I m tired of compromises over and over again, how to continue

Jacky Cheung sang a cover of "Wait".

Leslie Cheung sang a song "Chasing".

If you can't find the feeling you need in waiting and chasing, then give up, maybe when you give up, everything will come back. When people have no choice, they must learn to give up. Best wishes.

That person hurts you again and again, but every time you give in and compromise, it means that he is very important to you, every time he makes a mistake, you bless hope every time, so you gradually get tired, you don't want to do this anymore, you gradually want to give up, but you are contradictory, because he is really important to you, so you are hesitant and confused. If that's the case, I advise you to let go, believe in yourself, she is only for you for this period of time, she is really important to you, you seem to be inseparable from him, but when you really let go, you know that in fact, time will gradually wash away everything, he will help you forget everything, and one day in the future, you will meet another person, and this person will replace the previous person, you will continue to live, continue to love, continue to live all your life, In fact, true love is that we are attached to each other in this exploration; In attachment, independence and fulfillment are maintained. Temporarily leave each other, there will be no anxiety; If you lose the other person, you will not lose yourself.

So tell him what you think, and if he is still like this and hurts you, then please give up resolutely and don't be nostalgic.

Persistence is victory!!

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Abandon! People can't always compromise and make do ... Pursue what you want, and you won't regret it when you die!!

It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, compromise doesn't solve the problem, two people sit together and have a good talk, or write a letter to each other, in short, have a good conversation. If it really can't be recovered, then simply be an ordinary friend, and be a person who can afford to take it and put it down.

Get a new haircut and say goodbye to people and things from the past. Everything starts from scratch.

If you don't explode in silence, you perish in silence.

Ambiguity can erase all the virtues of a man.

Even if he says it's just a friend, then he definitely still cares about that girl, and your compromise with her will only indulge him.

Women sometimes tolerate men, they don't know how to reflect and be conscious at all, and they will only be more unscrupulous and continue to talk, and something will definitely happen, because they all say that you are not good.

He is 9 years older than you, mature and sensible, if he really cherishes you and wants to have a future with you, he should understand what he should do and what he should not do.

If he is just wavering, you really give up, even if you feel distressed now, do you want to let yourself endure his ambiguity for the rest of your life I don't know how many times?

Then you let it go

He is a good man though.

But you never get his heart

Think for yourself

I don't like men like that. An insecure man who doesn't make mistakes now, what about later. It's not good for you to change your relationship because of this.

Pull it down Although Chinese rock is developing, it is very, very slim for the time being. The state does not support this thing, and the chances of getting ahead are pitiful. Of course, there are also successful ones, such as the current Xie Tianxiao.

Those who play rock know what the definition of rock is. Are there any so-called stars in pure rock at the moment? The people who accept it are mainly concentrated in the 70s and 80s.

Now it's the world of the post-90s. In general, it's okay to play, but as a career, it's very difficult.

A few days ago, the twisted machine came to us, and the twisting machine can still be used in China, and the guitarist can only afford to drive a 2-hand old Poussin. You know how poor people are. Liang Long, the lead singer of 2 Hand Roses, said that rock and roll in China is a public welfare.

I did rock and roll, and my wife and children couldn't afford to raise them.

Be realistic. There are a lot of examples of this around me. The ones who mixed it well went to the piano shop by themselves.

It's necessary to do what you love.

Just don't be swayed by what others say.

If you really love him, then you should continue to work hard, there are some things in the world that are lost and it is difficult to have them again, if you want to be combined with him because of reality, then think from a realistic point of view.

For me personally, the most precious thing in the world is feelings!!

Let go. If you unite with him because you love him, you will suffer a lot of grievances because you will eventually leave.

Let's leave, a short period of pain, three years from now to see nothing is nothing!

When you meet someone and you love him a little more, then you will always lose him. Then, you meet another one who loves you a little more, then, sooner or later, you will leave him. Until one day, you meet someone and you love each other.

Finally you understand that all searches also have a process. Once upon a time at the end of the world, now at hand.

This shows that you actually understand that she doesn't like you, so why should you be attached to it again? Only when you leave you will you find someone who brings you happiness, and only she in your world will not find the beauty of others. Drowning in memories is not what our strong boys should do.

Be strong, it's not a sin for a man to cry!

Even if you compromise again and again, she comes to you again, but in fact, she doesn't care about you, you are just her temporary harbor, stop and she will sail again, she is really worthy of love? You can't control such a girl, please leave early, or she will hurt you and be broken!

Compromise is to seek satisfaction for grievances, in order to keep love.

It's just that love can't withstand such repetition, and the heart will be tired.

Try your best to keep it, so that even if you lose it, you won't regret it.

In addition, I think that any love cannot be so simple as to be free of any impurities.

After all, we live in the real society, and too perfect love is imaginary.

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The actual volume of copper is 979g ( g cm3) <120cm3 so it is hollow, and the volume of the hollow part is.

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I'm in the same situation as you, even if it's **.

It's really not easy to find someone you "particularly like" now, everyone is "too busy". After all, if you find it, others may not be able to be with you.

It's hard to define the word "particularly liked" without going through an unforgettable process. "Start" itself is just "sowing", and it's hard to say that what is harvested is not "particularly liked", you say?

Anyway, when 2012 comes, there is no chance to think about it so much, don't lose the precious things around you, brother.

Keep looking for what you like, you're only 28 years old. Besides, the older the man, the more he likes the woman. If you try to cope with it, you will regret it later.

Feelings can be cultivated. You can find one that you think is good. This will develop into a liking.

Isn't that how your former girlfriend got in?

Contact first and then like it, and finally can't extricate yourself.

But remember, you must choose a good marriage partner so that it can be sustainable.

If you can't read people, find someone who can read people to help you.

Have you ever tried to chase a girl you like? You have to chase after it, I don't like blind dates.

Wait for the hammer, wait, the reality is extremely powerful, compromise, haha.

It's the same as the end of the world, and so am I, it's very difficult to do, love is not a business.

28 years old is not too old, so let's look for it.

You've analyzed the problems in detail, but you've complicated some simple problems!

1。Parents are good for their children, your parents are not unsympathetic, they just want their daughters to live better, to be honest, they have suffered for most of their lives, how can they be willing to marry a poor boy if they are willing to marry their daughters!

2。Your boyfriend is a little stingy, he should understand your parents' behavior, and don't put his mind on blaming your parents! It's about working hard for the girl you love!

To change your current shortcomings! Earn the trust of your parents! So he should work hard and study hard!

Instead of always whining at your parents! Because whining will only make things worse! Never solve the problem!

3。Your parents should also be understanding of your boyfriend, after all, they are still young, maybe because your boyfriend's family background is not very good, but as long as your boyfriend is very motivated and hardworking now! And he is very good to his daughter, and most importantly, his own daughter also likes such a boy!

One more understanding! After all, making money and working is not a matter of one or two days! A person's greatest wealth!

It's about having potential!

What steals a marriage certificate, what raw rice cooks ripe rice! Don't do it! That's not really the solution!

Addendum: Your parents want you to marry a civil servant! Is there a deeper reason? Why marry a civil servant!

If you are not a civil servant, you will not have a chance?

Learn more about this! Just find the problem to solve it, even if you already have the problem. I don't think it's deep enough!

Also, some people don't like a certain kind of work, just as some people don't like a certain food!

But these are not things that you don't like for the rest of your life, as long as you change your thinking mode! But at a price!

In a situation like yours, what you think is the solution at the moment is to make one side give in! I personally feel that it is possible to take both sides a step back!

All take a different position! Think about each other! It's sometimes easier!

As long as you are reasonable, you tell them the stakes, and I still have a way!

Sometimes, the problem that the other person wants is sometimes not the problem. Only sometimes deliberately difficult the other person. (Maybe your parents didn't mean that).

I think it's probably because your boyfriend has some ways that don't like your parents! Having said that!

My suggestion: focus the question on how your boyfriend behaves, your parents, and your boyfriend will be special as a boy!

Parents are the dearest, let your boyfriend compromise!

This problem is really difficult to deal with, and I don't have any good suggestions, but let me tell you one thing: be sober-minded on both sides, think more about it, parents are always good for you, do more ideological work for your boyfriend.

Change their minds.

Who said that civil servants have a high social status? Civil servants don't create any social wealth, they take our taxpayers' money, and they think very highly of themselves.

Don't you know the truth that "all human beings are created equal"?

It is advisable for your parents to look at the history more.

Can your boyfriend look down on your parents if he has money? First of all, it's wrong to disrespect elders, and secondly, this kind of person just relies on his parents, and he is just a person in a public institution, so he probably relies on relationships.