If the person you love changes, will you still love him?

Updated on amusement 2024-04-26
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, some love, once it starts, never stops.

    In fact, everyone will change in this life, and the difficult thing is not to change, but to remain the same. Of course, we hope that the person we love, just like we met at the beginning, will not change the way it was back then, no matter how many years the heart is still the same, but we can't do it, how can we ask the person we love like this?

    Maybe some people change and become what we don't like. But we also love and love, and love becomes a habit. Maybe sometimes because we are also changing, we don't feel that the people around us will change, until one day we meet a person like him again, only to find that everything has changed unconsciously.

    Maybe at the beginning our goal is very clear, the person we love must be like that, but when we find that look, we naturally fall in love with him. As time passed, we closed our eyes, calmed down, and thought about it, he is no longer the same as he was now, but we still love him so much.

    I fell in love with Yan Yalun at the beginning because of Ding Xiaoyu's appearance. So I began to love him immensely, and my feelings for him were both like liking and like friends. But 12 years have passed, looking back, even if it wasn't me, everyone could see that Yan Yalun had changed, and he became as if he had lost a trace of his original appearance, but what could I do?

    I still like him.

    Maybe I loved that way at the beginning, but now I've changed, and I've become what he is, and what I like the most. Maybe Ding Xiaoyu is my original intention, the person I desire the most in my heart, and he has never changed in my heart. But Yan Yalun has changed, I have no choice, I can only still love him.

    I remember a long time later, I saw Yi Yang Qianxi on the TV screen by chance, at that time everyone was hacking these three children, of course, I didn't feel very good about them, but for Yi Yang Qianxi, I always had a familiar feeling.

    Now that he is getting older and getting closer and closer to Ding Xiaoyu at the beginning, I suddenly realized that he has become what I originally wanted. I remember I once told a friend, it's very strange, Yi Yang Qianxi is a child, I don't want to go to his meeting, I don't want to go to his concert, and I don't want to do any material or time waste for him, but I just like to look at him like this, and I like the feeling he brings me.

    Maybe because of Ding Xiaoyu, I unconsciously fell in love with Yi Yang Qianxi, a child. But in my heart, Yan Yalun's position has long been ingrained, maybe it's habit, maybe it's time, in short, he has changed, love hasn't changed.

    We are no longer what we were at the beginning, but we still retain the innocence of love at that time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, if I truly love someone, no matter what he becomes, I will always love him. I think people change, and everyone will make some changes because of the change in their environment. Even I can't guarantee that I've never changed.

    So I accept my own changes, and I accept all the changes in my loved ones.

    Some people will say"I loved him as before, and now that he's changed, I don't want to love him anymore. "In my opinion, I think the person who said this is simply ridiculous! To love someone is to love all of them, to love them at every stage.

    Maybe from the beginning, he was like this, but he didn't know enough about him, didn't know enough about him, so he felt that he had changed.

    Just like before, I liked a boy very much, but he didn't like me. But that boy would be very kind to me like a brother taking care of his sister, very gentle, very considerate. At that time, he told me that he didn't want to find a girlfriend because he wanted to focus on his studies.

    And when he said that, I believed it. But we usually communicate a lot, and because of this, I was misunderstood by the teacher, and the boy was also a very gentleman, and for me, he was willing to be punished and go home to reflect. I liked him even more because of this, and even more love for him.

    But then, the boy drifted away from me. I don't understand why? When I asked him, he told me it was because I had changed. He said that I had become different from before, and that it was obvious when he spoke to me that I was not the same as before.

    Is that really the case? Is it really because I've changed that he doesn't want to pay attention to me? It's not like that, my friends are still by my side all the time, why is he the only one gone?

    If he doesn't like me anymore because of my change, it means that he didn't like me from the beginning, or that he didn't like me that much at all.

    And in the process when he doesn't like me and thinks I've changed, the boy is slowly changing, but no matter what he becomes, I still like him as always. So it doesn't matter at all whether you love or not, change or don't change.

    No one in this world is static, because we are experiencing new things every day, our cognition is being refreshed over and over again, we are also growing, and we are gradually becoming mature, how can this not change?

    As far as we can see, everyone around us is changing, including our friends, relatives, classmates, and ourselves. In fact, if you don't love a person anymore because he has changed, it can only mean that the two of you are not changing in the same direction, you are just drifting apart. Because there is no common topic, there is no same similar experience, so there is no desire to communicate, so you will feel that you don't love him anymore.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's a long life, and I can't guarantee what will happen in the next moment. At least at this moment, I can guarantee that no matter what, as long as Aaron says, I will believe and support it. Maybe some people will think I'm stupid, think I'm irrational.

    But I know that for one person, one thing lasts so long. It's really not easy. From shopping to post bar and Weibo every day, just to pay attention to his new news.

    Until now, as long as he is on the post bar, Weibo will automatically follow him. Deliberate has long been turned into a habit. Get used to caring for him, get used to loving him.

    Even if you haven't paid attention to him for many years, you haven't seen him, but at a certain moment, as long as you hear from him. The heart will be excited, you will want to let go of what you are doing, you will want to hear from him, you will want to see him again.

    Said that he had changed, and that he had not become what he liked at the beginning. What about us? Hasn't it changed? Can you be sure that you've never changed, that you've always been the same?

    I can, I can guarantee that even if you change, I will still support you, trust you, and love you! No matter what stage you are, I can guarantee that I have never changed and continue to love you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No matter how he changes, since he loves him, then as long as he is, he will always love him, nothing else.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Look at whether the appearance has changed or the heart, if I have always loved the other person's heart, even if her face has changed, what does it matter?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, everyone changes all the time, and this is related to her experience, since you love her, you must not only love her now, but also love her who has changed in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, what I love is the original her, and after the change, she is no longer the one I loved before, so I will not continue to love her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, it is impossible for a person not to change for a lifetime, she has only changed in some aspects and we ourselves are also changing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, everyone will change, including myself, whether it is appearance or personality, so I will still love the person I love if he changes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No. If what I love most about her is where she has changed, the person I loved in the first place is no longer there.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No. If she has changed her mind and will not continue to love me, then I will not be reluctant to be with her, I will choose to leave her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I will still love her, but I will not be as passionate as before, and then later, I may slowly let go, and then I will not love her, I will choose to accept it strongly, and break up peacefully.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, the person I love is the person I remember, the reality of him has changed, he has become very strange to me, how to love.

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