Why do people get troubled when they reach a certain age? Please, 3Q

Hello friends, the invisible troubles are brought about by life and society, as if you see anything, you think of anything, you will have troubles, and the solution to this is to enrich yourself happily every day, and every day you have to have continuous things to complete yourself, so that you can first solve the troubles in your life, and the troubles in society should often participate in meaningful activities, make yourself feel not very lonely, let the society accept you, and help everyone around you to live like this You should also set your dreams and goals from time to time Establish your own career and studies Find more interesting things and objects to regulate your sensitive nerves and your own brain You should also have enough rest time Do some exercises with reason to change your view of the world Treat the outlook on life correctly and the world view I wish you happiness every day and happiness every day

In fact, there is no trouble in human beings, just as "at the beginning of man, nature is good". The reason why there are so many troubles when I grow up is that the word "greed" is at fault, and the greedy nature of human beings makes the world more and more complicated, and dissatisfaction is the root of all selfish distractions. In real life, none of us are saints, and we all have some troubles to a greater or lesser extent.

So how do you make it less annoying? In his letter to his son, Bai Yansong talked about two points: one is to learn to be tolerant; The second is not to fight for the first.

When you think about it, it makes sense. Tolerance is the capital of happiness, it is like a bouquet of flowers, when we give flowers to others, the first thing to smell is ourselves. Comparison produces pain, and the state of mind determines everything.

The eyes of those who fight for the first place are always fixed on their opponents, which invisibly increases the burden on their minds, and troubles are inevitable. In fact, any troubles in life can be resolved, as long as we can let go, I believe that every star will wake up in the morning!

The mood is depressed, and sometimes people think too much. Always thinking about something that will happen in the future puts a strain on one's psyche. Why think about something you can't do?

Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the pimple in my heart melted away, and I was depressed, and sometimes I thought too much.

Always thinking about something that will happen in the future puts a strain on one's psyche. Why think about something you can't do?

Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the pimple in my heart melted away, and I was depressed, and sometimes I thought too much.

Always thinking about something that will happen in the future puts a strain on one's psyche. Why think about something you can't do?

Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the knots in my heart melted.

From 5 years old to 90 years old, each age group has different troubles.

No matter what the question, there is always an answer, every age has its own confusion, those things that you think are big now, in the eyes of those who have passed, may be the meaning of living in those years ......

Heart disease also needs heart medicine, in fact, if you are in a bad mood, I personally think that the easiest and most effective way is to chat with good friends, and release the depressed mood should be fine! Hehe, people are like a closed race, there is no smooth sailing, the road is not flat, the road in front of you is very rugged and bumpy, you have to have confidence in yourself, everything will pass.

Hehe, only you know your troubles, relax your heart, so that there won't be so much trouble!

Ignore some things! You are a post-90s generation, probably because of the rebellious new trouble.

After graduating, I came to this strange city alone.

It's been four years since I came to Chongqing! It's not long, it's not short.

Every year, I silently say that I will go back to my hometown after working for a year, find a job closer to home, and go home often. But it seems to have persevered every year, and I don't know what I think in my heart, I love this city, but I don't love this job; Peng often said that no matter what job you have, after doing it for a long time, you will always feel bored, which is normal.

I want to leave this city, but I don't want to give up, in fact, I don't know why, I don't have too many friends in this city, why don't I give up; When you are homesick, you are far away from home.

Now every day is very confused, and I don't know whether to leave or stay. In two months, I may be leaving, and I probably won't come back again. I don't know what I'm going to do after I leave, I don't know what I'm passionate about now, I'm very confused; I don't know what kind of things and people I will meet in the next city; I don't know if the next job will be satisfactory.

Troubles are brought by others.

Happiness is found by yourself.

Happiness is also a day.

Pain is also a day.

Why not be happy, happy, and happy to live each day.

Life is like this, we can't avoid unhappiness and pain, so how can we make ourselves happy after experiencing these sadness and pain? I think true happiness comes from the understanding of pain, because life without pain can not feel happiness, we only have to face it correctly, analyze it rationally, affirm that we should affirm in order to deny what should be denied, only in this way can we learn to give up, only in order to know how to cherish, in order to remember what should be remembered, to forget what should be forgotten, in order to analyze the pain in life, so that it can become a kind of wealth, an experience, a memory, a realization of your life instead of pain, In this way, we can calmly look at the past, live openly, live happily, and live without regrets, so that life can be truly happy, not to escape and cover up, let alone force joy. Because I believe that life is for us to face, not to escape, we can be sad but we must not indulge and escape.

Do what you like to do, listen to **, go out for a walk, and look at the sky outside, in fact, it is also full of comfort. It's fun to hang out with friends and talk to each other. In fact, everyone has their own problems to face, and the troubles in life always seem to be with you, whether you want to think about it or not, the days or day by day, happy loss is also a day, unhappy is also a day, people must learn to adjust their mentality, or use a psychological suggestion to make themselves happy, you can say loudly to yourself:

I'm really happy, I'm really happy, I'm really, really happy, why not, think about what you have, what others don't, be content and happy.

Because the desire will increase with age, and when you reach a certain age, you will slowly let go and decrease.