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I'm an afterthought.
One of the members has a deeper feeling. First of all, hindsight is the past tense.
The clarity of the meaning of the event, a kind of awareness after the fact. The point is, why is it always an afterthought? Does the underlying meaning want to ask, what does that mean?
I don't know what your true feelings are about always being an afterthought, and I smell that you're not so comfortable with being always an afterthought, not so recognized. It seems that it is always an afterthought metaphor for something derogatory, and then I feel that I am implying that a person is not smart enough, not sharp enough, in other words, a metaphor for being dull and stupid. If so, it doesn't feel pleasant.
Because of human nature, we always like to be recognized and appreciated.
Most of the hindsight is because of regret that the thing was not done well, the attitude towards people, the aftermath of doing things, the aftermath of dealing with feelings, and the majority of those who ask this question are not dealing with these things well. First of all, this is caused by a person's habit of doing things and an attitude towards things. As others have said, this is a lack of life experience, work experience.
If it's the same thing, the second time you probably won't have the feeling of hindsight. If you treat the same thing or the same kind of thing, you have always had an afterthought, you don't have the feeling of handling it well, you don't think about it before using it for you, and you don't learn from it. <>
It may also be caused by thinking habits, sometimes it is not because I don't understand, but in an atmosphere that unconsciously continues our fixed way of thinking.
In order to change this situation, we must first understand that the cause is caused by our inherent thinking habits, and finally start with a specific event, such as saying the wrong thing in a gathering of friends (which is something I often do), and then I think about my psychological state at the time of the party, what kind of psychology I am talking about, and what is the general reason for the formation of this psychology. <>
In hindsight, sometimes it is really distressing, and doing something is always slower than others. Think slower, too. If you want to change, you must think more about life, learn more lessons, learn more, and make yourself better!
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This kind of person has a long reflex arc, and many things are not understood at the moment, and when they think about it afterwards, they will suddenly realize it, and even regret it, mainly related to personal character, and some people are like this.
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The reason for the formation of hindsight is: not knowing in the early stage, not knowing the situation, etc., and the state of being blindfolded. It was only after the result of the matter came out that I suddenly realized that I understood the process and reason of the whole thing.
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There are two reasons, the first is that I am vague about certain concepts and cannot recognize their connotations, and the second is that my personality is more indecisive.
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