Many families are not tidy enough, what is the underlying reason?

I think the following reasons for untidiness should be the main ones:

First, habits and traditions. Most Chinese families have the virtue of thrift and thrift, thrift, carefulness, and meticulousness are the characteristics of most elderly people born in the fifties and sixties and before, when people praised diligence and thrift, praised reading and gaining fame, and the tidiness of the family has been neglected, and even anyone who always throws things away to keep the family tidy will be laughed at. People have grown up in such an environment for generations, and their minds have been engraved with thrift

The concept of hard work and accumulation of wealth does not have a deep understanding of what neatness is, as for how to be neat and tidy, we have not learned from the elders, many families do not have the habit of cleaning regularly, at best once a year before the year. My mom is pretty clean and tidy, but it's just a face-saving project.

Second, there is no sense of neatness. In view of the first point, we have not learned from our elders how to be neat and how to do it. Most people don't realize that cleanliness should be a part of our lives, and it's a terrible thing to "don't realize".

Now since ** is prevalent, a large number of ** are popped out on various platforms every day, but if you observe, the little brothers, sisters, and aunts who dress up to go abroad, their home background is really indescribable, dirty and messy, why, because they don't have a sense of home cleanliness, and even the homes of famous artists are not tidy.

Third, there is a sense of neatness but not the essentials. Five years ago, Japan's Yamashita Eiko's break, Kondo Marie's finishing magic was introduced to our country, many people are obsessed with tidying, but after a period of time they gave up, when they were young, they didn't develop habits, no sense of tidying, no tidying up method of inheritance, coupled with the big difference in living habits between China and Japan, Japanese tidying is inevitably unadaptable, many people just follow the books, ** tidying up and then messing up, and time makes it difficult to sustain tidyness and have to give up.

Fourth, a considerable number of people hold the theory that neatness is useless. Be free and go with the flow, be tidy, you can't eat, you can't drink, you can't bring wealth, why insist on it.

1. Lack of a backbone who "can stand things". In any family, in the process of running-in, sooner or later there will be a backbone, no matter what the ability of this backbone is, and whether he is willing or not, he has formed his status in the "Gathering of Storms and Clouds". In fact, the backbone of a family greatly determines the rise and fall of the family.

An excellent family backbone can bring the family out of the predicament and towards glory; And a brainless backbone will lead a good family to the abyss of disaster without any rules, and there is no way to expect any improvement in the family.

Second, there are many members who "have not achieved enough things, and have more than enough failures". Many families, the basic conditions are actually quite good, as long as you work a little hard, cherish it, and the days are not prosperous, at least you can live without worry. But in some families, there will be members who "don't do business, do everything blindly, and cause trouble everywhere".

Such a member has never done a serious thing, and has done his best to do good things into bad things, just like an extremely annoying "poke the pot leak", go to **, suffer, **unlucky, **like haunted. As a result, it always makes it difficult for the family to jump, and there is never any improvement.

A man who has been focusing on family health for many years came to sum up for two main reasons:

1. Old things are reluctant to be lost.

Do you have old bags, boxes, and handbags for all kinds of clothes at home?

Old furniture and electrical appliances, although they are good, but if you buy a new one, the old ones will be dusty?

Are there many things that seem to be useful in the future, but don't know what they will be useful for a while?

Young people are slightly better, and older people who have experienced hard times are especially reluctant to litter. For example, my mother built a bungalow with a huge yard in her hometown, 3 large rooms with a storage room, and the kitchen and bathroom were all separate in the yard. Every time I go home, I always see all kinds of old things, many of which I have used since I was a child, and I basically don't use them now, and I still moved from the old house anyway.

It is understandable to keep emotional furniture, but some bags and boxes that are usually brought home from shopping, as well as some old electrical appliances and old furniture, if they are not lost or sorted out for a long time, the degree of clutter caused is considerable.

Therefore, proper disconnection and regular loss of things can really save space! Of course, don't blame me if you regret it when you use it, I only blame myself.

All kinds of bags, all kinds of boxes.

Second, the storage space is insufficient.

Anyone who has renovated a house knows that the storage space is piled up with money, and all the cabinets you can see, the right boxes, and all kinds of neat boxes are bought with money. The purchase of the house has been emptied of the purse, and the amount of work is large when decorating, so I have to compromise on various plans in the end. If you have enough storage space, you are not lazy, and you don't have Erha or bear children at home, you can still keep it tidy.

In fact, in the final analysis, the deepest reason is that the economy is not developed enough, and there is still a big gap between the material life and the developed countries. Maintaining cleanliness requires not only money, but also time to study and ponder, and more importantly, time to maintain. Nowadays, young people are busy with work, and often only have time to rest in the evening, and their energy is often very limited.

Therefore, the reason why you see Europe, America and Japan is very neat and tidy is because there are enough furniture for storage, and on the other hand, a stronger economy has given birth to a more humanized design!

Of course, none of the above reasons are unhygienic, and being diligent can still avoid a messy situation to a large extent!

There are several reasons for this:

First, the structural layout is not reasonable enough, some families do not look tidy enough, and the size of the house has little to do with it, if each plus "functional area" is reasonably divided, it will look a lot cleaner, for example: a family with children in the living room around a child's activity area, then the living room will not look full of children's toys, looks more messy.

Second, there is no design when the design is very reasonable, do not make full use of the space of the room to design some hidden storage boxes, for example, under the stairs, under the bed can be designed some "storage cabinets", some infrequently used or seasonal things are collected, the whole room will look much cleaner.

Third, there are many families because they are busy with work and don't have time to tidy up often, or young people are lazy now, if a room has been used to littering, the whole home will not be tidy enough.

Many people have this kind of doubt, why is my home so messy?

Many people have such doubts, why can't I always find my things?

Why is it that seeing someone else's home is always neat, clean, and tidy?

Why can someone else find anything they want to find?

Many bad factors and bad habits in life are always affecting our daily life, bringing us into a disorderly, clueless, and chaotic space, causing a lot of inconvenience and trouble to daily life, and sometimes affecting our emotions and normal daily life.

How to develop a good habit of living?

1. Cultivate everything to return to its place.

On the day we moved in, all the items in the house must have been reasonably organized according to your requirements. They already have their place to be, and we should return them to their places after we have used them and served us.

Think about daily life, if all the items we have used are not put in place, from ear spoons, nail clippers, etc., to the clothes we wear every day, the handbags we carry, we use them, put them there, and when we really need them, we can't find the items we use, and the clothes we wear ......How anxious and impatient.

Once I went to a relative's house for dinner, I heard that the relatives and the couple were arguing over a small box of toothpicks. Cultivating everything to be in place and serving us must be implemented in the bits and pieces of daily life.

2. Cultivate all housework without accumulating.

The daily chores may be similar from house to house. Laundry, cooking, taking care of children, the elderly, cleaning and sanitation of the house, etc. What to do and how much to do every day is a different idea for everyone.

Happy families are the same, unhappy families have their own misfortunes, and untidy families have their own untidy laws.

If you live with your parents, it is easy to be untidy enough, your parents have worked hard all your life, and suddenly live together, except for watching children, there is almost nothing else to do, and they are a generation that can't be idle, so they like to clean up, but some parents clean up the house, that is, the old things are reluctant to throw away, and sometimes you have to pick up others from the outside, you can't say that your parents are wrong, but the two generations have different concepts of life.

If you have just given birth to a child, the child is crying, the child is noisy, the child is urinating, you can't clean it up at all, or you can wait for him to clean up after playing, so it will not be tidy enough.

The young couple lived together, and because of the distribution of housework, no one wanted to do it first, and they always felt that they would suffer if they did it, so they didn't move, and the result was that both of them disliked each other for not being diligent enough and the house was not tidy enough.

If you live alone, you will either be lazy and don't want to clean up, or because you live by yourself, it's okay if it's untidy, and if you feel untidy, it will feel more like home, and you will fall into a vicious circle, the more untidy you are, the more you don't want to clean up, and the more you don't want to clean up, the more untidy you are.

Therefore, there are many reasons for untidy families, and in the final analysis, they will rise to the problem of life concept or personal habits, and no one is right or wrong.

Many families are not tidy enough, and the underlying reason is laziness.

The housework is still relatively heavy, and if you slack off, the whole family will be messy.

As soon as people slack off, they should tidy up their rooms and don't want to tidy up, so they sit on the sofa and watch TV.

In this way, as time goes by, the psychology of procrastination is formed, and the whole family is messy and untidy, forming a daily routine.

If a family wants to be kept tidy, it must have dedicated people to take care of it with enough time, and if individual people are busy with time and work, other family members should share the housework.

Many parents are busy with work and business, and it should be said that it is very hard to return home after a tiring day, and they have no intention of taking care of the family.

Therefore, such a family hopes to let the child take on some of the housework, don't think that the child is small, can't do anything, can't do well, let the child exercise more, and slowly they will do a lot of things, share a lot for the parents, and reduce the burden of housework on parents.

The family is not tidy enough, the deep-seated reason is because the owner's requirements for life are not high, and their living habits are not good, and the family is not tidy enough due to the mess everywhere and not cleaned up, and in general, it is too lazy.

Many homes are not clean, and the underlying reason is that the head of the family is too lazy and has not taken a course in domestic service during the nine years of compulsory education, which causes the head of the family to improve the furniture and living conditions.

They are impetuous, unwilling to be lonely, that is, as the saying goes, they live a restless life, and their minds are not at home. They are generally dissatisfied with the status quo of their lives, eager to get rid of the status quo, and deliberately pursue a higher, better, and richer life. The environment of the home is clean and the mood is much better.

No matter how good the dress is, this is a place in your home that doesn't need to be big. Maybe she spends her time in other aspects, reading, painting, people's time and energy are limited, and if she takes care of this aspect, she can't take care of other aspects.

<> there are such people around me, who are slightly more beautiful than their peers, dressed fashionably, from hair to shoes, cleaned up neatly and neatly, and feel very clean, but when I go to the house, it is so messy that I don't even have an empty foot. This is what everyone calls "donkey dung egg surface light". According to my observation, she doesn't love cleanliness, and there are more girls nowadays who don't know how to do housework.

This is characteristic of life in a single-child family. There is a baby girl at home, and parents are reluctant to let girls work. Since the girl was a child, her mother took care of all the housework.

After some girls get married, their mothers have to help clean up their daughters' homes. Dressing herself up is just to satisfy vanity and face, and the mess in the house all day shows that she is a lazy, sloppy person, and not a woman who really loves cleanliness. In the past, the old man had a saying about this, although it was not good, but it was ...... in one wordDonkey and eggs are light outside, and this is what she is talking about.

Pay attention to other people's eyeballs, pay more attention to yourself, and talk about grace with face! The heart is too impetuous, I can't clean up the home environment at home, I can't settle down, my energy is focused on transforming my makeup and dressing up, and I can't stay at home, I don't want to go home to do something reliable when I have time to walk aimlessly on the street, and I have a restless heart!