How to choose between the pursuit of love and filial piety to parents?

I think these two can be taken into account, love and filial piety to parents are not contradictory at all, I love my other half and I will also value my family very much.

There is no direct conflict between the two, and we, as children, must heed the advice of our parents. But they can also make mistakes, and we have the right to fight for our own happiness, and if they really love you, they will respect your choice.

I think this is an extremely big problem, but I can't give up love and my parents, because my parents are the ones who gave birth to me, and it is difficult for me to survive without their care, and love is my feelings for a person who will accompany me for the rest of my life, so I will do my best to love and honor my parents.

As a person, you must have love and filial piety to your elders at the same time, you can't say that you don't care about the life and death of your parents for the sake of a beautiful wife, unless you violate your conscience and ignore morality, that's what pigs and dogs are not as good as! As a human being, love is love, and family affection is also love! It is a symbolic expression of human intelligence and feelings, if you just want to have love and ignore relatives, what are you in case?

Love, no matter how high or low, is indispensable! Smart people will not discard that emotion no matter what, this is also emotional intelligence! Emotions and people are inseparable and indispensable, love, family affection are love, we must strive to have!

Marriage is the cornerstone of happiness, one wrong step, every step is wrong, do not listen to the old man, suffer in front of you, and the marriage that is not approved by your parents will not be happy, so you must choose a partner with the approval of your parents. If you think that your parents are wrong, you must be patient to do the ideological work, and I believe that the current parents will not be so dead-eyed. In short, never insist on going your own way, otherwise, you will not only be unfilial to your parents, but also irresponsible for your marriage.

I believe that the vast majority of parents want their children to live happier lives, and rarely deny and discourage their children's feelings, unless there is something in your love that worries them. What you need to do is to understand the worries of your parents and lovers, and then find ways to relieve their worries, as well as the optimal solution between love and parents. If you work hard, you may not necessarily be able to make much difference; But if you don't work hard, you will always be entangled in contradictions.

Furthermore, if you give up easily at the slightest resistance, how strong is your love?

The pursuit of love and filial piety to one's parents are fundamentally two different things, and there will be no contradiction. What's the use of sacrificing love for one's parents? That's your wishful thinking. It's not love at all, love is mutual, the so-called love house and black refers to this!

In the same way, if your parents interfere with your love autonomy, then you are not worthy of filial piety, and you only have the obligation to support. But before that, you must make it clear to the object and your parents in person, and they will agree to it when they see that you are real.

A marriage that is not blessed by its parents is unhappy. It is sad not to marry someone you love. Some people say that parents are the only one, they raised you with hard work, and when you become parents, you will know that it is not easy for your parents, and we should do more filial piety.

Some people say that it is indeed not easy for parents, but the only person who can really accompany me to the end of my life is my partner, and only when I am with my beloved for life can I have no regrets in life. In fact, when you really face this question, you already have the answer in your heart.

If there is a conflict between the two, I will choose to be filial to my parents, because there is only one parent, and I can't choose.

I will choose to be filial to my parents, my parents are only me, and if I don't care about them, who will take care of them in the future, so I will choose my parents.

As long as you are willing to work hard, such things can be solved, believe in yourself, as long as you have the ability, these are not problems.

In fact, the conflict between the two is not too big, as long as you deal with it yourself.