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Anonymous users2024-02-08In this world, one cannot live only for oneself. A person who cares about others is happy, a person who is cared for by many people is also happy, and only those who are not concerned are the most miserable in the world. We should care about our loved ones, our loved ones, and our friends.
Happy their happiness, pain their pain, happy their joy, sad their sorrow, happy their joy, worried about their worries. Your life is worth living. Each of us is a match, and if we only burn ourselves, the light and heat emitted are limited.
If you light a candle, you can bring light to the night, if you light a pile of firewood, you can send warmth to people who suffer from the cold, if you light the sun, you will bring light to the world, bring warmth to the world, if you ignite a person's heart, it will let him find the direction of life, if you ignite the thoughts of a generation, society will develop in great strides, if you ignite the whole world, the world will become a beautiful garden. Let's ignite ourselves, let ourselves shine, and ignite others. The world needs warm-heartedness.
There are so many people who need our help, and there are so many people who are hungry for our love. The power of each of us is limited, but as long as you work hard, as long as you pay, you will not regret it, and your life will be extremely noble.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07For your dreams and goals, you can work hard to develop yourself!
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Anonymous users2024-02-06For yourself, it's about "enjoyment"!
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Anonymous users2024-02-05In order to better reflect the value of their lives.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04If you like it, you can boldly like it.
Whether others like you or not, that's someone else's business, you like your own, just like it. If you like it, you will have joy, even if this joy is your own, even if this joy is short-lived, it is also joy.
2. Do whatever you want.
Life is very short, and many things can be done when you think of them, otherwise you won't have a chance. Books that should be read should be read in a timely manner. Eat the food that should be eaten, eat it quickly. Those who should love, let them love boldly. Do what needs to be done.
3. Don't compare yourself to others.
People should live for themselves, not for others. You just need to prove your own worth, there is no need to surpass others in everything. Build your happiness on surpassing others, and you will never be happy.
4. Live your own worth.
Do what you love and try to make a move. When people do what they like to do, they have the highest happiness index, and they are the most likely to get close to success, and they can also reflect their own value the most.
5. Like yourself.
Like your body, like your soul, and accept your own thoughts and actions. Only when you like yourself, will you slowly like others, will you slowly accept the world, and will you be able to slowly find happiness. Remember, never hate yourself.
6 Live for yourself.
Remember, all your words and deeds will ultimately be attributed to living for yourself. This is the instinct of life, and it is also all the motivation for people to live. You do what you like, like the people you like, if you can't do it anymore, if you feel miserable, you have to give up in time and look for things that make you happy.
Life is actually very simple, don't always push yourself. There is no need to worry about many things, so why make yourself so tired? Ask yourself what benefits you're getting.
If it's because someone else makes you so tired, think about whether it's worth it for that person. If it's not worth it, why bother pushing yourself like this. People live for themselves, and when they are happy, they live life.
The most important thing is that people don't need to live for others, they are happy, and happiness is life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03In fact, I only feel very happy when I am alone, and I feel pressured to be with others, especially with my grandfather, but when I am alone, I have never been happy and content, and I don't know if I am living for myself when I am alone.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02My principle is to take care of myself, and I don't need to care about how others live. These have their way, and they will also lose what they deserve. We just need to do ourselves well and go our own way. There is no need to get angry with such a person and waste unnecessary feelings.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01It's not your fault. It's our education that went wrong since childhood, and we always taught us to dedicate ourselves to others, to be obligatory, and to give without asking for anything in return, and when you grow up, you feel that if you don't dedicate, if you ask for something in return, it's a shameful thing, as if you can't see anyone else. Actually, this is wrong.
Confucius once said that if you repay your grievances with virtue, how can you repay virtue. People like you who have been selfless and dedicated are the greatest harm to "virtue", you have the right to say no, you have the right to be selfish, you have the right not to help anyone, this is your right, but our education only emphasizes "repaying grievances with virtue", which is completely an infringement of your rights. You don't help others, it's not selfish, it's a legitimate behavior, and others are okay with it.
You also have the right to ask for a paid return, and it is natural that you need to be rewarded for helping others, this is not selfishness, but a prerequisite for the normal functioning of society. If it is all gratuitous, then what will you use to repay your "virtue".
Of course, it's for yourself, and when you care about what others think of you, maybe it's disgusting or uncomfortable with your behavior, I think, you should pay attention to your behavior and see if you should correct it, and if so, don't you get a good piece of advice??? If not, you can ignore him and make it clear to him if necessary. I want to tell you a story, when human beings were created, God put two pockets for man, one pocket for himself and one pocket for others, God put the pocket containing others in the outermost and put his own in the innermost, so he can only see the faults of others, but not his own mistakes. >>>More
Can someone else live for you? Live for yourself, of course!
On the surface, it was our parents who kidnapped us into the world; Internally, it is a higher level of life than human beings that needs us to serve them, just as we raise sheep, pigs and chickens for them to serve us; Fundamentally, it's us who make everything we are. The universe is holographic, cause and effect are connected, "Plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans," "Skynet is magnificent, negligent but not leaky," if someone chases and kills you, it will not be for no reason, there must be a reason; If someone rewards you, it won't be for nothing, there must be a reason; If someone likes you, they won't be untargeted, there must be a reason; If someone hates you, they won't make a fuss about it, there must be something wrong; Adam and Eve were expelled from the Garden of Eden not without reason, and there must have been fault. The tide rises and falls, the flowers bloom and fall, the clouds roll up, people come and go, there is a reason, the joys, sorrows, sorrows and personnel changes we encounter in our life seem to be impermanent and accidental, in fact, there are reasons, can be traced back to their roots, and the root is in ourselves. >>>More
In order to live, in order to pursue goals and ideals People must have pursuits in life, if there is no pursuit, no ideals, no goals, they will lose themselves, they will live very empty, very confused, and do not know what they are living for. We have to know exactly what we want. In fact, what we want is very simple, all we want is happiness. >>>More
Because you always think that you are too important in the minds of others, sometimes you will find that you are not that important, because everyone has their own circle of friends, but you may be insignificant in their circle of friends.