How would ordinary people view people who have no family affection?

First of all, I am very sympathetic to what you are going through.

Being human is sometimes difficult.

There is an old Chinese saying: "It is better to owe people money than to owe favors" because favors are priceless and there is no standard.

However, how can a child of a certain age not owe favors because of your family background since childhood? Besides, in order to survive, how can human affection be measured? There is no standard. So this society has a problem for you as a young person. It's hard for you.

Although I can't fully believe that what you wrote is 100% true, the phenomenon you described about them is also completely in line with the human nature of the villains in the Chinese market, and it is now true.

Under this premise, survival and development are the first priority; It is also the premise that we can better repay them in the future. -- This is what you should let the world know and publicize.

Getting rid of their entanglement is your number one choice at the moment. Speak words of gratitude to everyone, and do not argue with your past or their past, let alone reveal the grievances you have suffered. That's when you want to stay connected.

Maybe one of your neighbors will come forward to dissuade them, and you can ask someone they trust to do so.

Get rid of them, retain a harmonious relationship, and then seek development. When you have strength, your situation will change. If one day you become a governor, they will find that they have given you too little. Do you remember the article "Fan Jinzhongju"?

At the same time, I also hope that the day when you really have the strength to give them a certain return. As for how much, it depends on your ability and what they give you.

As for the world's evaluation of people who have no family affection or ungrateful--- that is, no one wants to help her in the future. If you can't get away from this surroundings, it's best not to have a reputation for being ungrateful.

To deal with them, in fact, you can deal with them in a small way, and often go to see them--- it doesn't necessarily cost money, people! There will always be a relationship.

At the same time, the world has a lot of sympathy and contempt for children who have not received family affection and care since childhood, and there are still many good people in the world. If this child achieves something in the future, it is extremely admirable.

First, you care too much about other people's eyes, your life is your life, and there is no need to do things you don't like. Second, it is not as long as you are related by blood, you must listen to them for the rest of your life, you can help them if they are within your ability and you are willing to help, otherwise you will directly refuse, and your uncertainty, it seems that there will be nothing good in return now. If they are too much, they will resist directly, you have to live happily for yourself, if you are too kind, you will always be expected.

Third, even if you are not very happy in most of your life, there will always be happy times, if you want to think about your life, think about these happy things, and create happiness for yourself, life does not have much time for you to be sad. Fourth, parents are always parents, try to say what you really mean. Finally, remember that people live in the world to be happy.

I can only say, I can't help it, but I support you to continue studying, because I also want to study, I grew up in a poor family, but my parents never treated me badly, I am very content, what is money, having a happy family is always more important than money.

Go someone else's way and leave others with no way out.

A person who doesn't care about his lover is a ruthless, selfish, self-centered, person who feeds the whole family and does not go hungry, who goes his own way outside, and never thinks that there is a lover at home who needs to pay his own responsibilities, and such a concept that his family is the center, such a man is like a cold-blooded animal, and he is never worthy of pity and sympathy.

People who don't care about family affection. That's a ruthless and unrighteous person. Selfish. Such people. More venomous than a snake. More wolves than wolves.

I don't think about others when I do anything, I like to do selfish things in the name of others, I say that I am for whom, but in fact, it is all for myself, what others do is always wrong, I always feel good about myself, expose my shortcomings, and I like to say bad things about others behind my back, not because I remember anyone's hatred, but because I think it is fun, and I want to highlight that I am different from others, especially afraid that others will ignore him and pretend that I am superior.

This kind of person is selfish and indifferent.

One question: Why do I have no feelings for my loved ones?

Q: Since I was a child, I have no feelings for my loved ones, in fact, I should have no feelings, and I know in my heart that they are my parents, my grandparents. My parents were actually very nice to me, and I was nice to them on the surface, but in my heart I felt like a very familiar stranger.

My grandmother was recently diagnosed with cancer, and our family was crying, but I didn't even feel the slightest bit sad. Am I really indifferent to people because I don't have this kind of feelings? But that's not the case with me in my circle of friends.

So I'm confused.

A: Creating a sense of isolation from a loved one, or a sense of strangeness, may be something that everyone has experienced, but most people don't take it seriously. Therefore, these feelings do not hinder his closeness to his loved ones.

When we inappropriately associate this feeling with ethics and morality, thinking that there is something wrong and needs to be dealt with, such feelings are fixed and become anxiety that affects our inner peace. The emotional world of human beings is complex and diverse, and emotions seem to be a kind of life energy, and natural flow is necessary. From the point of view of emotions themselves, emotions do not seem to be classified, but human reason will do such things, allowing some emotions and negating others, so that some natural emotional releases become trouble.

Psychology generally believes that strangeness with parents may be the same as attachment in early life. If the child is always frustrated when forming a deep attachment relationship with the main caregiver after birth, such as the long-term absence of parents, or the primary caregiver is not patient and meticulous enough, and the child is hurt at the same time as being loved, slowly the child will give up the effort to form a deep intimacy and get rid of the relationship panic through narcissism, withdrawal, isolation, and sometimes anger and aggressive behavior. Slowly, such mental actions will form a pattern (defense) that will be repeated inwardly and rigidly.

Then, we can say that whether a person has deep emotions depends on whether his attachment relationship with his parents, especially with his mother, in his early years has reached sufficient depth. People who lack attachment ability can maintain a relaxed and close relationship with anyone, and their careers are more successful; However, with close people, such as lovers and lovers, they obviously lack the psychological ability to maintain intimacy. These may be the reasons why you say that you have no feelings for your loved ones, but you are not the same as your friends.

For the situation that bothers you, it is recommended that you experience the rich and delicate feelings in your heart, and you should deliberately cultivate a kind of pathos, watch the tragedy, and shed tears for other people's stories; care for small animals; Or having a child and growing up with them, these can help you find deep attachment and allow these emotions to be expressed and released naturally and without embellishment.

We live in this society, we are not stones, we are born from our parents, we will have our own brothers and sisters, we will have our own relatives and friends, it is precisely because we have these that we will not be lonely. When we encounter some happy things, we will want to share with our parents and relatives, when we encounter some painful things, we also especially hope that we have such a group of relatives around us, to be able to share our pain, when sharing, we will also alleviate some of our own pain, so that we can be more confident to face the future life, to face the things to be faced, so for any of us, it is like this, important and indispensable.

I believe that there should be no such people in this world who completely disregard family affection, but some people have a heart that is particularly hot, and some people have a heart, she is relatively speaking, to be colder, this is mainly because of such an environment that he grew up in, as well as some things experienced in the process of growing up, some people grow up in an environment of love, so he will become a particularly grateful and loving person, and some people he grew up in a cold environment, And in the process of growing up, he encountered too many setbacks and abuse, so his heart is not easy to open to others, because she is afraid of being hurt, maybe the latter, in the expression of family affection, will not let others feel, may feel that he is a cold, regardless of family affection, but in fact this is absolutely not the case.

If you really don't care about family affection, you are definitely an indifferent, utilitarian, unworthy person, not worthy of love. For such a person, it is better to stay away from her. But when you make such a decision, you must first understand the person and don't make a mistake.

Ruthless people, of course! Parents are patriarchal, and brothers will abandon you and cheat on you for the sake of inheritance! The people who don't care about family affection the most are the so-called relatives who are related by blood!

People who don't value family affection may usually treat their relatives more indifferently in life, this kind of person should be more selfish, what difficulties his relatives encounter, he is generally more indifferent, and even won't help and will stand by.

Very cold. In ordinary life, I only care about myself, and I don't care about my family or others.

There may be people who are cold by nature. He is particularly indifferent to the affection between relatives. They don't care about family affection and don't care. It's also very selfish to live. I have such people around me, so I have a deep understanding.

Such a person must be very selfish in his usual life, and he will not consider his own feelings for his own interests, so he must stay away from such a person, and this kind of person must not have any such love.

A person who is cold and selfish never appreciates the favors that others have given him.

What kind of people are people who don't care about family affection, they are basically selfish people! But let's divide the situation! Some are native homeschooling issues! Some may also encounter some things to do so.

It is often said that "a happy childhood is a lifetime, and an unhappy childhood takes a lifetime." "There are people who, in their childhood, or in their entire years, have experienced the heaviest blows in their lives, closing their hearts and being isolated from the world.

There are a number of reasons why a person may not only be indifferent to friendship but also distant from family:

1.Autistic introversion. Some people are introverted and shy by nature, and they are not sociable, and it is difficult for them to take the initiative to express their feelings or connect with others. They may prefer solitude to socialization. This greatly reduces their ability to form friendships with people.

2.Negative and pessimistic personality. Some people have a negative and pessimistic personality, lack trust and positive expectations for others. They may often complain about others and the status quo rather than self-reflection. This kind of sadness affects the emotions of others to communicate with themselves, which in turn affects friendships.

3.Poor communication skills. Some people have barriers to listening and expression, they have difficulty understanding what others want to express, and they can't express their own thoughts and emotions. This greatly reduces the efficiency of communication and the ability to make emotional connections.

4.Paranoia. Some people have a narrow worldview, and it is difficult to understand and tolerate the ideas of others. They are more aggressive in communication. This personality trait is difficult to accept and form emotional bonds.

5.Too little investment. Some people invest too little in emotional interactions, and they don't actively listen to others, share themselves, and help. As a result, it is difficult to get reciprocal attention and the emotional connection that exists fades.

6.Have an axe to grind. Some people interact with others out of interest rather than sincerity. Once the interests of both parties are irrelevant, this apparent camaraderie will disintegrate. This is also the reason for the apathy of friendship.

7.Experiencing trauma. Some people have a weakened sense of kinship and trust due to trauma in childhood or shock in adulthood. They become shy away from being close to others. This affects life.

In general, personality factors, lack of communication skills, negative emotions, lack of commitment, and simply experiencing life trauma can all lead to a person's friendship and family distantness.

If you want to change this situation, you first need to self-reflect and change yourself, cultivate a positive, tolerant and open mind, improve your communication skills and emotional expression skills, and take the initiative to participate in friendship and family affection, so that you can gradually establish emotional connections and feel strong friendship and affection.

The reasons why a person is indifferent to not having friends and family affection may be many, including personal personality, living environment, upbringing and other factors. Some people may be introverted, autistic, and unsociable, and personality flaws may cause them to have difficulty forming friendships and love relationships. Some people may live in stressful and worrying environments, such as single-parent families, poor areas, busy work, and a lifestyle with little social interaction, which may lead to a lack of social opportunities and interpersonal skills, thus cutting off contact with friends and loved ones.

In addition, personal upbringing also has an important impact on a person's social and family relationships, and if they have experienced family disharmony, the death of a loved one, and other unpleasant experiences, it may also lead them to show indifference to family and friendship.