Why do you always feel that you are not important to others at all?

Because you always think that you are too important in the minds of others, sometimes you will find that you are not that important, because everyone has their own circle of friends, but you may be insignificant in their circle of friends.

The more you care, the more humble you are, and the less you will be cherished. If a person doesn't even cherish himself, how can anyone cherish it? Therefore, love yourself before loving others, the better you are, the more others will care about you.

Because everyone has their own life, people are selfish, and everyone's biggest concern is themselves.

Be concise, because you take him too seriously, and you become less important.

Because selfishness is human nature. Therefore, when a person is most important, he will think of himself first.

When you are sincere to others, they may not know that they will take it for granted, or maybe it is because you are not the best in their hearts.

Because you are so narcissistic, you always feel that you are indispensable in other people's lives.

It could be that you are not good enough on your own, or it may be that you are demanding too much of that person.

Maybe it's because I'm dispensable, and I only remember that there is a number one person like me when I need it, and I can't think of it when I don't want to.

Because they have people around them who they feel are better than me, and it doesn't matter to them whether I exist or not.

Naturally, when you play an role in others, you will feel your own value, and in college, it is easy to reflect this, in many school activities or clubs, when you are no longer a small member, but an organizer, a manager, you will feel that you are very important.

Second, when we are helping others. Of course, there are also a lot of help that others will not take to heart, it is a kind of passive help, and sometimes it will be troublesome by others when it helps others. But there are still more normal kind-hearted people in the world, we can't not help others because we are afraid of meeting such people, no matter what the world is, it is always good to stick to our original intention, not for anything else, only for the comfort of our own hearts.

Therefore, when we really help others, we will have a sense of accomplishment and feel that our hearts are sufficient.

Just like when we took the final exam of our freshman year, most of the people in our dormitory were busy with other things and forgot to prepare for the exam, a few days before the exam, I put my summary of the test points in the computer and typed them out, and gave them those who were not prepared, and finally the people in our dormitory passed, and I felt that my help was worth it.

When a friend is sick, I feel that I am important to others, and my roommate and fellow countryman are still good friends, and they rely on each other. When she was sick, she pointed at me and felt that the moment was me, and it made me feel important to her. When I am sick, it is the weakest time for a person, and I especially need someone to take care of her, at this time, except for me, she has no one to rely on, they are far away from home to go to school, we are fellow countrymen, but also good friends, and we are very important to each other.

When there is a major change in a friend's house, I feel that I am very important, the world is impermanent, and who is unwilling to have an accident in the family, at this time, the friend especially needs someone to comfort by the side, even if it is a simple hug, it is also the best comfort.

I think it's when your best friend regularly troubles you, so that you feel like you have a sense of presence, which also helps to bond with the friendship between the two people. And when she thinks of you every time she encounters something that needs to be solved, your heart will also feel warm, I don't know if you feel this way.

I have a small hair, although both of them go to school in the same city, but the distance is not close, and I don't have many opportunities to meet. But when she encounters some troubles in school, she will also talk to me about them. Maybe I can help her enlighten her, maybe I can't really help her solve anything, but she will share her joys, sorrows and sorrows with me, which makes me feel that I have a sense of existence and is important.

Again, there is a response. For example, when two people are chatting, one of them is always answering passively and never takes the initiative to talk about a new topic, will it make the other person feel as if I am not so important, in your heart. The same is true for online communication.

**Communication, I called you, you gave me back, I talked about this, you talked about that, that's right

There weren't many moments that made me feel important to others, but I can still remember what happened during the summer vacation after the college entrance examination.

That summer, I learned to drive with a few classmates, when I practiced Kesan on the road, a male classmate was driving in the car, and a drunk middle-aged man suddenly appeared in front of us, blocking in front of our car and not letting go, scolding and scolding, we were all novices, so we were all panicked, the boy in the driver's seat didn't know what to do, maybe he didn't pay attention, the car slipped forward a little, the middle-aged man began to scold at the throat, and let us all get out of the car.

Because everyone is a student, young and vigorous, several male classmates pressed the big man to the ground and beat him violently, the final result, obviously, we went to the police station to make a record, the male classmate who took the lead needed someone to testify, and we were all parties, but at that time we were about to go to college, no one wanted to cause trouble, and the big man said that he would not spare us in the future, and would not let us study smoothly, so I was inevitably a little worried, and another girl chose to refuse to testify, and then the male classmate looked at me with blank eyes, With a look of begging in my eyes, I stayed behind to help make the transcript.

Later he told us that at that moment, any one of us was very important to him, and he couldn't imagine what would happen if we all chose to leave.

As a girl who has never been in a relationship, many times, we have to analyze emotional problems for those friends who are in a relationship, maybe our ideas have no reference at all, but when she confides in you, when she tells you all her thoughts, we will feel that we are being needed by her, and we are very important to him.

As a girl, we are all sensitive inside. Many times, when I feel wronged, as long as I feel that I am really needed by others, and when I am a little important to others, even if I am sad, I will feel warm.

Also, as a medical student, when I was copied by others, I felt that I was important to others.

Maybe we won't admit it, maybe we always say that those who copy our homework are annoying, they never think for themselves, it seems that copying your homework has become their habit, and they have never been grateful, and we always complain a lot about it. But when he asks us about homework, we still feel a little bit of a need and make us feel that we are important to him.

When my family and friends came to me for something, I felt that it was meaningful and important for others to come into this world.

Before college, I felt that I would only cause trouble for my friends and family, and when something really happened, I realized that I couldn't help at all, so I was always discouraged.

I've found that universities are really a place that can change people. After only a year, people around me said that I had become much more stable and that my university was far away from home, but this made my relationship with my family and classmates who I didn't have much contact with before.

I remember one time at 12:30 in the middle of the night, I was getting ready to go to bed, and a good friend in the first year of high school asked me if I had slept yet, and I replied if I had not. Then she called me and told me a lot of things that are very confusing and terrible now.

I have been patiently listening to her talk about her discomfort in an unfamiliar environment, her anxiety about the future, and the overwhelm of leaving her hometown to a strange place. I was very sleepy at that time, but I was very happy, because if someone can think of you in a difficult time, it proves that she really believes in you, and at that moment, I feel that I am important to others.

Actually, to be honest, as my friend, I don't need how you can help me when I am successful, and even you don't have to share with me what you are happy about, but I hope that when you are in trouble, the first person you can think of is me, and that is enough.

As long as my friend asks, I will do my best to help no matter what it is. Because that's when I feel like I'm being needed, it's important.

It wasn't until that day when my friend cried that I realized how important I was to her. I've always thought of myself as a simple friend to her, and it's a great friendship to be able to have a meal together when we come home. But unexpectedly, she said that she always thought that my life was better, that I thought about problems more comprehensively, and that I didn't talk much and was very reliable.

After listening to my friend's evaluation, I feel that I don't have to be so humble, I have to take the initiative in friendship, I am also very important, in the hearts of friends, at least my image is still very high. So now I'm in touch with my friends every day and talk about the best things of the day. And when you feel that it is important to be on the other hand, you will live more seriously.

This question is heavier, in my opinion, I will not be important to others, but to those who are important to me, there are only two moments that make me feel this strongly, one is that I am afraid of losing them, and the other is that they are afraid of losing me, of course I don't want to feel either, it's good to talk about it Good luck!

No, you are very important to yourself, and whether you are important to others or not is only known in the hearts of others, people's hearts are unfathomable, don't be too narcissistic.