Marriage Issues Explore, Problems in Marriage

Buy it with your husband, the traditional concept is that when you get married, the man's parents should buy jewelry and clothes for the wedding, but now this thing may not be completely done. Don't rely solely on the man's parents. This has such benefits.

Because the old concept still believes that if you marry someone else, you are someone else's daughter-in-law, and your mother-in-law is looking for trouble all day long, isn't this the reason? His family doesn't buy you anything, don't bully you like your mother-in-law in the future, respect each other for everything, don't put up any stinky shelf with your daughter-in-law, don't think that everything should be within your daughter-in-law's business, and it will be much better when the time comes.

That's the way I'm in this situation, and now my mother-in-law picks me and me all day long, and she's polite to her uncle, why do you say that I'm the daughter-in-law married by her family, and I'm in charge of everything. I don't eat this set, my husband is facing me.

If grandma's family can, if grandma's family doesn't buy it, it's reasonable.

Buy it yourself, my ring is my husband bought it, what age, some old concepts should be eliminated, buy it at home, buy it yourself, and then what if you don't buy it?

No... How can there be such a thing?

Support the 3rd floor, if others don't buy it, you won't be able to recruit yourself, won't you get married? Marriage must be married, and if there are no conditions, you can create it yourself!

Set the wine first, then register.

If you register, you are legally married, but the wine is different. You can also put a marriage certificate without registration.

There is a more compromise solution, you can discuss with her the first thing, that is, to get the certificate first, and not to hold a ceremony.

The other is to hold a ceremony first and not to receive a certificate.

Just see which one she can receive.

Also, state your reasons to her.

I'm sure she'll be considerate of you.

Communicate with her well, in fact, there is no need to be in such a hurry, after all, it is a lifelong thing, and your grandma will understand.

Of course, it's not good to get married before graduation, don't force her, marriage is not a marriage agency to consider and be psychologically prepared, but you can discuss with her and take her back to your grandma to see, saying that she is your prospective granddaughter-in-law!! Tell her to call grandma twice to make the old man happy!

Actually, I think if you tell her well, there shouldn't be much of a problem, but her parents should be a lot of resistance, besides, you don't have to get married, you can take her home to meet her parents.

Although we have been dating for many years, it is not necessarily the stage of getting married right away! What's more, the reason why you are getting married early now is: to hold grandma grandchildren, I personally think this is not good for girlfriends from the perspective of the purpose of marriage, (as if you are just a tool for childbirth!)

If you have a good relationship, then you can communicate with your girlfriend and communicate more, and you can't force your wishes (getting married early, holding grandchildren for grandma) on her, after all, she is also a college student and has her own thoughts! You tell me?

After all, she hasn't graduated yet.

Marriage was a little early for her.

So you have to understand her first.

But you can move her with your filial piety, wait for her to intern and then get married, choose a compromise, in fact, you can register first.

Take the marriage certificate and show it to your grandmother The wedding is best done later.

There are so many problems you encounter after getting married!

For example, honoring parents, drinking wine and giving red envelopes to other people's families, relatives and friends coming and going, firewood, rice, oil and salt at home, taking care of children after giving birth, children have to spend, and husbands and wives sometimes quarrel over trivial matters in life, in short, there are many things to face.

It is not very difficult to solve these problems in life, work hard to earn money, think about the family, understand each other and support each other, you will find that life after marriage is actually very beautiful, and you don't feel difficult.