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Nothing more with colleagues. Get along with friends and participate in more group activities. This way people will be much more cheerful.
Another thing is to pay more attention to the things around you. Watch more on the news. That's how you can find a topic!
Have faith in yourself! At the beginning, whether others want to listen to it or not, you have to keep talking, and after a long time, naturally others will listen to you. Don't be afraid, don't cower.
This society is like this, it is better to use your hands than to use your mouth. will say that your chances are destined to be better than others, and Yang Liwei Feitian was also because of his good language skills!
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You can practice your writing skills, read some articles often, and be sure to read them aloud!
Another quickest but not very good way is to scold others more, in this way, the oral organization ability will improve quickly, and I am an example of being forced out!
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First of all, you have to have a lot of knowledge, if you know everything, when you talk to others, you are the core, people will listen to you, if you can't, you have to listen to others
Secondly, you must have faith, have faith, and when you speak, you will be organized, know what you are talking about, and you can't talk nonsense
Third, you have to talk about topics that others find interesting, otherwise others won't want to talk to you
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Enrich yourself. Seek common ground while respecting differences.
Relaxed and orderly. Serial.
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Hawking on the street and chatting with others.
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Chatter, as the name suggests, is a lot of talk, and the conversation is very nagging, but it is also used to describe a person who is attentive to things and has a wide range of contacts. How to become a chatter that everyone likes, you can refer to the following points:
1) Be a caring person. Pay attention to details, remember the casual words of others, and praise others at the right time.
2) Fluent expression. Express your meaning clearly so that others can immediately understand your intentions. Starting a conversation easily is the first step in starting a conversation.
3) Rich knowledge. Read more books to understand astronomy and geography; Collect more information, real-time financial politics, current fashion, and ...... humanities and customsThe more you know about the world, the easier it is to discuss topics.
4) A tolerant mindset. A tolerant mind is more able to accept various points of view peacefully, and will not easily quarrel with others, and it is easy to mingle with all kinds of people.
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You can read more books to satisfy your soul.
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To change yourself, let yourself become a lot of words, not only learn to speak, but also learn to speak, you have to be with people with high emotional intelligence, get along more, make more friends, and be with everyone will change your personality, become more talkative, good at listening to others, this is very important, when communicating with others, listen carefully and carefully to others, you will be able to accurately understand and comprehend the thoughts that others want to express, as well as the purpose of speaking, so that you can accurately express your thoughts, Express your own opinions, be able to communicate and communicate with people well, and achieve twice the result with half the effort.
2: empathy, do everything to empathy, when encountering things, you may wish to stand in the other party's perspective to think about the problem, starting from the other party, think about how we do this The other party will think, the consequences of this, so that we can think clearly, do things the best, if the other party is the leader should pay more attention to this, but the premise must be to raise their thinking to a height, if I am the leader, how do I want you to do it, what kind of effect will it have, gains and losses can be understood, If you can do things properly and appropriately, and develop such a habit of thinking, you will be able to deal with many problems with ease and just right.
3: Be cautious about giving advice, the biggest danger is to give advice when others are not asking for advice, some people will reject the advice, no matter how good the advice is, or how noble your original intentions are, if you insist on doing so, the relationship between you and them will be affected. Don't waste your time and energy on trying to solve other people's problems, this also includes your spouse, friends and work partners, this kind of trying to solve their problems, is tantamount to saying that they are not capable of doing this well, for the act of taking the initiative to make suggestions, the wise do not need to advise, the fool does not advise.
When someone comes to me for advice, I figure out what kind of advice they want to get, and then I give them that advice, giving people the advice they want, which can be a good strategy for solving problems that don't actually matter.
4: It is better to be drunk with everyone than to wake up alone for me, if everyone is drunk, do not wake up alone, going with the flow may be the best way to protect oneself, sometimes, the most brilliant knowledge is to be ignorant or pretend not to know, but also do not wake up with everyone, I am drunk alone, so it is easy to lose my temper.
5: Say less and do more. If you talk too much, you will lose, especially in a crowded situation, talk as little as possible, avoid inappropriate factors caused by inaccurate language expression, observe more, think more, and speak less is the best.
6: Don't rush to express your opinion when you encounter something. Think about it for three minutes first, just this time, you can think about a lot of problems, make correct judgments, come and act, develop the habit of thinking more, think carefully about things can figure it out, you might as well try it, think quickly when you encounter things, act slowly, and constantly improve, when you are at home, you can also talk to yourself alone, so that you can slowly develop good habits, you will become extroverted, and you can talk more.
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1.Practice speaking your mind.
Many people are afraid to express themselves because they are afraid that their words will sound stupid or too deliberate. When I analyze socially conscious people, I observe that they always say things that are mundane and obvious.
2.Use the things around you to spark new conversations.
Issue. 3.Ask open-ended questions.
Open-ended questions can give the other person a chance to think about them.
and say something more detailed than yes or no.
4.Find common ground.
When we find ourselves having something in common with someone, it's a precursor to creating a positive chat atmosphere.
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Summary. Overcoming Fear Being unable to speak is also related to personality, and introverts will be nervous in front of the public, and even have a blank ,.. mind
How to talk a lot.
1.Learn to listen Listening is not only about listening to what the other person is saying, but also about learning how the other person is chatting and speaking skills,..
2.Pick a familiar topic If you don't talk much or can't talk about it, it's mostly related to the topic, and if you don't know anything about it,.. topic
3.Overcoming Fear Being unable to speak is also related to personality, and introverts will be nervous in front of the public, and even have a blank ,.. mind
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See**. Some of them are very meaningful about what they say when they scold and woo them.
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Read more books and communicate with them more.
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You should exercise more often.
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Normally, there are three pieces of advice for you:
1. First of all, let go of your closed heart, let go of your inner baggage, and try to talk to yourself in the mirror every day, which is the beginning of exercising your confidence;
2. Communicate more with familiar friends, participate in some gatherings in your own circle, participate in the topics that everyone chats about, try to communicate, and you can also make some preparations before each party, such as what kind of occasion it is, you can reserve some interesting topics for yourself in advance, such as current entertainment, current affairs, news and other hot topics, so that you will not be embarrassed;
3. In the face of some people's nervousness, this is usually a lack of experience, and a sense of inferiority in the heart, to take the first step, and then through the second step of experience, in the face of the third step, when you call those people, you will naturally have confidence. Refueling will work.
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