Why can t you do what you say?

Why can't you do it? Because of talking. It's just that if you say it in passing, you can't do it, that's natural, because the things you say feel very simple, but it's really difficult to do it, and you can't do it yourself, so.

He said it and couldn't do it, because he didn't have the faith, and he didn't have the patience.

This is normal, it's easy to speak, and the mouth will say it as soon as you go up and down, but it's hard to make it fresh, so it's easy to say, it's hard to do, you can't do it.

Because the heart is higher than the sky, he always thinks about things very well, and has no actual actions, just to satisfy his self-esteem.

Vanity can't actually do it because it's too hard, and he doesn't think about the serious consequences? That's it.

It is very easy to say that you can't do it, and you can't necessarily do it if you can receive it, because many things are easy to say and not easy to do, so you can speak, but it's not easy to do, and you can't do it.

This is a reality that most people have. Some people are boastful, because it is easy to say it, especially when they are excited, their emotions are not controlled and they must do it, and it takes a lot of ability and gold coins to do it, so it sometimes leads to inconsistencies in words and deeds, and inconsistencies in hearts and mouths.

If you say you can do it and you can't do it, it's because you don't have the ability to act. If you just pay lip service and don't actually do anything, then this will definitely not work.

Why can't you do it? Because this person has no perseverance. There was no confidence built so he said no.

Because most of what I said was my own imagination, just like my own dreams, when I said it, I didn't make a good plan and worked hard to implement it.

If you don't have a very strong motivation, it's easy to not be able to do it, so keep pushing yourself.

Everyone will be lazy, there is never a smooth sailing journey in this world, and the ups and downs are just this road. The previous episode is a fog in front of success, raise your head and walk over, you will reach the other side of success. If you bow your head and sink in, you will be drowned by history.

Whether you want to listen to it or not, it will come up with this episode, because no one can dominate the world. This life is changing, encountering it does not mean that misfortune is coming, maybe it is just a test of fate for you, bravely survive, and what you will gain will be to clear the clouds and see the sunny day.

This situation is very normal, because it is often easy to lose, but it is very difficult to do, especially it is very difficult to persevere, as long as you can do what you say, then success must belong to you.

It's easy to say, the upper lip touches the lower lip and you say it, but doing it requires action, and you have to do it as a whole person, not just talking about it, but actually taking action, so some people can only say it but can't do it.

People are like this, it's easy to say, but once you do it, it's very difficult, everyone can brag, but you see a few who have done bragging successfully, so it's good to listen to some words.

Because it is easy to say, it is just a situation of one sentence, but even if you need to practice it yourself, it is even more difficult.

Nowadays, there are many things that some people can only say but can't do, because some things are very simple and feel very difficult to do.

Because what is said is different from the actual situation, it is impossible to do what is said.

It is possible to receive it, but if there is no way to do it for some special reasons, it is more common to do it.

Make a wish to the meteor and say good night to you every day, but why do we get separated and can't go back that summer, that love on the beach, I can't go back to holding your hand, I become brave, incalculated, judged, beaten, and tossed.

Although we care about keeping our promises and doing what we say, sometimes the implementation process is difficult, why is that?

For example: the other party discussed things and asked the most: "Okay", in order to respond quickly, he agreed to the other party, but afterwards he found that he could not reach the vertical force of the bird, and it was difficult to ride a tiger.

In addition to the weak ability to act, the lack of clarity about the boundaries of one's own abilities and the actual situation: one of the most important reasons is that the commitment at that time was not for oneself, but to cater to others.

In order to give someone a quick answer, I made a choice in a hurry, but in fact, that choice was not made for me, but for the other party; It was not a choice between the two options, but a choice between "fast" and "slow" and "yes" and "no".

When we do something that we didn't intended, but do our best, the body instinctively resists the act. This is actually a manifestation of the people-pleasing personality, easy to promise.

Choices are extremely important, they determine what kind of life we live, but sometimes we know that it is important, but we still make the wrong choice questions, and even realize that it is a choice at the time, and regret it afterwards.

So three workarounds came to mind:

1.Whether it's choosing a job, major, or shopping, what to eat today, or other small things, install the "Ding Dong" prompt sound in your heart, and every time a multiple-choice question appears, it will sound Ding Dong Ding Dong. To remind yourself that this is a choice, so that after practicing enough times, when you encounter something important, you will immediately concentrate and pay attention to it, and the probability of regret will be much lower.

2.If it is an important matter and has not been thought about clearly for the time being, you can buy some time to think about it, and generally the matter is not urgent.

3.Use the decision-making artifact - mind map, after using it, it is addictive, it is too easy to use, the thinking process is extremely clear, and it saves time than simply thinking, and the quality of decision-making is extremely high.

There are several main reasons for this.

1. No sense of purpose.

Do we have such a thing in mind?

Wholeheartedly committed and willing to give to the goal.

If there is no such a strong goal.

to support yourself and work hard to achieve.

Life will not be able to find a direction, only truly understand what you want.

It will be easier to take the initiative to infiltrate and break off with the sparrow.

And the trail is not passive waiting and hesitation.

2. There is no immediate return.

Human nature is selfish and utilitarian.

They all like a point of labor and a lot of harvest.

Naturally, you will choose to give up.

In the absence of immediate benefits and returns.

Unwilling to go deeper.

Three days of fishing, two days of drying nets.

Over time, I understood the reason, so I shouted that Sen couldn't do it.

3. Fear of trying and lack of security.

People like to keep what they have.

If you change, you face the unknown.

The unknown is unpredictable and uncontrollable.

If you give it, you don't get it in return.

Because of the nature of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.

will fall into the midst of gains and losses.

Because you can't be sure, you don't feel safe.

In this way, you will think more and do less.

Slowly, you will see the high hand and the low hand.

I saw a passage on Weibo, which is just used to interpret the type of people who "have high eyes and low hands" and "love to talk about big truths, but can't do it".

The mind is thinking, and one of the characteristics is that it can transcend time, space, and materiality. This is very good, so that people whose minds are still seriously stuck in omnipotent narcissism will overuse their minds.

When a person is under the dual control of omnipotent narcissism and mental identification, he will be detached from feeling, that is, experience, and will say something that seems to be quite high without feeling. When I said it, I really thought that these realms were not difficult, but in fact, I couldn't do it at all, because I didn't live out at the experience level at all.

To identify with thinking, to understand in general is to equate thinking and self, and to think that thinking is me, and I am my thinking. From a deep level, this has really become a person's automatic mental model, that is, when this person speaks, he will automatically say some words with a relatively high level (and at the same time taste like chewing wax) to ask and persuade others.

Although he then knew that he couldn't do it at all, he still couldn't control it. Because the experience is stripped from the Zhengling self, the real realm of the experience level is always unable to enter the self and become a solid part of the self.

The mind always pulls us towards the sky, but when there is no validation of experience, the mind of the mind is something like duckweed clouds, without roots and without quality.

Man is to be true to his own experience, which pulls himself to the earth.

With real experience, we have certain insights on the basis of experience, which can help us grow ourselves, and we are detached from actual experience, but we only have some thoughts that seem to be powerful at the level of our minds, which are just delusions, which are not only not conducive to growth, but will promote narcissism.

There are some narcissistic people who like to talk big, but in fact, they don't have solid self-confidence, and a person who is truly confident behind closed chains will care more about other people's feelings than right or wrong. As the saying goes, be an angel, not a genius. Therefore, a person who combines experience and thinking should have the power to warm people's hearts.

Ask yourself.

You must think clearly about whether you can do it before you say it, because if you can't do it, it will cause problems in your interpersonal interactions.

Because men's promises are only one-sided, and they can never be fulfilled!

When your heart is greater than your action, don't you just act? So the problem is that you're not motivated to a certain extent, and you're working hard.

This is the normal condition of human beings, this is the general weakness of human beings, and the Bible also says: "I am determined to do good, but I am not allowed to do it, and I am really miserable." This is the person, including you and me.

The biggest challenge is to "choose oneself" and "exert oneself" after "knowing oneself". The point of self-selection is to choose to change, to choose to be responsible, to choose to act, not just to talk about it.

The focus of self-play is: to break through, to improve, to change, to act.

From "knowing" to "doing", this is a big step. A big step. It doesn't happen naturally, you have to make a decision, you have to make a will, you have to tell yourself, you have to do it well this time.

This step is a challenge for every person. Some people have stepped over, and it becomes his personality trait, and he has the opportunity to do bigger things, to be more successful.

This is the true spirit of "Talent Potential Activation".

Then let's do it, try boldly when you think of it, do it, but if it is successful, do it, there will always be a day when you do it well.

Eat one's words. The goal is set too high, and the child can't achieve it yet.

You can help him (her) refine what he or she can say and gradually reach the goal.

A holy soul does not merge with a filthy soul, like water and oil. Unless you purify or she corrupts ......

Do what moves him with his heart. Do it silently. Then deliberately let him find out.

Men are easily moved.