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2 cases. 1. If you are not married, you need to consider your feelings and make you feel that she can be diligent and thrifty, after all, most men want their fiancées to be diligent and thrifty.
2. Girls like the flowers that should be spent, and don't spend what they shouldn't, develop their own habits, don't like to often use their man's money, and have a certain degree of independence.
3. I am not familiar with you to the point where I am talking about marriage, and when I am still distinguishing between you and me, I will not spend more money on you.
4. Spend your money rationally, and it's easy to get rid of it when you break up. It's very simple, pedal multiple boats, see which one suits you, if it's not suitable, you can propose to break up, and when you break up, the man is not good at talking about money, he doesn't spend any money on you, and it is impossible to fall in love without spending a penny, so you are embarrassed to talk about this matter.
5. Give you an illusion, and when you get married, you will be slaughtered fiercely, and you don't usually spend your money indiscriminately, what's wrong with more wedding bride price? For the sake of everyone's face and her parents' contributions, shouldn't you give more?
Specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and the above are all possible things, but don't substitute them all. Girls are changeable, without the shackles of marriage and years of getting along, it is difficult for you to grasp her character, and even if you have been married for many years, your personality will mutate, so this time and that time.
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If you are not ready to get married, it is best not to accept any form of gift from the boy, so that you can have a way out, and you will not let the boy feel that the girl is platinum, of course, these are the relationship between the two people is very clear. If a boy and a girl are already living together, then you need to spend money on the girl, because the girl is ready to marry the boy.
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Girls who don't spend boys' money. Very few indeed. You are definitely one.
Very independent. A girl with a lot of self-esteem.。 Girls in general.
All boys have to spend money. You can say that it is the only one. Girls like you.
Worthy of respect. Is a good girl.
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Yes, there are very few such girls. But she can't be identified just because of this, she doesn't want boys to give it, otherwise it seems that the boys' pattern is too small. At the same time, such a girl may have little desire for money, a weak personality, and it is impossible to think that she will be able to do so in her career.
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Yes, because girls are independent and thoughtful, and they will think about others.
I know that it is not easy for everyone to make money, and they will not want to let boys break the bank because they feel sorry for boys.
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The main girls are financially independent and have positive outlooks. Actually, it really shouldn't cost boys' money.
At the very least, material equality should be achieved.
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It shows that this kind of girl is a girl who is admired down-to-earth. It's really hard to find money that doesn't spend a boy's money.
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Girls who don't give money to boys indiscriminately are indeed precious and unavoidable.
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So cherish it, rare and precious girl! I must be very sorry for you and love you very much!
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Generally, this kind of girl is very self-reliant and self-reliant, and she can earn money by herself, so she doesn't need to spend the other party's money, and she is indeed very lucky to meet such a girl.
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Financially independent, there will be much less trouble.
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If you don't spend his money on a girl, what will happen to a boy? Boys must feel good, they don't have to spend their own money, they don't have to work so hard.
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Summary. 1, it shows that this boy is very good at living, knows the truth of being diligent and thrifty, and understands that money is not easy to come by, so he is reluctant to spend it.
1, it shows that this boy is very good at living, knows the truth of being diligent and thrifty, and understands that money is not easy to come by, so he is reluctant to spend it.
2. If you go to buy a car, you will definitely choose a more affordable and fuel-efficient car. will choose that kind of luxury car, so you can't say that this kind of guy is bad.
3, well, there are not many good men, or use the money on the blade, this is a good man to live, you should cherish it.
4. Therefore, the simple judgment should be like this.
But this feeling makes me feel like it's because I don't deserve better.
5 That's just your feeling, it means that your three views are a little incompatible, we are all college students, but he came back from being a soldier for two years, and the discharge fee is 100,000 yuan, and the day of doing an activity is 200.
But he was reluctant to spend a lot of money for me.
So what do you think he's spending a lot of money on for you, what's the place? Or what do you want most? If you want the bureau to open his eyes and buy it, you can bring it up, let him think about it for two days, and let him buy it and give it to you.
Properly tempted, he'll definitely buy it for you, as long as it's not too expensive.
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Girls can spend, but not without moderation. Girls themselves should also understand in their hearts that this money is the boy's, not yours, and you can't spend it, so you must know how to reciprocate.
Nowadays, many girls are willing to make an AA system with their boyfriends when they are in love, and they don't want their boyfriends to cover the expenses all the time, and I am the same, but it is difficult to do it completely without spending boys' money when they are in love.
Imagine that you just got together with your boyfriend and you told him that you want AA, "I don't want to spend your money" attitude, although you are well-intentioned, but boys are easy to misunderstand, don't I have the money to ask you to pay? It's only so clear that we're together, do you plan to stay with me for a long time? Am I poor?
Even if you explain it clearly, it can still be uncomfortable for both of you.
So, at the beginning of the relationship, unless your boyfriend himself clearly shows an attitude of "wanting AA" (in addition, this AA attitude also depends on the specifics, whether it is out of respect for you or out of pettiness), then let your boyfriend pay first. So how do you "compensate" him at this time? For example, you can spend your own money to buy clothes for him, buy fruits, and you can buy drinks for meals, pay for drinks, in short, have a return.
After you've been together for a long time, you can start talking about paying for money.
I remember talking to my boyfriend about this very suddenly, just one afternoon, he opened his WeChat (my boyfriend likes to use WeChat payment) and saw that the balance showed that there were only more than 300 yuan (we are still college students, and our families give living expenses), we two want to take it, I have fully understood what he meant, and put his shoulder, "I will pay for it later!" He Qi Zhenming immediately laughed, and quietly said with a cheap face, "Oh, there is a rich woman to take care of", and then we fought for a while, and I talked to him about paying for meals and going out to play and spend money, and finally said Okay, I will pay for the small money myself, and he will give money for a big meal. In the end, because he had been paying for the first half of the month, until his family paid him, and for the second half of the month, it was me, a rich woman, who supported him.
At last. Girls shouldn't spend boys' money, but it is inevitable that they will spend boys' money, so there must be a good conversation between two people, and girls themselves must have a good idea.
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Personally, I think it is in a benign balance. During the relationship, if you are not willing to give anything to you, then you can suspect that the other party does not love you so much.
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Or try not to spend the other party's money.
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There is no one definitive answer to this question as opinions will vary from person to person. There are different opinions and values about whether a girl should spend her boyfriend's money or not.
One view is that in romantic relationships, money should be avoided as a major source of problems and disputes. Some people see the boyfriend's offer of financial support as a way to show affection and care, especially when the boyfriend is in a relatively good financial situation. In this case, the girl may accept payment from her boyfriend and focus on other contributions, such as providing emotional support, time, and effort.
On the other hand, there are those who advocate the economic equality of men and women, arguing that girls should not be dependent on their boyfriends for financial support. According to this view, girls should be independent in managing their own financial affairs and share the responsibilities and burdens of peace and security in love. In this case, the girl may insist on paying her own expenses and sharing the common expenses with her boyfriend.
Whichever point of view is chosen, it is important to build on the basis of understanding and consensus on both sides. Romantic relationships should be respectful, honest, and equal, including when it comes to money. Both parties should communicate and negotiate to find a way to deal with financial issues that works for each other to ensure that both parties are comfortable and satisfied.
Indeed, such a girl cares about you very much, she feels sorry for you, and meeting such a girl may be a blessing that you cultivated in your previous life, you have to know how to cherish her.
Emotional single-mindedness is good, it means that this girl is responsible for feelings, and it is not so exaggerated to say that it is perfect and good, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, maybe after this single-mindedness it becomes control, and the other party is also uncomfortable, or to communicate more, not only girls, but also boys are also responsible for the feelings of two people.
Yes, it is rare to treat a girl who is emotionally single-minded, and it is rare to meet a person who treats emotionally attentive people in love, so it can also be understood as a rare and commendable, so you must cherish it when you meet it.
Treating emotionally dedicated girls is indeed really commendable, and it is unavoidable, because of the rapid development of society now, girls are impetuous, and emotionally dedicated girls exhale, so it is so difficult, rare and commendable.
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