I often mess with my parents for love, is it disobedient? Is it unfilial?

Updated on society 2024-04-01
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Count, who fed you with a handful of and a handful of urine? All the delicious food is given to you, and it is not like to make trouble with your parents for a woman or a man!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, you will regret it, provided that if you find that this person is not worthy of your love in the end, sometimes the choice of parents is not completely wrong, do not listen to the old man, and suffer in front of you, it is not without such examples. The main thing is to yourself, think carefully about why your parents disagree, and if you feel that your choice is right, prove to them that you will be happy. If you also find some loopholes, it is better to listen to your parents.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    True love is inclusive, not indulgent.

    Love is caring, not pampering.

    Love is a blend of love, not unrequited love.

    Love is all kinds of flavors, not all sweetness.

    True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

    It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

    It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

    This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love Because letting go is having everything....When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, bless well....

    True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

    On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

    Feel it with your heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    All I know is that I'm not going to mess with my parents for the sake of another person right now.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Is love that parents object to really worthless? In the end, he married the boy he loved, I remember at that time, we all persuaded him not to be ashamed for a long time, only to find out later, it turned out that we didn't understand. Now she goes home to take care of the children on vacation, and her husband will help clean up the house when he comes back every day, and he also takes the initiative to take care of the baby at night.

    So do you say that the love that your parents oppose is really not so unbearable? In fact, although marriage is the union of two families, but just because of the luck of your life, why let others help you decide? If you choose what your parents are satisfied with and the recording fails, will they help you bear it?

    It's difficult, although we usually eat, maybe your parents like to eat it may be lighter, but you, you like to eat some spicy heavy flavors, even if you tell your parents. How delicious and refreshing the spicy food is, but it may still not be able to eat it for them. So will you force your parents to accept your tastes?

    I don't think so. So, don't give up your favorites just because of the difference in taste. If two people really want to live together for the rest of their lives, then try to find out the reasons for their parents' opposition, find a solution to the problem, and solve their worries, rather than giving up because of their parents' opposition.

    In fact, the value of a relationship does not change because of the participation of others, the point is whether you believe that he is the choice you do not regret, and whether his existence can help you resist the world and your harm.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm not going to fall out with my parents for love.

    Love and parents are not a multiple-choice question, and they are not contradictory in themselves.

    Thankfully, my parents were more open-minded and fully respected my opinions in the choice of mates, and did not impose their views on me.

    When I first fell in love, in order to spend more time with my girlfriend, I chose to give up the opportunity to travel with my parents and family during the Chinese New Year, and I felt very sorry for my parents when they were disappointed, and I never made this terrible choice again.

    There is not only one choice for many things in life, and communication and thinking can lead us to find another better solution.

    It is not easy for our parents to raise us, and we will get to know our parents very well in the process of getting along with them, and know their requirements in terms of mate selection. Therefore, when we choose a mate, we should take into account the attitude of our parents. Don't always wait until the end to expose the romance to your parents, not giving them any choice, so that there will be conflicts.

    Love is important, family is even more important. If you want to have both, be sure to mediate in between. It is necessary to follow the advice of your parents, and try your best to communicate with them in the hope of receiving their blessings.

    I believe that most parents are still for the good of their children, they are not for their own temporary preferences and categorically block their children's marriage, but more for the sake of their children's future. If you can show your parents your determination to build a better future with your lover, why would they object?

    If it really comes to the point where it must be stiff and irreparable, I suggest that you still follow the advice of your parents, if you choose to turn your back on your parents, how happy can you be in the future? How will your children hurt you in the future?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I won't fall out with my parents for love. If we don't have the same opinions, I will seriously communicate with them, understand the real reasons for their everything, and consider them seriously, after all, your parents are the people who know you best, and they are also the closest people, and they will completely stand in my position and think for me, so their family will definitely pay attention to it and will not fall out with them.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Girls come and talk about love.

    I don't hesitate to fall out with my father and mother, do you do it?

    Everyone's view of family affection and love is different, some people can do it, and some people can't. I don't think I can do it. And you can't be sure if this person is really worth entrusting for life, if this person betrays himself then he really has nothing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, my parents are my life.

    Copy's concern, so bai

    No, it won't. But I will find a way to get my parents to approve of my zhi love, and I will not get married until they agree to the dao. Because love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families, if you get married before they have consent, it is irresponsible to both families.

    In the world of feelings, all emotions will eventually be transformed into family affection, and the same is true for love. If I give up my respect for my parents now, then one day I will also give up the love that has been transformed into family affection because of various things, which is a truth. So I'm not going to do that.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, my personal experience was bai when I was 20 years old

    Years I fell out with my parents for my current husband, zhi and dao, my parents fell out, my father was dedicated to me, wrote a prenuptial agreement, and my father just fought for a house for me, at that time, I was very poor and lived in a woodcarved house, and my father wanted to have a place where I lived in no matter what house, so I fell out with my husband, I didn't understand my parents at all, and now I think about it, I'm really unfilial.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I won't fall out with my parents for love, after all, love is not a big deal in front of family affection, and my parents' objection shows that my parents have their reasons, after all, parents care about their children unconditionally, so I definitely won't fall out with my parents for love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe bai! If I have a relationship with someone, I don't think I can do without.

    dao other party, but parents for their own selfishness and anti-version, I have the right first.

    Will do their work, explain the relationship, express their thoughts, let their parents seriously consider it, if I still don't agree, I may leave my parents to pursue love, after all, this is a major event in life, if you let go, you may never find someone you like!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I won't fall out with my parents for love.

    The first Du parents are the dao people who gave birth to me and raised me, and filial piety comes first. It's not easy for our parents to raise us.

    Second right: Even for the sake of love, pursue your own happiness. But if it is based on the blessing of detachment from parents. Lost the love of his parents. So what's the point of this love? Even if the moment is happy. There will be no warmth of home in the future.

    Third: Only with parents can there be a complete home. I don't want to be driven by my own selfishness and impulsiveness. Give up the parents who gave birth to me and raised me. There is only one parent. The lovely people are gone, and we can talk about it again. There is no such thing as perfection in life.

    So we must choose the love that suits us, on the basis of filial piety to our parents. Build a whole family with your loved ones. Don't selfishly give up on our parents because of your youthful impulses. You can't fall out. Make them sad.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think there's any need to fall out with them, although your parents don't agree with your marriage, but you can not get married for the time being, prove it to them with your behavior, and let them accept your love, which is conducive to everyone getting along in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think I will, because family affection comes earlier than love, right, I won't say that because of this thing, I will turn against my parents, and I won't fall out.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I won't, no.

    Fathers copy mothers, there is no me, this is what I should be most grateful for. Without a lover, you will be empty and bored, and this is also something you should be grateful for. In fact, both are very important, and it is impossible to choose one or the other, just like "the mother and wife fell into the river at the same time, which one do you save"...Love can break up, marriage can divorce, does not mean that love is not important.

    Love does not exist, which leads to breakups and divorces. Who has ever heard of parents changing their minds about their children, and turning love into family affection is even more unbreakable!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I won't fall out with my parents for love, I can only discuss it with my parents, if my parents really don't agree, I think I may give up this relationship and live with my parents.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Generally speaking, I don't fall out with my parents, I usually communicate with them and have this meaningful negotiation, so I think it's good, because if I fall out with my parents, both parties will suffer, both sides will be unpleasant, and we should use that attitude of solving the mentality to do this well.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, I won't fall out with my parents, because they will respect my decision.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, after all, my parents are from the past, and they are more mature. The so-called love of young people is actually driven by desire, and after desire and novelty, they feel that the other party is no longer the person they liked at the beginning, and then divorce.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, it won't. Parents are also for the good of their children, and parents are worried that their children will not be happy after marriage in the future, so they do not agree, and they pity the parents of the world. If the other party is indeed very good, suitable for you, and the other party loves you very much, you can do work for your parents, and eventually the parents will agree, because what the child likes is what the parents like.

    In this way, I will not only keep my love, but also not fall out with my parents.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I would fall out with my parents for the sake of love. Love is important, but family affection is equally important. dao

    I don't sacrifice family affection for love. After all, my parents are for me.

    Answer: Growing up pays a lot, without them, there would be nothing they have today, and we must be a child who knows how to be grateful and filial. When there is a conflict between the two, first learn to communicate with your parents and get their support. If you can't reconcile the contradictions, then you can only give up love, maybe your parents are right.

    Give up family affection, people are betrayal!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Would you fall out with your parents for love? My answer is that I will not fall out with my parents for love, because my parents raised us, and love needs to be built on a common foundation of feelings, so it is not appropriate to fall out with my parents for the sake of love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, it is assumed that the thing itself is reasonable, that is, love is right, and the opposition of parents is also justified. I won't, not to mention that my parents are from the past, in the long run, I also have times when I look away, after all, parents are for life, and love may be for life.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    A best friend of mine, she and her boyfriend have been talking for 10 years, from high school to college to graduate school to work have been together, the two have spent their entire youth together, but when they were ready to get married, the man's family collapsed and expressed strong opposition, the reason is that the genus is incompatible (one is a chicken, one is a dog), every day to force her best friend's boyfriend to break up, go on a blind date, my girlfriend knows that her boyfriend is under a lot of pressure, never forced her boyfriend, just silently accompanyed, although her boyfriend tried his best to deal with his parents, he couldn't resist the pressure. Proposed a breakup.

    My best friend's boyfriend thinks that it is a pain for everyone to drag it all the time, and there is no way to convince my parents, and I am always very pessimistic that if my parents do not agree, the two of them will not be happy together. But my best friend doesn't think so, I think that as long as my boyfriend has a tough attitude, my parents will eventually agree, and the relationship may not be too good at first, but after getting along with each other or having children, the relationship will always ease. But my best friend's boyfriend was very paranoid and couldn't listen to it at all, and only thought that continuing would be the worst outcome, so he proposed to break up.

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