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I don't have the right to make you give up, because if we choose, we have to bear it. For love, we cannot interpret it in terms of right or wrong. Giving up is a kind of understanding of life, the most difficult thing for people is how to learn to give up, giving up is not a simple abandonment and escape, but also not an excuse for a negative life, we can not stop pursuing in life, but we also have to learn to give up.
Giving up is a rational choice, a rational cherishing, a transcendent beauty, and a profound love. Every choice is always accompanied by pain, because the choice is lost. In life, we always keep choosing, keep giving up, only give up, we can find the opportunity to truly belong to our own life, only give up we will not miss the person waiting for us at the next intersection, only give up we can get out of the past and no longer indulge, only give up can be painful and happy, in order to live happily.
When we can't have or give him or her happiness, or when having it becomes a pain, then why can't we choose to give it up sensibly? Although every choice is accompanied by pain and regret, after experiencing these, we know how to cherish, know how to bear, learn to make trade-offs, understand the true meaning of life, and make our lives more fulfilling. Therefore, I would like to say that only those who know how to give up can truly heal the pain of the past, and only those who feel the pain can have true happiness.
Pain and regret make us feel more deeply about life. If you and I are destined to have no chance in this life, if you are destined to be a hurried passerby, then please let us learn to let go of each other and know how to cherish it.
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The first thing to say is that the real estate certificate has nothing to do with the hukou. According to the relevant laws of the country, the child can be in the name of either you and your husband. However, if your hukou is linked to a relative's house, you must have the consent of the family.
You can go to your husband's place, but you need the child's birth certificate.
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I don't think if you don't love, you don't want to be together. Love is self-deception; It's too irresponsible to say you don't love it. At first, just because of a heart-warming glance, they ignored everything together; Now because my life is more ordinary, I want to let go of the woman who shared my worries with me.
I have to admit that at that time, under the low mood and strong alcohol paralysis, I began to not know the so-called feelings, and there were countless times when I wanted to end this absurdity. If the other person's love for you is evident, and the love for you is usually meticulous, then you can marry him even if you don't like him. Because in your future relationship, you may get closer to each other through various ways of getting along, and you may even gradually like each other.
However, it should be noted that the phenomenon of aging is rare, but it is possible. For people we don't love, most of the time it's hard for us to calm down and listen to each other's thoughts. Especially when someone you don't love accuses you, the other person will erupt, leading to constant arguments between you.
In fact, such a married life is a pain, so in this case, you are better off not marrying someone you do not love.
Even if you're married to someone you don't love, it's hard to find common ground because you don't love them. WhenWhen you interact with each other, you will find that married life is boring, there is no fun, and such a marriage is more like a pool of stagnant water. When you marry someone you don't love, you may betray them if you make any mistakes.
But when you take revenge on someone else, this kind of thing happens a lot and will only make your marriage worse.
MarryGive someone you don't like, although the other person loves you very much, but because you don't have any love for him, if you insist on getting married, it will end in divorce。Therefore, for the person they don't love, everyone has to decide whether to get married or not after their own careful consideration. In fact, it is very painful to marry someone you don't love, so you must pay attention to your marriage!
So I don't think if you don't love, don't be together.
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No, love is the foundation of being together.
You can never touch someone who doesn't love you, just like you can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep. Love has always been above board, love is love, and there is no way to recover if you don't love. Now that things have a result, there will be no turning back, since you don't love anymore, you won't be entangled anymore, people who don't love you won't be entangled with you indifferently, even if you try your best to redeem it, he doesn't want to turn back, even if you pay more, it's just in vain.
Because he doesn't love you anymore, so in his heart, you used to be very important to him, but now you may be nothing in his eyes, even if it's just an ordinary friend, he may hate you. The love that I once thought would never be left is now scattered. But if you don't love, you don't love, even if you forcibly keep his person around, you can't get his heart, such a man is like a puppet of love, without a soul, such a love will not be happy.
Those who know the times are Junjie, since the most important thing in love is gone, there is no need for this love to continue. Some men are very decisive in doing things, seeking truth from facts, if they don't love anymore, they won't be entangled with you anymore, and they have more important things to deal with besides you. A work-focused, career-minded man.
In addition to love, there are many more important things in this world, which deserve our attention and attention, love is the most important thing in love, once you don't love, this matter will be erased from the lives of these men. Often those work-focused, career-minded men do not pay much attention to the trivial things in life, and they usually think that work is the most important thing in life.
There is no need to stick to the love that you don't love, but people have to work, life still has to go on, if this kind of man doesn't love anymore, he won't continue to entangle with you. The pursuit of perfect love, thinking that there is no need to continue to fall too much in love love, injuries, bleeding and scars, pain in the heart, scars and scabs, every injury has turned into a powerful motivation to fight for self-improvement.
Everyone wants to have a perfect love, and there is a kind of man who finds that he is not in love or the other party is not in love, and he will feel that there is no need for this love to continue. Most of the perfectionists of this kind of man pursue perfection in everything, and they believe that there is no need to continue love without love, and even if it continues, there will be no good results.
Love face, men who are realistic when they encounter things Men love face, most of the time they are realistic when they encounter things, if they don't love it, they don't love it, and the man who can continue to be together in this situation may not be the only one in his heart, or maybe he just doesn't want to hurt you.
Usually a man who seeks truth from facts loves to drill the horns, and if he doesn't love, he can't continue to be together, this kind of man is usually very real, if he loves, he will love deeply, and once he doesn't love, he won't be entangled with you anymore.
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