I am in a very sad mood, ask for comfort, please be patient and read 120

It's like if you have a puppy and spend time with it every day, and the relationship is very good, but then you get older and experience some things that you don't like these animals very much, and you buy a dog to watch the door, and the puppy will be very sad to see that you have a big dog, but how can you see how sad it is. For example, you don't understand each other's thoughts, boys and girls are different, girls have more delicate minds, and you are too small for you to bear these things, so don't worry, and you will be relieved in the future, because I have also experienced it, and now I am relieved. Read well.

Final exams are coming, and I suggest you put these worries aside and turn your sadness into motivation. Listen to ** or something, and wait until the exam is over. Good luck, hehe.

This relationship is a little confusing, I don't think there is a need to involve feelings in junior high school, study hard, and make progress every day.

Let Z stay away from you, although I don't know why, I always feel that Z is the most problematic one. In some ways, I am a little more distant, but not too far away, and I am sure of it. It is advisable to go outside often and hang out with friends, but at the same time review your homework.

Find more other friends and take your time.

Talk to him, don't think about yourself, or comfort yourself, if you score 90 points in the test, he will reconcile with you.

This is normal, this is just your love for a while, you don't have to worry about it, in fact, you will have a lot of choices for your favorite object in the future, and the exam is your own business, come on, I wish you a smooth exam!

Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, it is better to exercise your body and improve yourself. Your illness is really nothing, it is a very mild disease.

Have you ever heard of a "seal man" who was born with no limbs, and Nick Hochul, a motivational speaker who has traveled the world?

He was born with no limbs, and after a long period of training, his crippled left "foot" became a good helper for Nick, not only helping him maintain his physical balance, but also playing football and typing.

When he wants to write or pick up objects, he also holds a pen or other object between his two toes. He can also play golf.

When hitting the ball, he clamps a special club with his chin and left shoulder and hits. In 2008, Nick learned to surf in Hawaii, USA. He even mastered such a difficult maneuver as a 360-degree spin on a surfboard.

You have to be active, supplemented by exercise, you will definitely get better, the disease of the body is not terrible, the terrible is the disease of the mind, as long as you do not give up on yourself, strong, persistent, firm, you will get through the difficulties.

I wish you good health and good mood!

You're lucky, if your daughter were you, you'd have been living a few years ago! Tighten your fists and unleash your youth on the playing field!

Go to a lively place where no one knows to listen to songs, go out for a walk, and see those people who are busy but working hard for life, there are always many more annoying people and more troublesome things in this world than you, and you will get different happiness if you change your mindset.

When you're in a bad mood, think about those individuals who don't even have enough to eat.

How long have you been with your object?,You should be calm with your object** This question.,I can understand what you're talking about.,I also deeply understand,,, that's very sad.。。。

What's in a bad mood? In this world, you are happy to be alive, don't be dissatisfied with the status quo, you will feel that you are already a happy person when you compare with others!

Shall I treat you to a snack? Don't eat bitter gourd. Hehe.

Are you a man or a woman? Feeling bad because of work, life, or relationships?

Life is in the world, there are countless troubles, and there is no life.

Straight road, bumpy life. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

Hehe, comfort is actually in vain, you are now in a melancholy mood, and the world is all melancholy, isn't it? Push yourself to move forward, and maybe when you look back, you'll be able to smile at what bothered you today.

Let's go out for a walk and let your tension and depression be relieved.

If you are unhappy, say it and everyone will be happy.

Listen to songs, take a break, and find friends to drink and chat.

Landlord, look at everything a little bit and look down on it, why embarrass yourself? Isn't it?

It's a day to be happy, it's also a day to be unhappy, is it useful to ask yourself if you're sad? If there is, then go ahead, it's useless, then shine brightly to yourself.

Find something to relax or treat. Such as shopping, singing, bars.

Don't waste a little bit of a wonderful life on something.

If you don't smile, who do you cry to?

Due to differences in life experience, family background, education, etc., the pain experienced by each person is different. Therefore, when trying to comfort a person, it is important to first understand his heart and his emotions and situation.

To comfort people, listening is more important than speaking. A depressed heart needs a gentle listening ear, followed by a logical and coherent head. Listening is to use our ears and hearts to listen to the other person's feelings, to ask about the cause and effect of the matter and empathize with the cause and effect (this is the most important, but what is needed is to let him say it himself, not to gossip like others), and not to rush to make judgments, to give the other person space to be able to choose his own method freely.

When listening, empathize with the other person and perceive the fluctuations in our hearts. If only what happened to him could"Grief together, rejoice together"For the comforted, this is the best help to be given to him.

Be accepting of each other's world.

The biggest obstacle to comforting people is often the inability of comforters to understand, experience, and agree with the distress that the person perceives. Don't be perfunctory, it's a disservice to the injured person. It is easy to limit the definition of distress to the scope of self-understanding, and once it exceeds that range, it is"Bitter"It doesn't make sense.

Because of what is said to others"Bitter"Disagreeable, therefore, the comforter is prone to resist in the process of listening, and is eager to put forward his own opinion. Therefore, the comforter needs to let go of his own deep-seated beliefs, admit his own biases, and truly put himself in the other person's shoes to see the problems he is facing.

Psychologists say"Let go of your own world and accept someone else's world"That's the truth. The best comforter is to temporarily let go of oneself, go into the other person's inner world, and see what happened to him with his eyes without judgment.

Hello! Ren Bai

Anyone can have problems.

du, some people have problems solved, zhi and some dao people don't. A good attitude is destined for a person's success or not. No matter what comes your way.

We should have a good attitude, actively forge ahead, be strong and unyielding.

In life we will encounter such and such problems, can change these things only themselves, only their own confidence in themselves, you can calmly walk your life road, the road ahead is very long, in our life on the way, there are oases, there will be wind and sand. Bumpiness and flatness exist at the same time. When encountering setbacks, you must show your own courage and face them bravely.

When you try to face difficulties and stress, I believe that these difficulties will one day succumb to your feet and face life with a new attitude. Believing in yourself is equivalent to having infinite power.

Also, think carefully about what is bothering you the most now, and then try to solve them one by one, and finally when everything is solved, you will not be as annoyed as you are now, and you will think "Oh! It turns out that life can be so easy and so beautiful! ”

Divert attention. Let's play the game. Get a few friends to go shopping and eat.

If you have a good attitude, everything will be fine.