filial piety, wanting to make their parents' lives better, and blindly pursuing money in society. But have we ever thought about it, those who have money, they want to go all out for power and status, even more money.

What about those in power? What are they after? However, they are "back to the basics" in the pursuit of health, and even in charity, the pursuit of spiritual wealth.

At the end of the day, money is for our lives, not for the material things that govern our lives.

And what is marriage?

Marriage is the fusion of two families, the intersection of two families. So everyone gets married, not just for themselves. I want to say that many friends who advocate love will work hard, but that's the way it is.

Usually the love we hold on to is too fragile compared to the trivialities in marriage and family. Married life is a process of compromise between two people, and cohabitation before marriage is a stage in which two people find each other's shortcomings and run in after they enter the stage of marriage.

A complete marriage, in addition to love and money, there are many more, but a qualified husband only needs filial piety, responsibility and self-motivation.

Neither finance nor love is the only foundation of marriage. In the face of love, money is dung, and in marriage and family life, love is dung, which is a cycle.

There is the happiness of being poor - that is the process of becoming rich after struggle. So once you choose marriage, don't talk about divorce easily.

Happiness is not just about having wealth and living a prosperous life, but about having a happy family and having children and grandchildren. Money exists for us to live better, and living is not just for making money. Don't take marriage as a bet, marriage and family are a person's lifelong career.

A long-lasting marriage is just a process of compromise between the two parties.

When I got married, I was penniless.

Now the child is 7 years old and we are very happy.

Hhaha, don't think about buying a house with a salary of more than 3,000, let's rent it.

To be honest, I've only read your first three paragraphs, and the rest is just a cursory look! Because I don't think it's necessary to look at it, the key word is only "money"! Although you don't need a lot of money, the following content is not something that a wage earner can afford!

I remember a question I had before, and he asked what kind of man makes a girl like! I'm a rich man! Because it's a very real question!

Women want to marry well! It's just that they have a different view of the values of marriage! Your question, I don't want to say more!

What I admire is a virtuous helper, not a woman who only talks nonsense and complains! You are an intellectual, I believe you will tell me the truth! After all, I think that to live a happy life, it is not just a matter of whether you have money or not!

To add: If you follow what you say, I feel that your boyfriend is still very reliable, at least he will be a good man. But if you repeatedly emphasize the issue of "money", then there is no need to be together, maybe your departure will be a good choice for him!

If you can share the joys and sorrows, I still hope that you try not to give up this relationship!

You can take a look at this link I gave you.

The two links above are the same person, if nothing else, that man must be tragic, I really feel sorry for him! I also hope that you will think about it again, or that sentence:

If you want to live a happy life, it's not just a matter of whether you have money or not!

Also: Current Status:

He - 82 years, college graduate, major in business management, monthly salary package food and accommodation about RMB3200, good character, thrifty, single-minded, responsible, but not self-motivated enough, it is easy to meet the status quo, the family is very poor because of farming;

I am 85 years old, graduated from a bachelor's degree, a monthly salary of about RMB3000 for food and housing, no expertise, only English level 6, like to learn, and now I am still constantly self-learning and charging, very lazy, I like to teach my husband and children at home, and my family is also very poor because of farming;

I laughed, you yourself are lazy, but you will still say that he is not self-motivated... Hehe, laughed, just laughed...

In fact, you have already analyzed it very clearly, and you think about it yourself, whether it is important to have money or whether it is important for both parties to have a good relationship. Of course, it is not ruled out that you will encounter both in the future, but the probability of this is not large, after all, there are not many people you have contacted, and it is impossible for there to be so many suitable golden beetle sons-in-law waiting for you to hang.

Tell me what I suggest! No one wants to live a hard life, but it depends on whether you and him have the ability to live well in the future, after all, life is not a person's business. As long as the two of you put in the effort, I'm sure you'll be happy.

Personally, I think that the condition that he is good to you should be put first in your consideration.

According to your ideas, you might as well not take it. I hope you can understand that life is not arranged by you, you are acting out according to life

No, marriage is something that can only be decided after careful consideration, and you need to get to know each other better and not leave yourself with regrets.

I wouldn't get married just because I was married, and I wouldn't have a happy marriage, and it would make me unhappy, which would be unfair to either of you. For me, marriage is a very sacred thing, and you can't marry for the sake of getting married, which would seem meaningless. It is a happy thing for two people to get married when they like each other, so that two people will have a common topic, understand each other, and thus feel the actual value of marriage.

The people around her, Pi Sakura, suddenly got married, this is their choice, they can't go with the flow, otherwise they will put themselves in the abyss of misfortune, and they will make themselves depressed.

Getting married because of marriage, so that two people will not be happy, and it will delay each other's time, such a marriage makes there is no hope. Marriage will only be happy if it is based on the same heart, and such two people will trust and respect each other, otherwise it will only be a kind of companionship in the marriage process, and such a marriage makes people feel very numb. If you don't live with someone you like, every day is torture, and it can also make people feel that life is an unfortunate beginning, and such a marriage hurts two people, or even two families.

Although marriage is a very beautiful thing, you will be happy when you are with the person you like, and you will get married for the sake of getting married, such a marriage exists in name only, and it will only make people not see the real appearance. Marriage should be responsible for each other, not as simple as child's play, only two people are built on love, so as to get a better ending, not two people choose to be together in order to get married.

If you get married for the sake of getting married, you will lose your happiness with each other, and you will also lose your longing for love, so that people will not see happiness. Marriage is when two people come together because of love, not for the sake of marriage, which can lead to a tragedy. In my opinion, you can't get married for the sake of getting married, otherwise it will make the marriage meaningless, and it will also make two people live in an unhappy atmosphere, and in the end they will not get the happiness they want.

Marriage is a matter for two people, and the question of whether to propose marriage should be decided by both parties through negotiation. In the program "Chinese Wedding - Good Things Come in Two Seasons", the Han guy provided his lover with a marriage proposal ceremony after receiving the certificate, which sparked discussion. Different people have different views on this issue.

Below I will analyze and ** from several aspects.

1.Marriage is a matter for two people, and the question of whether to propose marriage should be decided by both parties through negotiation. Therefore, if both parties believe that they do not need to propose to get married, then it is also acceptable.

In marriage, both parties should respect each other's wishes and decisions. If one party believes that a marriage proposal ceremony is needed to prove the other party's love, while the other party believes that it is just formalism, then both parties need to communicate and negotiate in order to reach a consensus. If, in the end, both parties agree that they don't need to propose marriage to get married, then this is also acceptable.

2.The role of a marriage proposal ceremony in marriage is not necessary. Therefore, if both parties do not care much about the proposal ceremony, then it is acceptable for the man to supplement the proposal ceremony for his lover after obtaining the license.

The role of a marriage proposal ceremony in marriage is not necessary. Some people think that a marriage proposal is a romantic ritual, while others think that a marriage proposal is just a formalism. Therefore, if both parties do not care much about the proposal ceremony, then it is acceptable for the man to supplement the proposal ceremony for his lover after receiving the license.

Doing so can express the man's love for his lover, and can also increase the sense of ritual and romance of marriage.

3.Whether a person is willing to propose marriage is not necessarily related to whether he loves each other and whether he takes marriage seriously. Therefore, marriage proposal should not be used as a criterion to measure whether a person is suitable for a hole in marriage.

Whether a person is willing to propose or not does not represent whether he truly loves the other person or whether he is serious about marriage. Some people may not care much about the marriage proposal ceremony or think it's just a formality. Therefore, a marriage proposal should not be used as a criterion to measure whether a person is suitable for marriage.

More importantly, both parties should understand, support and respect each other in their marriage, and work together to maintain the stability and happiness of the marriage.

As a modern woman, I can accept getting married without proposing. But if the other party has fully communicated with me before the marriage and knows that I am actually more eager for a romantic proposal, then I may feel a little contrived or emotionally regretful if I supplement the proposal ceremony after marriage. Again, this requires an understanding of each other, and in marriage too much attention to form can make the true meaning of life a little less colorful.

I value the romance embodied in my life more than just the romance of the wedding. Therefore, if the man can fully communicate with the woman before marriage, understand the woman's expectations for the proposal ceremony, and make a suitable decision on this basis, then the marriage will be better and happier.

This is not necessarily the case, not all people's words, marriage will have a marriage proposal, such a bank quiet process scum may only be a large part of the people, and there are and a small number of people are not serious about this process.

That's what you think. When did the thing that came from the West become a certainty? Nowadays, most people get married without a marriage proposal.

I don't choose to get married because the people around me get married.

Fu Seoul Yucong once said, "When you get married, you must marry someone you like very much, because marriage will suffer." The longer you live, the more you will suffer, if you are married to someone you like very much, you can only think about it if you suffer a loss, this is a bad balance with girls buying clothes, you are in a store, there is a very favorite dress, that is a little thread, or a button is lost, you can bear it, you will often wear it for a long time; But if you don't like it, you can't stand it, and you probably won't buy it, or throw it away soon after you do. Of course, if you have a bigger heart, your life can be a joke; If you have a small heart, you can also get a case.

Some people say that marriage is a gift, and some people say that marriage is the grave of love. Because only if you like it enough, you will be inclusive enough. ”

Indeed, whether a happy marriage is or not has nothing to do with material things, but it must have something to do with the person you choose!

Someone Qingli Ying said that this batch of post-90s people live too soberly in the face of marriage, and what I want to say is that even if you reach the marriageable age, don't be forced by the pressure given by the elders, and just find someone who has neither love nor affection to live with, just to get married for the sake of getting married.

Personally, I feel that marriage requires a marriage proposal, which reflects the boy's sense of responsibility and responsibility for the boy, and is responsible for the marriage. For girls who are older, they need to get the commitment of boys. If you don't propose, love won't be able to kick in the door, pierce the window paper, and sublimate the wisdom to a new stage.

A marriage proposal before marriage is necessary.

If you want to have a romantic memory, you should still propose, after all, marriage is also a major event in life, and it is good to have a proposal.

Marriage does not necessarily require a marriage proposal, marriage proposal is just a ceremony, and many older generations of Chinese do not have this method of marriage.