What did you learn from Alyssa Jia?

Alyssa Jia has gone from the boiling divorce case to the current years, and the arduous process is estimated that only she can deeply understand.

But Alyssa Jia seems to have gone from the details of her daily happy marriage, as if she had gone from a previous marriage that hurt each other to a complete failure, to calmly marrying this husband Xiu Jiekai, who is less famous than herself and 9 years younger than herself, from the fiasco of chicken feathers to the family that everyone envies, what is there for women to learn from Alyssa Jia?

First of all, it is Alyssa Jia's unwavering commitment to her children. No matter how her ex-husband slandered and hurt herself, Alyssa Jia always insisted on obtaining custody of her beloved daughter, for this reason, she could not want the family property in Taiwan and Shanghai, but also choose to rely on her daughter for her life.

Secondly, it is Alyssa Jia's insistence on love. In the face of divorce and her growing age, Alyssa Jia did not dodge or evade, but conformed to this natural situation and did not forget to cultivate herself in the busy performance moment. She adheres to a scientific diet, moderate exercise, and strives to keep herself in the best condition.

Moreover, she always firmly believes in the power of love, which is also the best premise for her choice to accept Xiu Jiekai's pursuit.

Finally, it is Alyssa Jia's strong defense of the family. Alyssa Jia loves her career, and in her first marriage, there were also factors that she neglected her family because she attached too much importance to her career. But in Alyssa Jia's second marriage, she struck a good balance between family and career.

She not only wants to have a second child, but also a third, which is a major sacrifice that is difficult for an actress to do, but Alyssa Jia feels that this state is very good, in a happy family, the feeling of children surrounding her knees is really an indispensable happy element.

Therefore, Alyssa Jia is the real winner in life after the divorce.

Alyssa Jia's bravery, strength and optimism are what I thought of when I encountered difficulties, and it gave me the strength to pursue my own happiness bravely like her.

I want to find a wealthy family, marry in, and then divorce, quietly wait for my boyfriend in the kindergarten to appear, wait for the spicy chicken of the world, no, the hero of the world will marry me!

Of course, it's a joke, but I actually admire her very much, a brave and strong woman, she has learned a lot, it's hard to say, in short, I hope she will always be happy!

A failed marriage has not completely ruined your life, you need to look at life again and make yourself better, rather than blindly drowning in sadness and unable to let go.

It's okay to be sad about a divorce, but please don't be sad all the time.

Try to take care of yourself so that you are still beautiful.

Don't reject all men because of one failed marriage.

Women should pay attention to maintenance, pay attention to fitness, and improve both externally and internally, when you don't know that Alyssa Jia is ten years older than Xiu Jiekai, can you see the age gap between the two of them?

Try to keep a young face and a good figure as much as possible, everything will be there, and you must make yourself excellent first.

No life is so-called smooth sailing, fate will always play a joke on you inadvertently, but so what, Alyssa Jia told life with a smile that he could live better.

Be a strong woman, one day you will find the happiness that truly belongs to you, and your happiness is not for others to see.

Let me know that everyone has the right person, it's just a matter of timing.

Don't be afraid to remarry just because of the failure of one marriage.

Alyssa Chia, born on October 7, 1974 in Taipei, Taiwan Province, is a Chinese film and television actress and program host. In 1990, Alyssa Jia made her debut in the showbiz because of the filming of the Taste of Love Niu Niu Sweet Eight Treasures advertisement; In the same year, Alyssa Jia starred in her first TV series "Jia Jia Fu". In 1994, Alyssa began to work as the host of a series of children's programs.

In 1997, Alyssa Jia won the Best Newcomer Award at the Taiwan TV Golden Bell Awards for the family drama "Four Thousand Gold", and the costume drama "Flying Dragon in the Sky" starring Alyssa Jia won the annual ratings champion of Taiwanese TV dramas. In 2001, Alyssa Jia shifted her focus to the mainland and starred in the legendary drama "The Son of Heaven". In 2002, Alyssa Jia won higher attention in the mainland with the martial arts drama "Heaven and Dragon Slayer", and Alyssa Jia won the Asian championship of FHM's top 100 beauties in the world.

In 2005, Alyssa Jia married Taiwanese businessman Sun Zhihao and gave birth to a daughter. In 2006, Alyssa Jia starred in the first film and television drama "Sing a Song When You Are Sad" after marriage. In 2010, Alyssa Jia and Sun Zhihao divorced.

In 2011, Alyssa Jia starred in the first TV series "The Secret History of Princess Taiping" after the divorce. In 2014, Alyssa Jia starred in the feature film "The Summer That Can't Be Said". In 2015, Alyssa Jia and Xiu Jiekai registered their marriage and subsequently gave birth to their first daughter.

On June 19, 2005, Jia Jingwen gave birth to her daughter Sun Lingqian in a natural way of production; On December 01, Alyssa Jia and Sun Zhihao officially got married in Las Vegas, USA.

On July 12, 2010, the two who had been married for less than 5 years officially signed their divorce at the Taipei District Court; On August 31, the Family Court of the Taipei District Court made a ruling that the custody of the two daughters Wutongmei should be jointly taken custody of both parties; In September, Jia Jingwen and Sun Zhihao partially reconciled, and both parties were willing to maintain a 2:1 visit to their daughter every month, and neither of them could take their daughter out of the country during this period.

On January 20, 2011, the two signed a legally valid settlement in front of the judge, which stated that their daughter would stay in Taiwan, China to study before junior high school, and that her mother Jia Jingwen's behavior must focus on her daughter, and her father Sun Zhihao also ensured the right to visit her daughter. In 2014, Alyssa Jia fell in love with Taiwanese actor Xiu Jiekai, who was nine years younger than herself. On May 5, 2015, Alyssa Jia's boyfriend Xiu Jiekai announced on Weibo that Alyssa Jia was pregnant, and sent two photos of him and Alyssa Jia and Wutong Mei. On August 7 of the same year, Alyssa Jia gave birth to her first daughter with Xiu Jiekai by cesarean section, and the two had officially registered their marriage.