What have you ever complained about your mother in law?

Maybe it's just a different family, a different way of life. I was pregnant, I wanted to eat stupid chicken, people kept saying that stupid chicken was difficult to stew, it was very difficult, and I spent more than 20 yuan to buy a layer chicken stew and said that it was my birthday. When I went back to my parents' house, I said that I wanted to eat stupid chicken, and my father immediately killed the chicken and stewed it for me, and stewed three stupid chickens in less than a week.

When I went to the pregnancy test, the doctor told me to eat protein-rich foods and eat more meat. When I went home, I told my mother-in-law that they had never cooked anything because of me. And tell my mother that every time it is stewed pork ribs, fish, and chicken.

At that moment, I understood a truth. Mother-in-law is not mother.

Don't complain, mother-in-law is also a mother, mother-in-law is not easy in her life, she gave birth to a few children, the family is not rich, her husband died early, mother-in-law is really not easy to raise a few children with hard work, she gave me a good husband, I have to respect her, honor her, tolerate some of her nagging, because mother-in-law is also a mother.

I haven't hated my mother-in-law, she is very gentle, she doesn't talk much, she does everything gently, she is reluctant to eat anything she buys, and she leaves it to her grandson, I can meet such a mother-in-law, and I am lucky to have three lives.

Before getting married, my mother-in-law was afraid of giving the bride price, saying that they had no bride price money when they got married, and that giving the bride price money was to sell her daughter, so it was really not good or bad for her. Later, because I was pregnant and got married, my mother-in-law was really reluctant to give the money, thinking that my husband's family was in difficulty, so I went to my parents and told me not to give a bride price. Later, my husband didn't want to have a wedding, so he bought me a ring when he got married.

The woman was dizzy when she plunged headlong into it. Facts have proved to be really inappropriate, women should cherish themselves. Tomorrow the divorce went.

My mother-in-law is very good, but she can't speak Mandarin, I'm from another province, she speaks Hakka, and the two can't communicate at all. If there is a word, it is translated by someone else. I'm trying to understand her words, but I'm a Shaanxi native, and I really don't know anything about Hakka.

The mouth is too vicious, everything else is fine, if I don't often say cruel things to me, I pretend not to hear it, and I don't need to apologize to her to make more trouble, otherwise I wouldn't hate her.

In order to take the child to her husband complained, my mother-in-law always taught the child that my mother didn't like him and didn't want him, and my grandmother liked him the most, some time ago my husband went back to my hometown to pick me up and told the child that I didn't want to go too hot, he said that it was hot and turned on the air conditioner, I said that your mother said last year that we should not turn on the air conditioner, and then came back and found that the electric fans at home were gone, and my mother-in-law said that my husband threw away the fans, and I could only turn on the air conditioner when it was hot.

My sister-in-law is five years younger than my husband, and when my husband and I got married, my sister-in-law's girl was more than a year old! A year after my husband and I got married, my sister-in-law found a second husband to marry. At that time, my sister-in-law and I were pregnant in the same month!

Four months later, I went to the hospital with my sister-in-law for a prenatal checkup, and there were acquaintances in the hospital! After my mother-in-law learned that my sister-in-law was pregnant with a boy and I was pregnant with a girl, she gave me a look on my face, saying that girls would not make full moon wine in the future, and there were a lot of bad words every day. Don't you let me have a child, who knows that my mother-in-law's abacus is good, and secretly put the child born by my sister-in-law out of wedlock in the name of me and my husband, this matter, I only knew about it when I gave birth to my second child a few years later, inexplicably I and my husband had an extra child under our name, and my husband didn't know it at that time!

I always speak in a commanding tone, a tone of discipline and criticism, a tone of lessons, and always say that I am treated as a daughter, because I call her mother, I don't like her to speak to me like this, I feel particularly disrespectful, I don't like to listen to me, I scolded her, and now I have changed it.

They always say that you are an outsider, regard you as an enemy, and carry you behind your back in everything they do, and do not let you know. Her children are right no matter what, no matter how good you do, you don't say that you are right, once you are wrong, they will slander you, insult me outside your family, look down on your mother's family, your mother's family is rich and better, and can often help you, she said that it should be, she wants to be able to get benefits, saying that she should raise a son, if you are good to your mother's family, she is better than a chicken and a dog, she didn't come to her house, that is, she was good to you before marriage, it can't be described, and she said that you are closer than your daughter, they are all **, very vicious, in short, People who are very good to you before marriage, don't believe in rhetoric, most of these people are **.

Hypocrisy, complaining every day, complaining that the boss at work is not good, colleagues are lazy, and every day she says how bad her mother-in-law was to him before, how bad her husband was to her, I have heard these at least n times, and I say it when I meet people.

I haven't complained.,Treat the elderly like children.,To be tolerant and understanding.,If you want to hate it because of something.,It's really ruthless and unreasonable.,But it's only a short-term annoyance and won't dislike it.。

On the fifth day of my month, my mother-in-law scolded me in front of my parents, saying that I don't know how to be grateful, pregnant in October, she cooked me a meal for 4 months, one a day, I ate at noon in the unit, she did it at noon, I came back in the afternoon to heat up and eat, she was not there in the afternoon, and there was no work, she played at home, did not come to cook for me, as long as I rested, she gave herself a holiday, I gave birth for 3 days and did not go down, the doctor asked for a caesarean section, the first thing she said was that it was very expensive? gave birth to my daughter, she didn't come to my bedside to ask if it hurt, didn't buy a dress for my daughter and spent a penny, didn't see her smile at me, didn't talk to me, the hospital was 7 days and 7 nights my husband and my parents took care of me day and night, my mother-in-law came at nine o'clock, went back in the afternoon, and didn't come at night. When I went to give birth, she said that it was probably a son, and her belly was too sharp, so it was a son.

We were just engaged, and she said that her daughter's mother-in-law had spent a pig's money when she married her daughter. Often full of lies, promising promises that cannot be fulfilled. I'm a woman, and I still dislike my daughter.

During the month, he always said something to bully me, and never cared about my family. During the Spring Festival last year, my daughter joined the work for the first year and gave her 500 yuan, and he said to my daughter with tears in his eyes: I owe your family, you didn't see you when you were a child.

The most impressive contradiction should be a time when the New Year is about to be made, preparing for the New Year, I went to buy leeks to prepare dumplings, but after buying back, my mother-in-law has been nagging, nagging several times, for various reasons, anyway, I said that I should not buy leeks. At that time, I felt very sad that I had spent money to buy it back, but I was still complaining. But I still held back and didn't argue with my mother-in-law, and then I thought about it, in fact, the old man just felt that it was not cost-effective to buy this leek now, ** it was nearly three times as usual, dispensable, and now it is so expensive that there is no need to buy it, anyway, I just feel that I spent money in vain.

My mother-in-law is used to being frugal on weekdays, so it's understandable to have this thought. In fact, most people think that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, and the main reason is that they have not fully integrated themselves into the family, so whenever there is a little conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is easier to be intensified.

The key is that the mother-in-law is vigilant everywhere, does not treat her daughter-in-law as her own family, and always asks her son first about her daughter-in-law, how can you treat each other sincerely?

Honest and honest people are honest, but they are actually vicious. Love takes advantage, love to pretend especially in front of outsiders. He is simply a saint, and his daughter-in-law is simply bad at home.

I have never disliked my mother-in-law, she is very nice and honest, but I really can't accept it when it comes to taking care of children. How many mothers-in-law will think that the child has teething early at seven months, and say that it will not be good in the future? There are a few mothers-in-law who believe that pricking the belly with a needle will keep the child's belly from swelling (not just one needle, but a full belly).

A few mothers-in-law will take their children to some so-called goddesses to rub the fluff around the child's shoulders. There are a few mothers-in-law who will believe the words of the so-called goddesses, and the children will cry non-stop, go outside to dig weeds and come back to boil water and drink... A few mothers-in-law will hear that stirring the fragrant ash with raw duck egg whites and wrapping it in a cloth on the child's navel will cure the child's hernia...

My mother-in-law is like this, she still doesn't listen to what I say, not to say that she brought up several children like this.

Actually, it's all fine, except that I don't like to be clean and pet children.

Having a child, my parents asked for an acquaintance. Discharge. Scatter red eggs. When paying. My mother-in-law actually said. It's your dad's business.

Try to be tolerant, she has formed a habit over the decades, she will be very uncomfortable if she doesn't complain about something, and the old man is old, his memory is declining, and some things are said and forgotten, which will become verbose, try to be considerate of the younger generation, after all, one day we will also get old.

I still need to be a little more tolerant, when my mother-in-law complains and nags, try not to talk to my mother-in-law more, so that my mother-in-law's mood can be stabilized, and it may be much better.

It's best to live separately and avoid things that shouldn't happen.

Indeed, in marriage, the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be said to be staged in every household. At all stages of Tong Zhengsou, there will always be inevitable friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law was so angry that she stomped her feet because her mother-in-law didn't understand science and always listened to the parenting experience passed down by word of mouth, but the mother-in-law pulled her son on the side and scolded her daughter-in-law for not being sensible and not listening to the advice of the old man and nagging non-stop.

Judging from most cases, the wife is indeed on the weak side in the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. You will feel that you are helpless at this time, and your husband will always favor his parents to let him not be so concerned and understand and give in, feeling that he has not taken into account his own feelings and feelings and is aggrieved and has the idea of returning to his parents' home. Therefore, I often always say bad things about my husband's parents, as if I want to declare my parents' meanness to the world, otherwise it will be difficult to eliminate the resentment in my heart if I don't vomit unhappiness.

Imagine how your husband's parents would feel when you were so merciless in accusing him. With a smile on his face, his heart was full of unhappiness and disgust. If you accidentally cross the bottom line, you will be scolded harshly.

No one likes others to count down their parents, even if it is their lover, there will always be times when Cong Na can't tolerate it. A smart woman will grasp the balance and tactfully convey the true demands of her heart from another aspect, which not only avoids the escalation of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law as much as possible, but also allows her husband to gradually understand your mind and take the initiative to resolve your troubles.

When you are getting stronger and stronger, the economy is getting better and better, you are completely independent, and you are constantly improving, and your mother-in-law is just a title

No matter when you think you are an alien, the good and the bad unconditionally defend your son, think that your daughter-in-law is unreasonable, mess around, don't treat your daughter-in-law as a person, pick your daughter-in-law's thorns horizontally and vertically, pick eggs and bones, think that you are an old man, you can casually instruct your daughter-in-law to do this and that, and say that your daughter-in-law is not, and instigate your son and daughter-in-law to fight.

It's not annoying, my mother-in-law is also a mother, my mother-in-law is not easy in her life, she gave birth to a few children, the family is not rich, her husband died early, and it is really not easy for my mother-in-law to raise a few children with hard work, she gave me a good husband, I have to respect her, honor her, and tolerate some of her nagging, because my mother-in-law is also a mother.

I don't have high requirements for my mother-in-law, I treat her well first, just to pave the way for peaceful coexistence in the future. But if my mother-in-law has two sons, and she steps on this and lifts that, I will endure it the most, and some parents prefer one child the most. Forget about preference, and think about the one you don't like, for example, why only give one with two children?

It's okay to bring it, why are we the ones who contribute money and effort? Why do we pay for the second child? She doesn't have to take care of the children, doesn't cook, doesn't wash dishes, doesn't wash clothes, and she doesn't even look at her father-in-law's hospitalization, let alone waiting, and she doesn't pay a dime.

My mother-in-law actually said in front of me every time that she was so good, but she couldn't find such a good daughter-in-law.

There are too many, buy a house before marriage, she said what house to buy, don't be vain, live after marriage, and whoever asks in the community in front of me says that she can't afford it, rent. Now give birth to a baby, come to help bring, born there is no hair on the top of the head, said that I should grow hair during pregnancy and do not eat, she knew that I have gestational diabetes can not eat casually and said this, a few days later said that my husband was born with no hair on the top of the head, to be honest, the child's grandfather and father are a person with a high hairline, I couldn't help but say that it was your family's genetics, and said me. The child's face was hot, at first I didn't know what it was, my mother-in-law said that it was my breastfeeding on the child's face, and later I knew that it was a hot prickly heat, so I said that I wanted to use the egg shell to break how to whole, put a knife everywhere, no knife on the bone chopper, said that this is good for the child, dry clothes and tell me that men's clothes should be dried in the front.

I only gave birth to a baby for a few days, my husband slept in another room with a cold, and came over and told me in a very bad tone that he was too honest, so he was offended, I was very angry, I said what does this have to do with honesty? She quickly said that I meant to take more baths. I subtracted the child's fingernails, and she and her father-in-law both ran over and said that the child did not lose his fingernails, and I said that he had caught his face, and she said that she wore long-sleeved clothes, full of superstitions and thoughts, and the problem was that I never disdained what I said, no matter what I said, it was a deviation of the head, a pout, and a dialect that was the meaning of negation.

I think I'm bored. During the confinement period, my mother helped me take care of the children, my mother-in-law was responsible for cooking and washing the children's clothes, and I began to be unhappy in a few days, breakfast was eaten at half past nine, and I could eat lunch at one o'clock during the day, and I didn't do it at six o'clock at night. Seeing her like this, I told my husband to change from tomorrow, my mother cooks and washes clothes, your mother takes care of the children, it is only one night, and the next day I slept for a day, and my husband only got up before he came back from work.