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Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person. Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then.

When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others." "When I'm loved, I think:

It's a blessing to be loved! But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by. Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart.

Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears. Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime.

Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world. The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **?

Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent. There are many people who have no soul.

I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world. He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did.

Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

Because people often don't want the people they care about to know too many bad things about them.

Fear of being despised by the other party.

I am more afraid that the other party will be estranged because of this.

I also have a lot of my own concerns.

And strangers are much easier.

Often, they are only one-sided.

Or a couple of sides.

It doesn't necessarily intersect in the future.

Tell strangers what is in your heart.

Don't worry that he'll tell someone he knows.

Don't worry about your secrets being leaked.

And the heart is very depressed.

If you don't find someone you can trust.

You may not be able to stand the psychological pressure.

So instead of saying to your beloved.

It's better to talk to strangers you don't know.

After arguing with your loved one, you will need a place to hold the boredom in your heart.

And when I tell my acquaintances, I'm afraid of being embarrassed and losing face.

With strangers, you don't have to think about it that much.

I like to talk to strangers, probably because Wang Tiemai doesn't have to worry about the other party saying it in front of others, anyway, we don't know each other, even if you say it to others, you don't know who I am, so there is no psychological burden.

However, the privacy aspect is still as little as possible.

Because you can be unrestrained. Strangers don't know you, they won't talk about you, and they can comfort you properly.

Reasons to prefer to chat with strangers:

1. Not afraid of being ridiculed.

Many times, some emotions or things, told to friends, may be ridiculed, but for strangers, even if it is ridicule, it will not have a big impact on your real life, which is an important reason why everyone likes to chat with strangers.

2. Don't be afraid to divulge secrets.

The most important thing in chatting with strangers is not to be afraid of strangers revealing secrets, because even if the vent is noisy, the life circle is different, it will not affect your life, which is one of the important reasons, sometimes some things to say to friends, always feel unsafe, because I am afraid that friends will leak to acquaintances.

3. Don't be afraid of embarrassment.

Strangers are generally not in the same life circle, and there are fewer chances of meeting, which avoids a lot of embarrassment, which is also an important reason why everyone likes to chat with strangers, because they are not in the same life circle with each other, relatively speaking, they are all safe, of course, those who cannot involve identity cannot be chatted.

4. Don't take your feelings into account.

Because everyone is a stranger, you don't have to take into account each other's feelings, so it's easy to express your own thoughts, because everyone has a desire to express themselves, and if you always take into account the feelings of the other person, it's more tiring to chat.

5. You can open your heart.

Because you are not in the same life circle, the chance of meeting is small, so when chatting with strangers, you can open your heart, and some things that you can't say with your family, friends, lovers, and children are easy to say to strangers, so that the depression in your heart will be released.

We always say that it is difficult to find someone to talk to, and it is difficult to find someone who is good to you, but in fact, everyone knows that people are around you. And we don't know it, we always go to find the solace of strangers. I think they're so good at being a liquid man.

Very realistic. Do you want to know why? Sometimes it's nice but not profound.

The words in my heart are contrary to the image I show, and saying it to strangers will not have much impact on my life

It doesn't affect your real life. In life, you will always show the side you want people to see

You may also hear what you want to hear from strangers

In fact, you may have been stupid enough to have a heart-to-heart relationship with a friend you think you are. In the end, he let his secret be known to everyone, and then he was hurt. It's really hard to find a good pot friend

In fact, it is your sensitive inferiority complex and arrogance that you don't want to be sympathized with are at work. You said that you don't want people close to you to take care of things, it's not that you don't want to tell them the truth, you are afraid that they will cast sympathetic eyes, and you are even more afraid that you will become the talk of others after dinner.

There are some things that I don't know how to say, some things that I don't know who to say, and some things that I can't say, but I hope everyone is okay

We laugh and tell lies to our loved ones, but we cry and talk our hearts to strangers

Behind everything that is good, everything is not good. We are always worried that after we say it, it will make the other party worry and anxious, and reporting good news or not bad news is the best good intention to consider the other party. But in fact, there is another implicit message, we think of the other party too fragile to a certain extent, and worry that the other party will not be able to withstand the pressure brought by reality.

I have a lot of good family members, and each of them is very nice and good to me. But it's still hard for me to open up with them, and I always feel like I'm not myself in front of them. I was so disgusted with this feeling that I tried to avoid being in close contact with people.

In fact, it can be summed up in four words, and the words are shallow and deep, and we are not familiar with socks. There's no psychological burden to say anything, don't you think? I hope you enjoy it.

1. I want to ask why, I am no longer your joy.

2. If a promise is not fulfilled when it is most needed, it is to sell it, and it is no longer interesting to fulfill it later.

3. One day your life will flash back in front of your eyes, and all you can do now is make sure it's worth laughing at.

4. If it is not difficult to help yourself in the depths of love, how can you be soft and cold.

5. I suddenly found that looking at your happiness, in fact, my heart is entangled.

6. When you taste all kinds of flavors, you can see through them naturally; In the journey of life, there will always be a period of time when you need to walk and carry it by yourself.

7. Obviously not a stranger, but pretending to be stranger than a stranger.

8. I'm stingy, I just want you to be good to me, I can't see you doing the same to others.

9. Ten sentences of accosting, 100 sentences of goodnight, 1000 words of small talk, 10,000 words of nonsense, just to hear a sentence in the wedding hall one day I am willing.

10. You only let me be a guest in your life, but I want to be the master of your heart.

11. I want to be one of your teeth in the next life, at least, I am uncomfortable, and you will know it.

12. I'm out of the way, even if you don't love me anymore, I'm going to try to find all kinds of ways to make you fall in love with me.

13. There are two mes living in my heart, one shouting to give up, and the other struggling and refusing to forget.

15. The main contradiction faced by contemporary youth is: food and **.

16. The tenderness in her body bewitches you and makes you mistakenly think that this is love.

17. One sentence doesn't matter, it breaks my heart.

18. The world is so big, and in the vast sea of people, there is always such a person who can find you at a glance.

19. I really want to turn my life to the last page. I want to see who the person who accompanied me to the white head was.

20. Just stupidly waiting for the attachment I want.

21, the hand of time can't take away the blue and blue summer of that year.

22. Don't talk to me about love. I quit for you.

23. I've learned to avoid topics about you, 25. A lot of people don't need to say goodbye because they're just passing by. Forgetting is the best memory of each other.

26. Don't think about what will happen in the future, the future will be a matter of the future. Life is only a hundred years, and the curtain just goes up and down.

27. In front of the people and things we care about the most, we are the least worthless, and the more we care, the more humble we are.

28, the flowers bloom and fall a few springs, for the dark sadness of Ishde, since that day of separation, leaving is like a lost soul.

29. When we were children, we cried and cried and laughed, and when we grew up, we laughed and laughed and cried.