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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and you can't take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful not to make a promise that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "unfulfillable promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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He can change himself because he loves you.
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Summary. Hello, the one who loves you, for fear that he will not give you enough; People who don't love you are afraid that you will ask too much. You never know what someone who doesn't love you and wants to abandon you and run away from you.
Therefore, when the tea is cold, don't renew it, and it won't taste the original anymore; When people leave, don't stay anymore, and it's not the same feeling to stay anymore; If the love is gone, don't reminisce, and then reminisce is not the original mood. Slowly it will be far away, gradually it will fade, when you have it, cherish it, leave, silently bless, the journey of life, no one should accompany you to the end. If you don't love, you don't love, and your heart is no longer with you.
The person who loves you, he will be afraid that he is not good enough for you, and the person who does not love you, he will always feel that he is too good for you.
Hello, the one who loves you, for fear that he will not give you enough; People who don't love you are afraid that you will ask too much. You never know what someone who doesn't love you and wants to abandon you and run away from you. Therefore, when the tea is cold, don't renew it, and it won't taste the original anymore; When people leave, don't stay anymore, and it's not the same feeling to stay anymore; If the love is gone, don't reminisce, and then reminisce is not the original mood.
Slowly it will be far away, gradually it will fade, when you have it, cherish it, leave, silently bless, the journey of life, no one should accompany you to the end. If you don't love, you don't love, and your heart is no longer with you.
When a person pays your heart to you, he will feel sorry for you, and will take care of you, and even think that you are stupid, and always want to protect you, if your efforts are not reciprocated, he will just snub you, then just let it go, stick to it and just torture yourself. The people who love you can't bear to make you sad, and they can't bear to let you be hurt, if you're just wishful thinking and self-inflicted affection, forget it! In the blink of an eye, we are all no longer young, put away our willfulness, throw away our temper, and no longer easily hurt or ignore the people around us.
Because we know that half of life is over, we should cherish what we should cherish, and we should stay away from it!
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You can reply: Yes, I think so too, the person who loves you, for fear that he will not give you enough; People who don't love you are afraid that you will ask too much. You never know what someone will do to you when they don't love you, want to abandon you, want to run away from you.
So we must know that what should be cherished should be cherished, and what should be kept away should be kept away!
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Summary. Hello, when you are nice to him, he should be possessive of you, so he doesn't like people to be nice to you around you.
What does it mean when I am nice to someone but he doesn't like someone who is nice to me.
Hello, when you are nice to him, he should be possessive of you, so he doesn't like people to be nice to you around you.
Hello, what stage are you in now, is it ambiguous?
Just friends. The point is, you are good to him, he doesn't like others to be nice to you, but is he good to you?
He was good to me. It's that you are good to him, he is good to you, and if you are in the ambiguous stage, then he is possessive of you, afraid that you will be snatched away by others, do you feel this way?
But others are of the same sex when they are good to me, not the opposite sex.
He eats a little too much vinegar, so may I ask, is it because you spend a lot of time with your good friend, so you don't have time to accompany him?
No, it's just that others treat me nicely, and he doesn't like it.
So doesn't he want you to have a circle of friends, just wants you to revolve around him?
Hello, please describe your problem more specifically, and tell the teacher in detail, so that the teacher can better help you. If your friend is kind to you, what is the sign of his anger and what is his attitude towards you?
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Emotional things can't be forced, that's the truth. No matter how good a person is to you and how much he loves you, but if you don't have someone in your heart, you will never fall in love with him.
No matter how good a person is to you, it is not as important as the every move of the person who makes your heart move, and you know that that person will never change such a mind. Emotional things are so hypocritical, they won't change easily, and they can't deceive themselves, and they can't deceive themselves, they really exist. The reason why you can't love someone is so cold, no matter how good he is to you, he will let you veto it with one sentence, if it's not that person, it's not, and it won't change.
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People's feelings cannot be forcibly controlled, you have no way to force yourself to like someone, and there is no way to hide your admiration for the person you like. It's like when you meet someone you like in the future, and the other party is always indifferent to your feelings, it's very difficult to be happy with each other, if you meet in the future, you must try to cherish it. Since you don't have feelings for the other person, don't force yourself, and clearly rejecting the other person is the best respect for him.
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Like someone until you fall in love with someone, the first and most basic thing is to have an eye, and the first impression must be passed. Secondly, after slowly getting in touch with a person's character, and then look at whether the three views are compatible.
Sometimes, I can't help but accept a person reluctantly, and at the beginning I may think that I will be compromised, hoping to impress the other party with my own behavior and actions, and be able to get through the run-in period and slowly let myself treat each other with affection and husbands and wives.
However, many things don't work out the way they seem. If, coupled with the disagreement of the three views and the temper, then there is no doubt that even if the other party is willing to cut off his head to sit on you, you may not be moved, let alone love!
Everyone has their own other half of the standard in their hearts, even if they can't fully meet it, they have to have some attractions for us, such as height, education, appearance, personality, occupation, economy, physiology, age, ......Among the many conditions, there are so.
One or two things are very satisfying, how can they be perfect? But the feeling in my heart is the most important, we must understand what kind of choice we want to choose, we must know what "love" is, what kind of person we hope to go on, this is responsible for ourselves and others.
Love is deep love and dedicated love, in fact, only the other party makes you feel at ease and down-to-earth to live well, if the heart is repulsed, then how can it be good? How can you fall in love with each other? What's more, it's a lifetime, so love, can't be forced, you must find a sense of security, intimacy and intimacy in order to go on together.
If you don't love, please let go, because letting go is also a kind of love, don't delay the happiness of others.
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As the old saying goes, "a twisted melon is not sweet", feelings are unpredictable, and they can't be controlled by reason at all, not that there must be a return if there is a pay, and even the parties themselves have no way to deceive and force themselves, otherwise how can there be so many crazy men and women from ancient times to the present, and there are so many love literature?
From a philosophical and idealistic point of view, if the other party is all good to you, and you still can't fall in love with him, it can only mean that the two of you are not in tune with the magnetic field, and there is no call between the two people, even if you can force your body to be with each other, you have no way to control your mind and feelings, if you don't love, you don't love, and you can't fake it.
From a physical and materialistic point of view, the smell and hormones of the other party do not work on you, this is determined by the genes of the two of you, which is the result of thousands of years of species evolution and natural selection in nature, perhaps because the combination of the two of you is not beneficial to the conception and reproduction of offspring.
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I always think that love is a very mysterious thing, and it is unreasonable. In love, it is not the one who gives more who gets more. It's really about fate.
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Yes, some love, once it starts, never stops.
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He doesn't love me anymore, it proves that there is someone better and more suitable for him than me, when he loves me, I will give it wholeheartedly, when he doesn't love me, I will silently bless it, or I will quietly wait for him to come back to me, because I still like him, if one day I don't like him, or I can forget about it, I will be relieved!!
There is no choice but to hurt him.
Friends, don't force your feelings Forced love won't be good How big is the world Don't care about anything You've already confessed, it's his problem not to accept It's not that he doesn't love you Maybe there is really no fate between you Don't take this relationship too seriously, cherish yourself again, maybe there is a better one to follow better than him Believe in yourself!
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