If you love me, why do you have to let me down again and again?

Some people always say that they love you, and even cry hysterically because you mention breaking up, but when you are reconciled, he still goes his own way and disappoints you again and again. Does such a person love you or not? In fact, the reasons why he did this cannot escape the following three points.

01.He doesn't understand what love is.

There was once an emotional survey that showed that 40% of people in love actually don't know how to love, these people don't know how to love each other, let alone how to maintain each other's feelings. He has a special feeling for you, he feels that he loves you very much, and always says those sweet words in your ear, and he thinks that this is love, and love is to say it out loud. But he doesn't know what you really think in your heart, he doesn't understand what love is, how can he give you love?

02.Saying I love you just to keep you around.

Most people are selfish when it comes to feelings, it's just that some people think too much about themselves, and they can't bear to lose in the face of those who are good to them, even if they don't really love you, they will tell you that they love you. Whether a person loves you or not, in fact, it is easy to see, because the person who loves you reveals that he cares about you in every word and deed he does to you. And those who don't love you say they love you, just to enjoy your kindness to him, and never think of taking the initiative to pay for you.

03.Fear of being alone suddenly.

Some people are accustomed to having someone to accompany them, so they will be afraid to live alone, and we will have some lovers around us who are about to break up but have not broken up for a long time, some because they still have warmth with each other, and some are because they are afraid of living alone suddenly. Such people say that they love you just to get your temporary companionship, and after the other party finds a suitable person, they will not fall in love with you again.

It only takes a second to say that you love someone, but it takes time to really love someone. Whether a person loves you or not is closely related to how he behaves towards you, and those who say they love you always disappoint you can only show that he doesn't really love you. Don't waste your energy and time again and again because of the other person's I love you.

It's really hard to love someone, love is mutual, love is also inclusive, you have to analyze the reasons why he disappointed you, why he disappointed you again and again, whether your own requirements were too high, or he didn't do a good job in the first place.

If it's your own reason, you have to self-examine, analyze yourself, change yourself, and make yourself better. If you are too demanding of him, you can also think about it, in fact, in real life, two people are together, live simply, be happy, and don't involve too much fame and fortune. If you love each other, I suggest that you don't wait for him to come to you, but take the initiative to go to him to save your love and happiness.

Some things that are yours are yours; It's not yours, it's useless to ask for it too much, and you won't get it in the end. He disappoints you, it is the gap in your heart, and it is the feeling of comparing you with others. You love him, he loves you, since we all love each other, then cherish it, go to him, hug him, don't wait for each other to be cold and talk.

If after analysis, it's not your reason, but because of the other party's scum. Then there is no need to endure disappointment after disappointment. That proves that he doesn't love you very much.

Although no one wants this kind of thing to happen, even if there is, it can't be repeated again and again, and if it really disappoints me again and again, then I won't easily choose to forgive.

Love is supreme for a sensual person like me, and there is no room for deception, if one day I am disappointed, it is because I was deceived, and the disappointment of being deceived will hurt more than the unintentional injury, when I love you, I can go to you across the hardships, disappointed, hurt, desperate, then be silent, will not cry, will not keep, no emotion, no words, since it is a promise that cannot be done, why should I be nostalgic, decided to forget, I will not look back and look at it again, Let him dissipate with the disappointment he has brought you.

Since loving you will definitely not let you down, so don't expect too much from a person, let yourself feel that I can live better without this person, and let you down again and again is definitely not enough to like it, not enough to love, the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment, leave half of the sincerity to love yourself.

Loving you and letting you down are two different things, everyone's personality is different, and the way of expression is also different, loving you is one way, but really doing it, whether it can satisfy you is another way. Sometimes he thinks it's very good, but he still disappoints you, which is also related to everyone's character, so don't ask too much, since you know that he loves you very much, don't ask too much, both sides give in a little, he works hard, you ask a little lower, you will reach the level of satisfaction of both parties, you will not be disappointed again and again. We often say that the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment, and this should be the truth.

Although I love you, I still let you down again and again.

Therefore, if he truly loves you and keeps disappointing you, it must be his behavior, and he can't get your understanding.

His way of expression may be a little biased, and he can't express the love you can see, but it will disappoint you again and again.

So, he should need some change in his expression to be able to make you understand, so that you will not be disappointed.

Loving you has disappointed you again and again, I think this may be that you have more hope for him, so you will be disappointed, because this kind of request or idea in your own heart is too high, so sometimes it is better to go with the flow.

Some love is only in words, some love in action, and some love in the heart. When the disappointment is enough, we will be relieved. The love that disappoints people again and again is not enough love, and you need to reflect on this relationship, how to go on, how to live is happy, and there is no disappointment or few disappointments when you feel love.

Love, it's not that simple.

If you care about it very much, you are afraid of losing each other, and you should try to shape yourself into what the other party likes instead of letting the other party be disappointed again and again. So, maybe it's not deep love.

This is a matter of character, loving you must be loving you, everyone has their own character, let you down again and again I think it is also a matter of character, if you also love each other, don't care so much, cherish it, don't do things that you regret.

Since he loves you and disappoints you again and again, such a person just talks about it and doesn't do it, you shouldn't believe him. You don't have enough place in his heart. All in all, one sentence is not enough to love you.

Hello, it is a very normal thing to have conflicts in love. The reason why you are disappointed again and again is because the boy wants you to leave him, but he can't bear to break up directly, which will break your heart again and again, and let you be disappointed and leave.

Since you love me, why do you still disappoint me again and again, love needs two people to like each other, understand each other, love each other, respect each other, let you down again and again means that he doesn't like you so much in his heart, and it is also possible that you can't achieve what he wants, so you have been disappointed again and again, love can not be forced, if you really can't break up early, so as not to hurt both parties.

There is no necessary connection between loving you and disappointing you again and again, or there is no necessary causal relationship. Since loving someone and communicating with each other are two kinds of arts, not everyone can love or deal with the relationship between two people. For this reason, since we love, we must be tolerant.

Because if it disappoints you, it may be that he can't meet your requirements, maybe he loves you too, but he is not so capable of meeting your wishes, maybe he tried his best, but your requirements are higher, of course, it is possible that he does not love you, he says he loves you, but it is only lip service, in fact, he does not attach importance to you, so he does what he does more consider your feelings, so what he does without regard to your feelings will definitely disappoint you, because he doesn't care about your feelings at all, For the person who says he loves you, you have to test whether he really loves you, and if he loves you, he will sincerely think about you, at least if he is able to do anything for you.

Loving someone does not mean understanding the needs of the other person, or psychological expectations, which is why it will cause disappointment again and again. If you want not to disappoint yourself, then you have to communicate with the other party, communicate effectively, so that the other party can understand your own inner thoughts, lovers also need to be cultivated and created, only by paying their own time and energy, the other party is likely to know themselves and the other, understand your psychological needs, in order to better meet your requirements, so as not to disappoint you!

Maybe he also has a last resort, so he let you down again and again, maybe he doesn't want to do this, you can choose to communicate more, understand the reason, in order to know why he disappointed you again and again.

Since I love you. It will also disappoint you again and again. In fact, sometimes it's just a sign that two people don't have one thing in common. If the two are on a common ground, then there will be no more disappointment. Find common hobbies, common topics, so that you can love longer.

If he loves you, he also disappoints you together, proving that he doesn't know what you like, and he doesn't enter your inner world, so he will let you down.

Since loving you disappoints you again and again, it is because everyone is not perfect, it is impossible for everything to be centered on you, although he loves you, but some things also need to be principled, or there are trade-offs, so sometimes you will be disappointed again and again, but this does not mean that he does not love you.

Since I love you, I will let you down again and again. It's that your expectations are too high, but the reality is not. A person must have a good mentality, but also be content. Speak contentmently. If greed is insufficient.

Two people love each other, to tolerate each other, understand, support, he loves you should also work harder, why are you disappointed again and again, have you ever thought that you are asking too much, and you are not working hard enough, pin all your hopes on him, love should also work together to maintain.

Since we are in love, we have been disappointed forever, and I think it is possible. He said that he loved you on the surface, but he didn't actually take action. Or he can't do what you want, so you have to depend on the situation. Don't ask too much of him.

Love is that both parties like each other, can not unilaterally pay, since love, to make the other party feel happy, feel satisfied, can not let the other party down again and again, so that the other party will leave.

I think there are only two situations, the first case is that he only loves you verbally, and you don't really love you, so he doesn't put you in an important position, and when he does things, he starts more from his own feelings, so he will disappoint you again and again. On the other hand, there are people whose emotional intelligence or way of doing things is not in sync with you, and they treat you in a way that they feel is good for you, and the result does not meet your expectations, so they will also disappoint you again and again.

Since she loves you but disappoints you again and again, it may be that she is testing you and observing you. She loves you but is not at ease with you, and she always has some doubts in her heart, so she will disappoint you again and again. But you have to hold on to your love, otherwise you will lose her forever, be patient and wait for her true love.

In that case, then why bother to be together, why bother to pay! Why not find a man who can make you sad and make you happy?

Find a time to sit down and have a good conversation. Say what you think, listen to what is in his heart, do it first, and then draw conclusions.

It is also caused by your conceit, love is a matter of two people. Is it true?

Maybe he's forcing you or waiting for you to say break up, I suggest you break up, because such a boy is not worthy of your love, since you know that he doesn't love you in his heart anymore, why do you want to be with him.

Maybe he's getting himself used to letting go of you slowly. Is he a Cancer?

If you really love, then don't give up easily, even if he makes you sad, try to care for him, listen to him, let him know that you still care about him; If you really love, then don't give up.

Don't give up, if you really love, then don't give up, even if he makes you sad, try to care for him, listen to him, let him know that you still care for him, if you really love, then don't give up, even if he disappoints you, try to tolerate him.

I think this is the time for you to reflect on yourself, why you always let down the people who love you, whether it is because you are not good enough in what you do, you can improve yourself from these aspects.