How to become a social expert? How to become a social master

Smile and see yourself as a human being and others as human beings.

Communicate with you more.

In recent years, because of work, I often need to meet people from all walks of life, and the so-called social volume has been greatly enhanced. It's often painful for me because I often feel like I have nothing to talk about after meeting people. In the long run, frustration arises.

A few days ago, I saw that Teacher Li Xiaolai said, don't easily say that you are not good at this or that, but increase your multi-dimensional skills. Well, I started to study Mr. Lintert's "How to Become a Social Master", and I have some insights over the years, and I hope I can really improve in this area:

1. To create a high-quality and efficient social circle, you must remember 3 numbers.

150: Keep the number of people you keep in touch with around 150;

5: The closest person, frequent contact, control to 5 people, expand to different fields, and do not exceed 5 in each field.

6: Others who can't be reached can be expanded with the theory of six degrees of space.

2. 3 tricks for interpersonal circle management:

1.The people who should fade out of your life should fade out, do a good job of subtraction, and there is no need to be active in primary school, middle school and former colleagues every day.

2.In addition to family and colleagues who get along day and night, other relationships can actually be maintained by regular meetings and special anniversary greetings. It's a good idea to mark these relationships on your calendar, and it's best to set up a phone reminder as well.

3.If you want to have a high-quality conversation, you need to study the direction of the conversation of the social partner, that is, the way to open the conversation. You've got to have a jack-of-all-purpose question.

3. Social image management, there are three things you can start doing right away.

1.Keep your screen name, profile picture, and signature as uniform everywhere as possible to match your social identity.

2.Group the people in the circle of friends now, the workplace to the workplace, the family to the family, and the gossip to gossip.

3.From today onwards, Blind Cong will post a targeted circle of friends every day, specifically for the social objects of the recent major public relations.

I am often confused about "love a line, do a line" or "do a line, love a line". We are always pursuing the former, but reality often gives us a cold blow. My father used to tell me that you have to take the initiative to adapt to this society, and it is impossible for society to adapt to you.

The workplace is very realistic, because I wasted too much time in the previous confusion, and when I woke up, I found that it was "too late", I was old, and I didn't have any core skills, so I didn't have the capital to choose the job I called love. But I can't let go of the obsession in my heart, and I hate what I'm doing day by day.

This class is the beginning, adjust your mindset and face yourself positively.