If you make a lot of noise without your grandchildren, is the elderly obliged to help your children

In many families, the elderly will help their children with the baby, and even if they leave the child to the elderly, they will leave it alone. The old man can help his child with the baby completely out of affection rather than duty, the old man does not care about the baby and the noisy children are indeed a little unreasonable. The elderly have no obligation to help the child with the baby, and the child cannot force the old man to help with the baby.

The obligation to raise a child is the child's parents, and the elderly are not obligated to take care of their grandchildren. In the law, it is the obligation and responsibility of the guardian to raise the child, and there is no clear provision for the elderly to help the child with the baby. Moreover, the law only encourages children to support the elderly, and does not make it mandatory.

Therefore, there is no mandatory requirement for the elderly to help their children with their children, and children should not force their parents to help them take care of their children.

The elderly help the child to take care of the baby completely out of affection, not obligation and responsibility. The old man has raised his children, and helping his children to bring the baby is completely out of their friendship with their children, if the old man is not willing to help his children with the baby, there is no reason for the children to quarrel with their parents. If the children are busy with work and do not have too much time to take care of their children, and the elderly can afford to take care of their grandchildren, it is reasonable to let the elderly help take care of them at this time.

After all, in China, it is more affectionate, and many elderly people care for their children and take care of them very much, and many elderly people will also voluntarily help their children with their babies. If the elderly are unwilling to voluntarily help their children with the baby, the children should not force the elderly, and the elderly can help the child with the baby.

The old people are already aging in their ideological concepts, and there are many disadvantages of the elderly with children. The elderly themselves are not obliged to help their children take care of their children, I hope that everyone can take care of their own children as much as possible, and do not force the elderly to take children and make both parties unhappy.

I think the elderly are not obliged to help take care of the baby, it is already very hard to bring themselves up, and now that they are married and have their own children, they should enjoy their old age in peace.

Of course, the old man has no obligation to help his children take care of the baby, because the old man can raise his own child, which has been a lot of hard work, and he should enjoy life after he is old.

I think that the elderly have no obligation to help their children with their children, it is not easy to raise their children, and now they have a lot of age to continue to help their children take care of their children, it is really not easy, there is no happy old age.

I don't think it's obligatory. But if the old man has the ability, help bring it, so that when you are old in the future, they will also honor you with their hearts.

In fact, the elderly are not obliged to help their children take care of the baby, it is love to bring it, and it is understandable not to bring it, because they are already old.

The elderly are not obliged to help their children take care of their children, and many times the elderly help their children to take care of their children.

Don't bring grandchildren to make a big noise, the elderly have the right to choose whether to help the child with the baby, it is not mandatory, you must choose to help, if the old man has the ability, you can also help appropriately.

Of course, there is no obligation, because it is hard enough for the old man to bring up his own children, and it is a bit too much to help his children take care of them.

I think the elderly have no obligation to help take care of the baby, the old man to help bring is love, not to help bring is the duty, there is nothing wrong, taking the child is the responsibility of the parents, why should it be pushed to the elderly.

There is no obligation, the reason why she helps her child with the baby is that she feels sorry for her child, is afraid that her child will be wronged, knowing that her child is busy with work, they just take a hand, and it is not the obligation of the elderly to take the grandson and grandson.

The elderly are not obliged to help the child with the baby, but the family relationship is too close, and the child is very busy, so you can consider helping.

The law does not stipulate that the elderly must have the obligation to help their children take care of the children, but this is just a habit that has been handed down.

Of course, the elderly have no obligation to help their children take care of the baby, after all, they are all brought up by the elderly, and the elderly should be happy when they reach the age when they should enjoy happiness, so we should also be considerate of the elderly.

Parents helping their children take care of their children can be said to be both affectionate and affectionate. First of all, the family's affection is selfless, and the family hopes that the child can grow up strongly, so for the growth and happiness of the child, parents are willing to do their best for their children. If the child has a child, the parents with the baby is also a way to show love, and it can also help the child reduce the pressure of parenting.

Secondly, in traditional Chinese culture, children need to be filial to their parents, and it is also regarded as a family obligation for parents to help take care of their grandchildren. In the traditional concept, filial piety to parents is a responsibility and obligation, and taking care of children for children is also a duty of affection, indicating the parents' care for their children.

Finally, parents taking care of their babies is also a way to help each other. For busy children, parents helping to take care of children can alleviate some of the family pressure and work burden; For elderly or retired parents, taking care of children is also a way to increase the joy of life and enhance family feelings.

Therefore, it is a kind of affection for parents to help their children take care of their children, and it is also a kind of family obligation; At the same time, it is also a way to help each other and strengthen family relationships.

There are a lot of old people in life, he will help take care of the children, the old people must help take care of the children, it depends on the old people's willingness, if the old man wants to take the children, it is also very good, because in this way, two people can earn money can also reduce the burden of the family, if the old people are not willing to take the children, this is also the young people's own efforts, because the old people raised their children after all, do not want to continue to take grandchildren, this is also more normal.

Nowadays, most of the elderly will also help take care of their children, because the old people are now in good health, so they feel that taking children is also to help their sons reduce the burden, so this is also the idea of many old people.

1. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, every parent loves their children more.

Because for many parents, they love their children very much, and as long as they have the ability, they will choose to take care of their sons or daughters.

Second, whether the elderly help or not to take care of the children is also voluntary for them.

For us young people, we can't force the old man to take care of his children, if the old man's physical condition does not allow it, or he doesn't want to stay, then there is no way.

3. In fact, it is best to bring your own children.

Because a child's childhood is inseparable from his parents, during his childhood, parents can be by the child's side, which is also very good for the child's future. If children are with their grandparents for a long time, they may also cause rebellion and disobey their parents.

So for the old man to help us take the child, this is also a very simple thing, if the old man brings, we are also very grateful to him, if the old man does not bring, can not blame him, after all, the old man is also very difficult in their life, very hard, so for many old people, they are also very fond of their children, but also can give their children to take children.

I don't think the elderly have to help take care of the children, if the energy and time of the elderly are not enough, there is actually no need to take the children, you can let the parents of the children hire a nanny or something.

The elderly do not have to help with the children, if the children's work is busy, and the elderly also like the children, they are willing to help with the children, if they are not willing, they can't be reluctant.

Of course not. People also have their own lives, and it doesn't matter if they help you or not. It's still up to your own efforts.

There is no need for the elderly to help take care of the children, because the old people are already very old, and there will be some generation gap with the way we take care of the children, so there is no need.

Not necessarily.

The elderly help with the children, just to help, not what the elderly have to do. If the old man brings it well, we need to be grateful, and if it is not good, we should not blame it too much, but should try our best to correct some problems of the elderly.

Definitely, because young people need to earn money in order to live, and the elderly should help them take care of their children.

No, the child belongs to the parents and is their own, and the responsibility should not be shifted to the elderly.

Not necessarily, because the elderly have no obligation to take care of children, but only help children share the pressure.

No, in fact, the elderly do not have the responsibility and obligation to help, and children are the responsibility of young parents themselves, and they should not be pushed to their own parents.

I don't think the elderly have to help with the children, if the elderly want, I can give the children to the elderly, but if the elderly don't want to, I really hope that they can enjoy their old age in peace.

Not necessarily, because it is not an obligation for the elderly to take care of their children. If the elderly want to bring it, they can still bring it, and if they don't want to, they can also not bring it.

In China, the obligations and legal relationships between individuals are mainly regulated by laws such as the Contract Law of the People's Republic of China, while the elderly with children are not part of a contractual relationship. However, in terms of family ethics and social habits, the elderly have the responsibility and obligation to take care of their grandchildren and help their children take care of their children, especially when their children are busy with work and do not have enough time to take care of their children [2]. Therefore, although there is no legal obligation for the elderly to take care of their children, at the level of family ethics and morality between private individuals, the elderly have an obligation to take care of their grandchildren.

Of course, the specific situation needs to be judged in combination with the actual situation of the family.

Whether or not the two generations want to live together involves practical interests.

Nowadays, when young people get married, they can't buy a house, buy a car, or give a bride price by their own ability, so the parents of both parties will provide great help financially, so some of them will think that they have the right to interfere in the lives of the young couple, such as asking their daughter-in-law when to have children and how many children.

And young people, get the benefit must not be too ruthless, parents say to listen to what they say, the most practical, is to get rid of the old people to help watch the children, now the social pressure is so great, it is difficult to find a job lost, especially women take the children out of the work, basically can not return to the previous level, so childbirth has become a family needs to work together, daughter-in-law has a child, father-in-law and mother-in-law take care of the child, the young couple continue to work hard to pay off the mortgage, car loan, make milk powder money and so on, Otherwise, without the help of the elderly, life is really busy and difficult. Nowadays, some girls are looking for a partner, and they will also see whether the man's parents have a pension, whether they are in good health, and whether they can and are willing to help take care of the child.

Although there will be many contradictions between the elderly and children, such as differences in living habits, ideological differences, differences in parenting concepts, and the run-in collision of living under the same roof with each other, which will lead to many bad things, but there is no way, the family is a big interest as a whole, unless young people do not rely on the elderly to get married, do not rely on them to help take care of children, and each other can arrange their own lives, so that they can achieve a distance to produce beauty, and everyone is at ease.