Psychologically too fragile. Always upset because of someone else s words?

Hello, the heart is too fragile, people may often be because of the inferiority complex in the heart, at this time you need to improve your self-confidence, it is best to start with some small things.

Don't take it to heart if you don't care what others say, you know it yourself, it's good to overcome it, it's not too fragile to be a strong person, and to be a generous person, so that you can be healthy and happy.

At first glance, you are a girl, people with fragile hearts are more sensitive, the speaker has no intention of listening, who can be 100% good to you! You yourself are not good to yourself, let others say it! Just live a good life, don't care about him so much!

Sometimes friends don't mean to say that about you. It's all for your good, it's all worth making friends, what to cry about. No one will sympathize with you because you are crying.

If you are too fragile and always unhappy because of a word from others, you have a strong inferiority complex, and you should face up to your own advantages and increase your self-confidence.

This shows that you think too much, life is colorful, don't make a mistake in your heart because of a sentence, you have to open up.

It shows that your mental capacity is not strong. Don't pay too much attention to what others say, just be yourself so that you don't feel so vulnerable.

It's because I'm too sensitive.,Usually persuade yourself to want to open more.

You're not psychologically fragile, everyone is like this, you will be happy or unhappy because of a look from someone else, a word from someone else, everyone is like that.

This sentence is obviously that your psychological tolerance is not strong, so you will always let other people's words make your mood high or lost, so you must strengthen your heart.

You have to be strong in your heart, don't care too much about other people's opinions, some people don't know you, you have to learn to love yourself, what others say about you, what should you care about the most.

If you can realize this, take the initiative to overcome it, and the next time you encounter what others say, emphasize in your heart, don't do this.

You don't really have to pay much attention to anything people say.

Whether it's praise or disparagement, you don't have to go.

Take it too seriously. Just listen to it.

If you are too fragile in your heart, you may not be generous enough, and if you are broad-minded, you will get better.

My heart is too fragile, and I am not happy because of a word from others, I think that like this, there is no generosity at all, you should exercise and exercise, and it is not good for your body to do that or that.

Psychological fragility is to spoil yourself like this, in fact, you don't have to do anything because of someone else's words, others are others will not affect you.

Love is responsible, as long as you accept his love, you must be responsible for it, you must strive to make him happy in the future life, and do not regret the choice to love you in the first place; It's harder not to love someone, and when you find that two people can't move forward together, it's for yourself and even more for the happiness of the loved one.

The heart is always fragile, unhappy because of someone else's words. Gradually improve your self-confidence. Be your own unique self.

You still have to be self-reliant. If you are too fragile psychologically, you will be easily hurt.

Then you need to adjust your mentality, believe in yourself, and live your life well.

The heart is too fragile, unhappy because of other people's words, no matter what, just do your best, don't affect your mood because of others.

If you're too fragile and you're always upset by what others say, then I think you should tell others. You're also unhappy right now, if male.

If you are always unhappy because of someone else's words, it can affect your own emotions, and your heart is indeed too fragile.

I can't let other people's words affect my mood. Be happy.

Then you let yourself slowly become very strong, and don't always be vulnerable.

I used to be the same as you, and then I learned to comfort myself to see my own shining point, everyone has their own life, what we want is our own happiness, others can't affect us, good or bad only you can feel, to be content to always see what you have, grateful heart.

We must eliminate these psychology, only by helping to tolerate others, a person's self-confidence can slowly become stronger, and with a positive attitude towards life, negative will only make you fearful.

Build your own happiness on the misfortune of others. That's because you're dissatisfied with your own status quo.

Because you yourself are not strong enough and pessimistic.

Dear, have a flat mind, don't envy others, others have other people's shortcomings, you have your advantages, if you still have bad thoughts in the future, tell yourself silently in your mind, don't think so, think about the good that others treat you, and it will get better slowly.

If it were me, I would feel that others cared about me, never cared about others, and always lived alone.

You are pessimistic. Communicate with others.

Self-defense is very strong, and you don't want others to know about you, and you don't want others to understand and discover your weaknesses.

You must not have many friends, isn't it a good thing to open your heart and be tolerant, you are trying to do it, isn't it the right direction?

So why is it suppressed, this sentence should not be the point.

I once had a period of this, when I got along with friends, I would always deliberately keep my distance and try to show the best side, but in fact, the self I was with them was different from the self when I was alone, to be honest, I was a little afraid that others would spy on my true self, I always felt that whether it was my true thoughts or my hatred, my beliefs, it was my own business, I was paranoid that this was my little universe, and no one else was allowed to enter. Until one time, because of one thing, I secretly showed a disgusting expression, but it happened to be seen by my friend, at that moment, I felt that a lot of inexplicable feelings rushed to me, the most important thing may be a kind of timidity and hesitation that others see through.

I don't know if your troubles are the same as my previous experiences, but I just want to say it to let you know that there are actually many people who have similar troubles and experiences as you, don't be uncomfortable, don't be depressed, this may be the manifestation of our psychological characteristics created by the growth environment and social factors for a period of time.

Also, trust that as you grow and accumulate time, you will gradually find that this feeling will gradually fade. Also, don't feel uncomfortable because a sentence or a preference is known by others, you have to learn to adapt and accept, because we don't live alone, we are bound to meet different people and things, and we have to get along with them.

Finally, there is a sentence of encouragement to you, which is also one that I have always silently believed, "You are actually not that important", I forgot where I saw it, to be honest, because of this sentence, even if I fall down on the street, I will not be as embarrassed as I once was.

This sentence you wrote will help many people to learn to be tolerant of others and tolerant of themselves. In fact, intolerance is often projected onto others because of dissatisfaction with oneself. Improving oneself and being kind to others is the order of cultivation.

If the people who see what you write are always looking at you with strange eyes, then it proves that they need to really understand the sentence, and if they don't need it, they will understand you. So don't torture yourself anymore. I wish you health and happiness.

Wan An Yuan Psychological Counseling Center Nanmu.

Don't bother to pay attention to this, it's good for you to write this sentence for yourself, it's a good virtue for people to be tolerant of others, you should be proud of yourself like this and not Alexander, even if you are seen by others, it's nothing, others may just laugh at it, others don't take this sentence to heart but you always think about him, aren't you asking for trouble? It's good to always write down what you think, and you don't have to care what others think, not to mention your situation, others don't say anything gossip about your behavior, do something else, think about something else.

There is some truth to this statement! But it doesn't have to be seen or known! There is an old saying: sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't!

The speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention! It's outdated! Others didn't pay attention to it at all!

And you're too guilty of yourself! Focus on work and study!

What you have to do is ignore others and be yourself what you want to be, maybe others don't take it seriously at all, they just think too much. After what happens, you will find that it is not as serious as you thought.

Put in the contract so that he will be put into the hair.

Don't always get along with yourself, learn to appreciate yourself.

It is equivalent to having the golden key to happiness. Appreciating oneself is not self-appreciation, appreciating oneself is not self-respecting, appreciating oneself is not self-absorption, appreciating oneself is not resting on one's laurels...Give yourself some self-confidence, give yourself a little happiness, give yourself a smile, why worry about not having the joy of life I often have to give myself a holiday and learn to find a happy mood.

You're not necessarily that important in other people's hearts, you don't treat other people as friends, and other people don't necessarily want you as a friend. If you get married, no one will notify you, and not necessarily others will be willing to come.

Because you never get what you want, you hate so you give up.

Hello, I think that as long as you pay attention to it, you still have a lot of good friends. I used to be similar to you, but I gradually let go of myself and tried to interact with others, I found that they are not what I imagined, as long as you are attentive and sincere, others will really get along with you, people are mutual, there are many people around you who are worthy of your association It's just that you haven't found out yet, from now on, pay attention to the people around you, look at their words and behaviors, but at the same time you also have to try to change your point of view, don't wear colored glasses, be honest, you take the initiative, others are willing to get along with you. In the process of getting along, you will feel the warmth between friends.

Emotional intelligence is too low and you can't handle your emotions well, read more books on self-cultivation and change your mentality!

No matter whether others talk to you or not, you have to smile and face it, no matter whether you are happy or not, you have to take the initiative to laugh and talk to others, the most important thing is to relax!! Don't think too much, because others are also wholeheartedly devoted to you, make friends with your heart, how you treat your friends, how friends will treat you.

Do you feel a little depressed? How long has this been going on.

Look at how tired you are, it's so pitiful, life shouldn't be like this!

I don't have any friends, I'm also a person, and sometimes I can't talk to someone about my suffering.

This is not good, people will become withdrawn after a long time, cheer up and be cheerful, don't think about those unpleasant things, and believe that everything will be okay with yourself!

When people are alive, their hearts are full of love, and they will always be happy.

Few of today's friends are true Profit-seeking cautious friends Keep good and bad Throw away Sister I don't know when you will get married I wish you a happy wedding I also hope you have a good mood every day.

Don't think that your life is your own.

If you don't have an object, find one, find one without a lover, and it will change.

Psychology is a relatively mysterious science, and psychologists can also see through a person's heart. Psychology is actually very interesting, and if you learn it, you can also infer a person's heart and his character through a person's external performance, which is still very useful. Psychologists have also said that a person is not happy enough, it is because he is not selfish enough.

There is some truth in this statement, but the values are not so correct.

If a person wants to be happy, it is very simple, it is selfish. Selfish people will feel happy for the little gain they covet for a while, but this happiness is not available every day, or this happiness is only his own happiness, not everyone's happiness, this kind of selfish person will not be recognized by the world, even if it is only a temporary happiness, selfishness is also a bad quality.

True happiness is the happiness of all people, like many great men who sacrifice their own small happiness for the happiness of the whole people. Like the famous "father of rice" Yuan Longping, he could give up studying rice completely for his own interests, but he didn't, he still continued to drag the old and old pace to continue to work in the field, buried in the rice field, isn't he happy? He is happy.

To sum up, whether a person is happy or not is not determined by a word from a psychologist. For some selfish people, they will never be satisfied, and there will be no way to get real happiness, because they have a lot of desires, a lot of greed. Those who have made great contributions to the development and progress of people are truly happy, and that is the happiness of contributing to the progress of all mankind.

Every day, we have to think about whether the people around us are happy, of course we are not happy to live carefully, everyone thinks more about themselves, and does not care about the eyes of the people around them, and it must be happier if they are indeed selfish.