What are the taboos for attending a funeral? What to avoid after attending a funeral

Death is something that everyone has to face eventually. When you receive obituaries from relatives and friends, go to the funeral, and mourn the deceased and their families, you must know in advance that there are many of these particularities. Participating in funerals is more important, one is to show respect for the deceased; The second is that in the folk saying, avoid the matter of touching the head.

1.Dressing: Attend funerals, do not wear colorful clothes, do not wear sportswear, casual clothes, men and women should choose black, gray, blue and other simple, dark style clothes. Ladies should avoid excessive make-up and try to wear plain jewelry.

2.Manners: When attending a funeral, avoid loud noises, laughter and play. Whether out of curiosity or for other reasons, don't look at the family of the deceased. Don't cry loudly, the funeral should be a calm and solemn final journey for the deceased.

3.White Dinner: After attending the funeral, the relatives of the deceased will usually arrange a white meal to thank the guests.

If there are no special circumstances, try to participate, first, the funeral is generally held early in the morning, and after the funeral, I am already hungry. The second is to eat white food, remove bad luck from the body, and avoid "working in vain".

4.Funeral car: use the car to help relatives and friends go to the funeral, generally the other party will give the fare, the folk saying is called "buy road money", if the other party does not understand, you can ask for a cigarette, avoid "busy work", remove bad luck, and be sure to wash the car when you come back.

5.Cemetery burial: From the funeral home, when sending the ashes of the deceased to the cemetery for burial, try not to stand in the shade, and secondly, according to the folk saying, do not let your shadow be mapped to the tomb, in case you are buried with the deceased, which will affect your luck.

6.Coming back from the funeral: When you come back from the funeral, take off the clothes you are wearing, wash them, and take a shower to remove bad luck.

Funeral is a solemn and serious matter, participate in the funeral, express the remembrance and nostalgia of the deceased, but also remember a lot of particulars, to avoid destroying the funeral atmosphere, disturbing the deceased, affecting the mood of the deceased's family, and their own luck. Every life is great, and it is our attitude to revere life and respect the deceased.

Don't go straight home. After the funeral, don't go home as soon as possible, you can go to the street, or go shopping, or eat, in short, don't go home directly, do something outside and then go back.

Don't visit friends. Don't visit your friends after the funeral, because at the funeral, you may meet friends who have been very good before or haven't seen for a long time, and visit them at their home after the funeral.

1. Don't go home directlyAfter everyone attends the funeral, don't go home as soon as possible, you can go to a place like the temple to get rid of the bad luck on your body, and then it's not too late to go home, if you don't like to go to the temple, you can also go to the street for a stroll, or shopping, or eating, in short, don't go home directly, do something outside and then go back, so that you can also clean up the bad luck on your body.

2. Don't visit friendsDon't visit your friends after attending the funeral, because at the funeral, you may meet friends who have been very good before or haven't seen for a long time, and go to your friend's house to visit after attending the funeral, so you may bring the bad luck you carry directly to your friend's house, which will affect the feng shui and fortune of your friend's house, so you should avoid going to your friend's house.

3. Avoid visiting the old and weakThe elderly and children are more sensitive to some unclean things, so we should not meet the elderly or children directly after attending the funeral, the bad things on the body can easily affect them, so we should also pay attention to it, especially if there are elderly people and children at home, their physique is relatively weak, and they are easy to be affected by the bad luck on everyone's body, sick or bad situation.

Generally, it is necessary to pay attention to four aspects: clothing, demeanor, funeral accompaniment, and return after the event.

1. Clothing wearing. When attending a funeral, it is not advisable to wear colorful clothes, shoes and hats, or sportswear and casual clothes. Both men and women should choose simple, dark styles of clothing, shoes and hats such as black, gray and blue.

Ladies should not wear heavy makeup, and can choose to wear plain jewelry. No pets, no red bags, scarves, gloves, masks, and the colors should be plain and elegant.

2. Demeanor. The funeral should be a calm and solemn final journey for the deceased. At the funeral, after meeting with the family of the deceased, you should shake hands politely and comfort the family members with appropriate language. Whether out of curiosity or for other reasons, the family of the deceased should not be looked at.

Precautions for attending funeralsAs follows:

1. Those who have not been married for 100 days, have not been married for 100 days, and have wounds on their bodies that have not healed are not suitable to attend the funeral. If you have to go, in addition to using red underwear, friends with wounds on their bodies should also tie five-colored threads or nine-colored threads to the gauze that wraps the wounds.

2. When participating in the funeral, the mourners must bring their filial piety cloth, filial piety cards and green yarn in the order of the eldest and youngest.

3. Don't make a lot of noise when sending off the body. In a place like a funeral home, silence is the norm, and generally speaking, loud noises are prohibited, not to mention that these are the resting places of the deceased. Out of respect for life and reverence for the deceased, you should not speak loudly, and try not to make a sound from your mobile phone.

4. In the funeral process, personal words and deeds will also be concerned, and it is also more important. From the outside, most of the funeral costumes are black and white, which must be paid attention to and not to commit taboos.

5. Most of the funerals should wear black or gray, darker colors to show solemnity and seriousness, and never wear red clothes, red represents festivity, which will give people a feeling of disrespect for the deceased.