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I'll divide the situation, and if that person keeps pestering me, I'll show it. If you meet and greet normally, don't show it, and there is no deep hatred. I used to have a particularly annoying person, who is a person who likes to stick to you very much, and her colleagues know her character, so they all stay away.
It's just me, who didn't dare to go for a long time, and I think she took the initiative to talk to me, so I have a good relationship with her. But after a long time, I found out that the reason why she was with me was because she wanted to take advantage of me. I am often asked to help him with a lot of things.
After that, I got annoyed, and every time I came to me, I would behave very coldly. I'm a very good chatterbox, and when I see her, I don't say a word. After a long time, he avoided her.
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When you are unhappy, you have to show her, no one will not react in their hearts, people are not as fearless as they appear on the surface, unless they are ignorant. If the other party is not at the same level as you, you won't hate her, and you will ignore it directly. On the other hand, if you behave very much at her, she will not feel no feelings in her heart, at least she will respond.
The more friends you have, the better your popularity, and the more she will be afraid of being isolated and ostracized.
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Live a little bit of yourself, like is like, don't like is not like, why care about others? You can do what you want, you don't have to hide your emotions, you don't have to force yourself to like it, and you can be your true self. From the time I went to work until now, I have always been clear about right and wrong, like is like, hate is hate.
I never pretend not to hate him because of anyone's eyes or criticism. But it's not about work. If I need cooperation or help at work, I will do it right away.
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I kind of hate people who try not to show it, but can still be easily discovered. Because I like that you're going to be obvious and close to you. The situation of being so annoying is suddenly cold, even if you don't see each other, the atmosphere can still be seen.
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Look at who you hate. If it doesn't affect you much, the table doesn't perform. If it has a big impact on you, show it if you think it will be good in the future, and if he can cure you and you can't do it yet, it's better not to show it.
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When I was a child, I especially looked down on people who didn't show it, and I felt hypocritical. No matter how big it is, I still look down on it. But I'm in my twenties now, and I'm envious of people who don't show it.
And began to learn not to show it. I still want to show it in my heart, but I don't think it's meaningful. But I still count on my fingers what days I can show it, when?
I trampled the person I hated so hard that I couldn't get up again, and then I laughed and told it, I hate your jokes. The world is still very beautiful, just don't step on the people you hate.
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Don't show it if you hate someone, and don't tell others, this is the manifestation of high emotional intelligence.
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Hating someone still depends on what is the real psychological motivation behind you? Sometimes we use things to express our emotional state, and if you know your true psychology, I think you will know everything.
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1. HostileWhen talking to you when you get along, it is always aimed at you, and it is more obvious, at this time, pay attention to think about the relationship between each other, if the task is not completed, the reason will be all on your head, everyone chats together, and the key topics you bring up will be strongly justified by you, not to let everyone think that you are wrong, this is mostly because of dissatisfaction with you.
2. Don't care about your feelingsWhen getting along with others, if they are self-centered, do not consider your feelings, or often satisfy themselves at the expense of your interests, will not greet you when they use anything from you, borrow money from you and deliberately do not pay you back, ask him for help when they are in difficulty but are very perfunctory or directly refuse, it means that he does not care about your feelings and does not take you to heart, and can even be said to hate you very much.
3. Deliberately stay away from youSome people are naturally outgoing and talk eloquently when confronted with others, but are silent when confronted with you, or often walk away under the pretext that something is going on. When we get together, we don't talk much, we keep our distance, or if we invite him to dinner, we will be refused.
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If you really hate a person in your heart, then you really can't even look at you lazy, even if you talk to him, he will treat it as invisible and ignore you directly. So I hope you don't become someone who is hated by others.
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Because of the disgust of this person, at this time, you can only see his (her) shortcomings and mistakes, and can only see the negative parts, prejudice replaces normal, and the part covers up the comprehensive.
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