What if you want to make good friends in college, but you are always disappointed?

I felt like I wanted to make good friends in college, but I didn't find them, and I used to feel like that.

Because there may be problems with the way I do things, and I may not have a common hobby with my friends, I have not made a true friend.

The path of life is always your own, and friends are not made immediately in a hurry. You can get to know the people around you, choose those who are more suitable for your three views, and can talk together, so that it is easier to become good friends. Also, college friends are not the only ones, academics are also very important in college, and you can improve yourself.

It's good to have one or two good friends in your life. Since you can't make good friends in college, treat them as ordinary friends. In this way, maybe many years after graduation, the relationship between you will gradually deepen and you will become good friends.

In addition, you should be careful not to get along with each other with a very deliberate mentality all the time.

Learn to intersect with fate, don't seem too deliberate, if it is too deliberate, it will have the opposite effect, like-minded friends will slowly appear on the road to your growth, it is useless to be anxious, people will meet a lot of people in their lives, and they can become friends with only a few, don't be discouraged, slowly find.

Lee Sang-ryong wrote in "You Just Look Hard":

I am a person who likes to compare hearts to hearts, and make friends regardless of other people's backgrounds or how much money other people have in their families. There is only one measure. It's whether you're sincere to people, because you've always been careful about making friends.

You need to see if you are sincere first, and the most important thing to make friends is to be sincere with each other, and if you don't, correct it in time. If you do, it means that you haven't met a friend who can really accompany each other, and there are really not many friends, but the essence. <>

In fact, I also have a goal in college is to make a sincere friend every year, so that there are at least 4 like-minded friends who can come together in four years, but the result is not satisfactory. Later, the idea was to treat others with sincerity, and the rest was up to fate.

I think if you want to make friends, you can take the initiative, you can develop a hobby, and you will have the opportunity to communicate with each other, so that you can make like-minded friends. At the same time, when getting along with others, we must also pay attention to our own attitude, we must be sincere, so that others can feel your sincerity, so that the friendship between two people will be more long-term.

True friends are hard to find, you know that treat others sincerely, you will always find someone who likes to be friends with you, and you will treat you sincerely, so don't be discouraged, there is still a long way to go, treat others well, don't feel that you are not good enough to be liked by no one, but you haven't met like-minded people yet.

You are a maxima, you have to find your own Bole, making friends is the same reason, indicating that you have not met a friend who has a common language with you, see the hearts of the people for a long time, and after a long time, you can always find a friend who gets along very well with yourself, be generous to others, and be more demanding of yourself, you can find friends.