How do you know what your heart wants?

When we were in psychology class, the teacher told us how we should understand ourselves, among them, when you spend a lot of time on a certain thing every day, then this thing is what you want, and what you want in your heart, for example, you are busy making money every day, then what you want in your heart is to make money, or some goals to achieve after making money, so you have to look at what you spend most of your time every day, and then analyze it according to the cost of this time, you want it now.

In fact, everyone has their own dreams, just to say that many people's dreams in the process of growing up, are stumped by various external reasons, and may be forgotten slowly, and they dare not think about what they once wanted to obtain or achieve some things, it is recommended that you can take a piece of paper and pen to record two questions, one, if conditions permit, what kind of work or industry do you hope to be able to engage in? Second, if possible, what kind of life do you hope to bring to yourself or your family? Think about these two questions carefully, write down all the answers on paper, and then analyze and implement them step by step according to the answers.

What does your heart want? This is related to the growth of life, as you grow older, the education you receive, the influence of your surroundings, the meaning of life, the cognition of things, the understanding of society, and what you want will change accordingly. Want to choose what you want right?

It is also necessary to have a certain ability. If you want to be capable, you have to learn! Learn cultural knowledge and skills.

Abilities include "thinking", "thinking", "desire" and "talent". Only with knowledge and talent can we have the capital to fight for what we want. With these is not enough, we must also have strong perseverance and the spirit of hardship and hard work!

Nothing will be smooth sailing, there will be setbacks, ups and downs, successes or failures in between. These will be the experiences of life, and they are all great treasures of life!

Try to listen to the voice of your heart, and He will tell you what you really want. What your hobbies are, what jobs you want, whether you are happy in your position, these can know what you want, from now on be a happy person, do the work you want in your heart, and follow your heart.

Write yourself a career plan and write your dreams.

When I was writing about my career plan, I wrote that I wanted to be a lawyer, and now I am working the way to take the law exam.

Only when you write your own ideas will you discover your dreams. When making career planning, you must assume that your goals can be achieved, so that you can find out what you really want.

Once you know what you want, no matter how difficult it is to implement, you must persevere, just like me, with two children under the age of 5, I still insist on reading books and taking legal exams every day to realize my dream of becoming a lawyer.

Depending on your age, if you're over 30 years old and still thinking about it, you can only say that you've experienced too little. Before the age of 30, read more, do more, and think less, and you won't know what you want. I give myself standard time to do things so that you can be who you want to be!

Only by constantly experiencing can we perceive where our hearts are heading. For example, when you experience turmoil, you know that what you want is tranquility, and when you experience difficulties, you know that you want to be deafening, and in the continuous loss and gain, you will hear the inner voice.

When you are confused and don't know what you want, you let yourself calm down, settle down for a while, don't think about anything, let yourself be empty, and enter the state of self. Then analyze the matter all over again, and then you will find out what you really want.

Think about what you need.

What you think is what you see, and what you see is what you think.

What you think is what you see, and what you see is what you think", when people's inner world is good or beautiful, everything they see in their eyes will also be good and beautiful.

Buddhism: Everything is created by the heart, blessings and misfortunes are created by the heart, what our hearts are, how the world is, and how the blessings are. The goodness of a thought, the auspicious god follows; The evil of a thought will follow the ghost.

If you have good thoughts and treat others well, you will benefit yourself and be kind to yourself. When we harbor evil thoughts and treat others harshly, we accumulate evil for ourselves and harm ourselves.

As the old saying goes: Seeing people is not, the root of all evil; Seeing oneself is not, the door of all goodness. If we only see all the bad in others, this is the root of all evil; If you can see what you are missing, that's the way to open up all goodness.

The way to nourish the heart: If we always think about the inherent goodness of human nature, there are many good people in the world, and everyone helps each other, we will also feel happy physically and mentally; If we always think about the evil nature of human nature and think that everyone in the world is a bad person, we will be mean to others, judge others with malice in everything, be wary of others everywhere, and take care of He Liang in case of trouble, which will only make our hearts more despicable and make us very tired in the end.

Therefore, if we want to make ourselves happy and happy, if we want to make ourselves physically and mentally rich and blessed, we must first learn to be friendly to the people or things around us, after all, Zen Naiyun "what you think is what you see, and what you see is what you think".

Hello dear, if you want to be sure that it is your true heart, you must first respect your heart, you are willing to do it, and you will not regret it, which can actually be sure that you are serving your own true thoughts. If you don't want to do something, even if you do it again, you are very reluctant, and you don't care when you do it, you always do it perfunctory, even if you finally do it, you always regret it in your heart, and feel that this matter is not the result you want to get, if this is the case, it means that you don't respect your true inner thoughts, and the auspicious stove quarrel has not changed.