It s been 40 years since I graduated, and I suddenly remember the person I ve always loved, and I wa

If you are single, contact us and ask if you can say yes. If you are married, you should not contact it, so as not to misunderstand the family members of both parties and cause unnecessary trouble.

Think of it as an old friend. Yes, what's not to do with that?! Everyone has a past, and a good past will give you a good life.

There is no need, because you are already married, there is no need to bother others, even if you are not married, there is no need to contact them, because they may also be married, since they have not been contacted for a long time, don't contact them because of a whim, contact if you want, this is not only a trouble, but also a senseless practice.

After 40 years, the girl you like has become an elegant aunt or a sloppy aunt, and the youth is gone, and the beauty in your heart is gone. Don't get in touch, there's no need.

There is no need. It's been forty years, and the feelings have long faded. Please cherish the people in front of you, others will naturally be loved by others.

Are you married? Are people married? What is the purpose of your contact, is the contact just for the sake of contact, or do you have any further thoughts after contacting?

So if you're still or you're single again, it's okay to contact the other person, but you're not single, what's the need to contact someone?

Hello this netizen, my question is, I personally don't think there is any need to meet, some are better than nostalgic for seeing each other, don't say 70 years after graduation, if you don't often contact each other in the year of graduation, the taste has changed, and we are not like that when we were in school. I also haven't seen many of my classmates for ten years, and I feel embarrassed when I suddenly get in touch and feel like we can't talk together.

Yes, it's okay to think of classmates as reminiscing!

It's been 40 years since you graduated, and you are in your fifties and sixties! I suddenly remembered that the person I have always loved and is also a classmate, and it is okay to get in touch with each other, and see that each has a family and a house full of children and grandchildren. After all, it's a classmate, and there's nothing to meet and have a meal, and if a husband and wife can't do it, they can still be friends.

There is no need. It is advisable to be okay with each other.

If the other party doesn't get in touch with you quickly, it's not because he doesn't know how to respect you, maybe it's just that there are still a lot of things at hand.

If the other person does not reply to you in time, you will be distraught, restless, and make you restless, not thinking about eating, and this is a sign that you have unknowingly fallen in love with the other person, but you yourself do not know that this is love.

It's hard to guarantee that someone will get back to you quickly! Even a normal good friend may not be able to reply to you quickly. It depends on whether the other party can quickly reply when they can see your message, and this state can only be guessed.

It is a paradox in itself that a weak relationship can quickly become a strong relationship, sincerity and time, as well as the fact that the other party owes you favors within their capabilities, etc., are all necessary conditions for forming a strong relationship.

It makes sense that there is no quick reply, and as for what the reason, only you know.

There's no need, two people who love each other, how familiar they used to be, but once they break up, don't contact each other.

It is impossible for lovers after a breakup to become friends!

A wounded person doesn't need such a friend.

So don't be in contact, just be a stranger!

I broke up with him

I contacted him at first

I didn't contact him after that.

But it's not that I don't love him

Just because I know maybe he doesn't want me to contact him!

Because he already has his next relationship

So I don't want to bother him

All I want is his happiness!

So as long as he's happy! I am willing to love silently!

So you're going to see if he wants you to contact him or he doesn't want you to contact him, and he wants to, then you reach out to him, even if it's a friend.

If he doesn't want to, then we don't contact him

Because that's a problem for him!

We all love that person, and we don't want him to bother, so it's up to that person to contact or not.

So there's simply no way you don't want to pay attention! So it's up to you how you choose! I choose to love silently!

Don't bother him! Help him when he needs me, be there for him when he's lonely, comfort him when he's sad, wipe away his tears when he's crying! That's all I can do!

It's up to you to decide what you want to do!

It's best not to contact someone you like more until you meet them.

The love is deep, and the wound is cut. If you don't love each other deeply, forget it if you love each other deeply! Give each other a chance to forget!

There's no need to be too tired, just say hello when you think about it, and it's okay to make an appointment to meet when the time comes, don't get entangled.

It's hard to forget a person because he comes to your mind every now and then.

The passers-by of life exist in memory.

Yes, because you want to do something more with her. No, because that would make you feel uneasy.

I felt the need, if there was no quarrel.

It doesn't have to be complicated First of all, you can ask how you've been doing. Secondly, let's talk about simple life first, don't be too close, take it step by step, just like meeting new friends, it takes time to recover your previous feelings, after all, there are some days when you don't have contact, don't let people think that you are too close because you want to get something.

Don't be overly enthusiastic when you're not very clear about the other person.

Let's talk about some things in school before, and some trivial things about work, life and relationships after graduation.

Let's recall some of our classmates who used to know each other.

There's a lot to talk about.

I think, just meet it, there is no need to deliberately want to say something, but it seems to be raw, as long as the ordinary greeting is sometimes very heartwarming!

1I ask you for something.

2. Suddenly thinking of you is unlikely.

Look at what you think, if ordinary friends can still be sprinkled.

If it is lonely, then this person is a very important person, a very close friend. I feel the same way. There was once a friend we talked about everything, but suddenly there was no topic to talk about, just looking at his QQ avatar tomorrow, knowing that he was still there, it was very down-to-earth, and suddenly one day he disappeared from his friends and could no longer find him.

Until now, I've been stunned. So cherish the friendship between friends, they are the travelers you meet at some point in your life's journey. Cherish the time you spend with him and don't regret it until the end.

I feel the same way, therefore, I like to read, reading books makes me more able to endure loneliness than others, feel different customs and stories in the book, but also bring my own real sense of fulfillment, satisfaction, and soothe all the loss and loneliness in my heart.

It's an old love unforgettable. A lot of times it's missed. There won't be any more.

Rare good memories make its beauty always rest assured, and time distance will produce beauty. Don't deliberately look for connections, because everything in the world will evolve over time, even if it is a good memory, then it is enough to know how to cherish what we have. I wish you happiness and happiness every day!

Yes, I often feel this way, but there is also a kind of loneliness, that is, her joys and sorrows have nothing to do with you.

There is no way to get in touch, you can only think about it.

Memories are beautiful, and loneliness is also a beauty!

This feeling is also a good memory.

Therefore, it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes.

Haha, who deserved to tell you to delete it so early.

You're not lonely, you're obviously lonely......

You can find another person to talk to!

So you need to cherish the present moment from now on.

If you used to have a good relationship, if you feel that you will not change because of the passage of time, you contact him, but I feel that people will change over time, and the relationship will be diluted, and most of the original friendship will deteriorate due to education and social class.

Don't get in touch, it's so painful to be separated once. Now that you all have a new life, why bother with your worries? What should I do if my old feelings are rekindled? I don't think there's any need to contact again.

It is better not to contact each other, so that all the good things in the past become memories, everyone lives very well, and time will dilute everything, I wish everyone well!

Don't contact each other for many years, don't make sacrifices that you can't do, so that both parties are embarrassed and emotionally damaged, the history of your city in the past is the most beautiful now.

If you want to live a quiet life, don't get in touch.

You can contact him. Because the two of you originally had a foundation. He may still be attached to you and to you.

Or don't get in touch! It's really not necessary! After all, the revival of old feelings is not a good thing.

Contact. Since you asked this question, don't you already have the answer in mind? If the answer is not to contact, you will not ask this question, and if you ask, it means that you hesitate, it is rare to fall in love, it is difficult to let go completely, contact it, and say:

How have you been doing all these years? Isn't it nice?

Answer: If you haven't contacted you for many years, you have no feelings, and you have your own life circle, so don't bother, it's wisest to have a greeting or blessing.