How to make yourself a joker

It is not easy to do this, it requires long-term observation, accumulation and learning, as well as a deep understanding of life, so it is necessary to consciously cultivate it in order to obtain the natural expression of humor.

First, we must learn to "regulate" ourselves, cultivate our noble tastes, and lay the "foundation" for humor in our thoughts and emotions. People with the psychological quality of humor are able to be positive, enthusiastic, compassionate, and can "turn hostility into friendship" in clever words and actions, or in a self-deprecating way, to change their relationship with those around them, and also to put themselves in an emotional state that is beneficial to their physical and mental health.

Second, it is necessary to step up study and broaden one's knowledge. Because humor is a kind of cultural accumulation, it needs to reach a certain level of cultural level. The storage of a person's knowledge is directly proportional to the cultivation of the individual.

Only those who are knowledgeable can have the ability to judge the situation and size up the situation, be able to talk richly, make interesting remarks, make appropriate analogies, not worry about the gains and losses based on the trivial matters in front of them, and be more elegant and less reckless.

The third is to be diligent in thinking and cultivate deep insight. Humor is a kind of psychological calisthenics that requires long-term mental exercise. Therefore, constantly improving our ability to observe things, develop our wits in practice, and cultivate an agile style is an important aspect of improving our sense of humor.

Life is the source of humor, only with the love of real life, the yearning and exploration of the unknown, the deep understanding of the essence of new things, and the rapid capture, can we discover the humor of life itself and create the real humor of life.

Make yourself humorous!

1. The content should be elegant: the content of the joke depends on the ideological taste and cultural accomplishment of the joker. Jokes with healthy content and elegant style not only give the other party inspiration and spiritual enjoyment, but also a powerful shaping of their own beautiful image.

2. Friendly attitude: being kind to others is a principle of joking, the process of joking is the process of mutual exchange and transmission of feelings, if you sneer at others by joking, vent your inner disgust and dissatisfaction, others will think that this person can not respect others, so as not to associate with them.

3. Behavior should be moderate: It is very important to control jokes within a reasonable range.

4. Be different from the wide object: juniors should not joke with their predecessors; Subordinates should not joke with superiors; Men should not joke separately from women. When making jokes between peers, it is necessary to grasp the personality traits and emotions of the other person.

5. The occasion should be clear: the joke should not be too excessive, especially the occasion and the opposite person.

It's normal for many people to feel upset or uncomfortable with a friend's prank.

In my understanding, prank should be a friendly, harmless act, not an act that causes harm or unpleasantness. Therefore, the scale of jokes should be determined on a case-by-case basis, including the following:

1.Respect the boundaries of others.

Everyone has their own bottom line, and you need to respect other people's feelings when making jokes. If your prank might cause discomfort or unpleasantness to those around you, it's best to give up on the idea.

2.Avoid using overly despicable ways.

The purpose of pranks is to make people happy and relaxed, but some methods can be too despicable, such as insults, slander, etc., and these pranks can cause disputes or have long-term effects, or even hurt people's feelings. So make sure your pranks don't go too far.

3.Gu collapsed cherry blossoms and acres of cave time and occasion.

The timing and occasion of the joke is also important. Sometimes, such as on a formal occasion or when introducing a new couple, it's best not to joke. At the same time, if your prank requires more preparation and time, then it is best to inform others in advance so that they do not misunderstand or become unpopular.

To sum up, the scale of joking should be determined on a case-by-case basis, respecting other people's feelings, avoiding overly mean ways, taking into account the time and occasion, etc. Hopefully, these suggestions will be helpful to you.