Why didn t he just say break up, what should I do? 120

To be honest, you're a junior in college, and if I were your family, I wouldn't agree with you marrying a hairstylist because:

1) Most of the people you deal with by hairstylists are women, and if you start by worshipping him, then others will too, and there are many rich sisters and rich women, you will be insecure.

2) Traditionally, if you are an undergraduate, he is a junior college, or even a technical secondary school or junior high school student, and the cultural differences are too great. This may lead to conflicts in your values later on.

3) Hairstylists are mostly creamy and small-haired, lack masculinity, and some still have long hair, claiming to be artists, which is difficult for ordinary people (especially your parents) to accept.

You said that he has a lot of fans, so he won't be lonely, so he forgot about you--- since your family doesn't agree, he doesn't bother to pay attention to you anymore. My analysis is that he thinks it's over with you. In this sense, he is still a responsible man--- he is very simple to decide.

From your psychological analysis, you are still thinking about him, and you say that you want to find him clearly, and this is an excuse you made for yourself. You haven't made any promises, and it's not been a long time since you started, and if you don't contact now, it means it's over, and it's too much to say to your face.

You are very conflicted now, you don't want to go against your parents' wishes, and you don't want to lose him, what are you going to do, you have to weigh yourself--- can your parents finally pass the test? How much do you love him, and how much faith and courage do you have to overcome and overcome difficulties?

Standing in my position is to persuade you to give up, first of all, you are still young and only in your junior year; Secondly, a marriage without the blessing of your parents will bring you a lot of pain, and it will also bring pain to your parents.

The first floor is right, but the landlord has no experience in this area, and he is not a person who treats feelings as a game.

Forget about the feelings of getting along without understanding. Even if it's an experience. Love is not worship and reverence, but walking hand in hand. In the industry that is decorated with youth, there is too much unreliable love, which is destined to be unbearable.

Doing something else, trying to extinguish the urge to think about him in your heart, and developing reason is a process that one should take.

He doesn't even take the initiative to contact you, which means that he doesn't care much about you.

He was chasing you, maybe not out of love for you.

Since there is so much resistance now, maybe he won't be able to hold on.

To be honest, he was cold, he didn't expect you to really give up because of your parents' opposition, and he also thought that you were also a person who valued the right person and thought that love was rich and poor, I think you should think about what you think first. If you really love him, I think you have to go to him yourself, true love is rare, and men need to be loved. If you think you think there's something better to come, I don't think you need to go to him again, why bother to uncover his wounds, it's cruel.

Hope you take care of it.

In reality, people understand that this is just a feeling, so, maybe you have experienced less now, maybe you have grown up, maybe there is something you think is so beautiful, however, real life needs to face problems, such as economic equality, value equality, the same world view, and many other problems, any of them will become a huge resistance between you, so it's recommended that you study hard, to join the work, I think you will understand more things, feelings are very weak at some point, Especially in today's materialistic society, work hard, work hard for your own dreams, and pursue the truest call from the bottom of your heart. If you still have questions, you can send me a message.

Disagreed, saying that my family is good, and I can't be like this, but why didn't he look for me, last time he knew that he didn't want to go against his parents' wishes, and he didn't want to.

This is called a natural breakup, and everyone knows it.

Sometimes it's not necessary to say a breakup, no matter what! If you really feel bad, then simply break up with a text message! Otherwise, just go like that, don't worry.

There are two important meanings of falling in love: first, control your feelings, and be able to afford to let go; 2. Have the ability to deal with emotional problems. If you don't fall in love a few times, you won't be traumatized once or twice, it's hard to understand feelings, control feelings, you can't be afraid of being hurt and don't fall in love, people are mature and grow up in pain.

You and he have known each other for a total of three years, and you can count the number of times you have seen him, how much do you know him? Don't always fantasize about some things, he is a human being and not a god, it is more of something you imagine, in addition, family and friends must think about you out of a good position for you, so people who are not optimistic about family and friends cannot marry. Have you ever thought about the future, the feeling of being in love is good, but it is also short-lived.

Let's learn more about his character, if it's really okay, you can use the facts to convince your family and friends, it's childish and ridiculous to look back on the past when people are always like this.

I think, you have only been in contact on and off for 2 months, and you are not always together, it seems that the relationship is not so deep, I think he also thinks the same as me, your mobile phone has changed the number, then in his thought, maybe you are a signal to break up, now the two of you are not so deep, and your parents do not agree, I think it is also a good way for you to break up now, maybe there is a better waiting for you in your later life, don't force it if fate is not there.

Oh, the opposition of parents and friends always has the ideas of parents and friends, and there is a good saying, called bystander Qing. I have known him twice in 3 years, and his profession is a hairstylist, if you choose him, you may only have to wait, because you say that he is very busy, and he does not really care about you. Your parents' approach is also afraid that you will worship too much and you will not be able to extricate yourself, so they will give you a quick knife to cut through the mess.

The 33-year-old man advises you that there will be better things in the future, don't be too uncomfortable, think about the things that made you very uncomfortable and painful to death in the past, haven't they all come? Isn't it all a thing of the past? In the future, in 5 years, you will feel that you are stupid today, and it is even more stupid to ask this question in the know!

I think! The twisted melon is not sweet, it is better to let everything go naturally, and the opinions of the parents still have to be heard! After all, they are from the past, and they know better, and he doesn't work hard, what are you struggling to do!

Since everyone is not optimistic, he does not take the initiative, and forcing himself will make everyone miserable and make his family sad.

I think you'd better let it go early, you may find it difficult now, but he doesn't have a sense of responsibility to do this, and he doesn't give you an accurate attitude It's better to give up I used to have a friend who also knew a haircut, they were very messy, and sometimes they were just playing! ~

You guys are not suitable. It's true.

He doesn't come to you to explain that he doesn't value you, let it be, and when he finds out that he can't live without you, he will naturally contact you, and you will do the same!!

It's the same situation as mine, but I've chosen to give up because it's too unrealistic.

Go with the flow! It's right to listen to your parents!

Go with the flow and let time dilute everything.

In fact, the two of you have never started at all, so why talk about breaking up.