You can t judge people by their appearance, what embarrassments have you encountered?

When I was working, the leader came to visit us unannounced, dressed very plainly, and at that time I just thought that a person who came to do business felt that I was really embarrassed to encounter such a situation.

In life, we can't judge people by their appearance, once I met a person who looks more obscene, because the concept of judging people by appearance leads to a very bad impression of him, but when I have difficulties, it is this person who looks bad and gives me timely help, so I was very embarrassed at that time, so in life we can't judge people by their appearance.

I once saw a person dressed as a migrant worker calling me from behind, I looked back, and thought he had bad intentions, just wanted to run, he shouted "the money has fallen", and it was really embarrassing at that time.

Once when I was a waiter, there was a customer in the store, dressed very casually, and it was not a high-end brand, at that time the clothes in our store were high-end, I thought he couldn't afford it, so he didn't want to take care of him, who knew that he later chose five or six sets of clothes, all of which were five or six thousand sets, and then I realized that I couldn't judge people by their appearance, and the appearance of dressing casually did not mean that he was not rich.

I once worked in a clothing store, and a customer in ordinary clothes came in, and another salesperson ignored the customer, and the real identity of the other person was the store owner.

There should be a person who looks fierce and vicious, I thought he was particularly difficult to approach, but I didn't expect him to take the initiative to help me.

I remember when I was in junior high school, the teacher in our class looked very soft and weak, so everyone bullied him, but I didn't expect him to be so scary when he was strict, so I really can't judge people by their appearance.

People should not be judged by their appearance. During the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius's student Ziyu was ugly, and Confucius was very cold to him, so he had to leave Confucius and go back to self-study, and later became a famous scholar. The student Zai Yu was very good-looking and eloquent, but was later criticized by Confucius for his inconsistent words and deeds.

There is also a saying that Zai Yu participated in Tian Chang's rebellion and was killed by Chen Heng, but Sima Zhen of the Tang Dynasty suspected that Kan Zhi (also known as I) should be Zai Yu. Whatever the reason, Confucius once said with emotion: "You can't judge people by their appearance, and you can't judge others by their words." ”

Physical Depiction Taboo:

The description of appearance should not be formulaic and face-painted. In general,"People are like faces"。However, people's hearts and appearances are not consistent, and beautiful appearances are not necessarily beautiful in the heart, and,"Knowing the person knows the face but does not know the heart"。

The appearance of good people written in excellent works is not necessarily beautiful and handsome; The bad guys who write are not necessarily pockmarked, blind, and lame. For example, the middle-aged gadfly in "Gadfly" is lame and has knife scars on his face.

Fadeev's hero, Lyfensheng, is short and has a slightly curved back. This all shows that even if a writer writes about a beloved character, he is not"Face-painting"The earth blindly beautifies people, but strictly respects the truth of life. When writing critical characters, sometimes the beauty of the appearance is often used to contrast the ugliness of the character's soul, such as the villain of "Destruction", the villain Medik, who is personable and wavering in apostasy.

Wang Xifeng of "Dream of Red Mansions" is beautiful and handsome, but he is vicious and ruthless.

I don't think so. After all, some people are good-looking, but their hearts are not necessarily kind, but some people are not good-looking, and he is indeed very kind.

No. Because a person's appearance is basically determined by nature, and it cannot be changed the day after tomorrow (except for the height and fat and thinness can be changed, the rest cannot be changed, but the height and fat and thin are also determined by nature); But most of a person's qualities and talents are cultivated by nurture. "Judging people by their appearance, losing their son and feather" is a famous saying of Confucius, which teaches us not to judge people by their appearance.

Judging people by their appearance is also a kind of disrespect for others, so whether to judge people by their appearance is not only a matter of habit, but also a matter of character.

Of course it shouldn't, it's time to see people's hearts After a long time, I don't know if people are good or not.

This topic does not match the literal appearance of people, just a certain kind of social existence of the power of the heart, copper stinky view, the ancient saying has Laughing at the poor does not laugh at the prostitution, for children's education, according to the actual economic environment of their own family to live is in line with the fundamental reality, children to pick up other people's discarded items to subsidize their own needs There is nothing to criticize, but only think that this is a virtue, face the virtue of life, for the thing of stealing, it is also recommended that parents take it seriously, this is not a matter of trust or not, What behaviors or performances must be criticized by others, rumors and lies is the only way for children, as long as you pay more attention to more positive psychological positive energy, this is not a thing, it is normal for the poor to live a poor life, and it is a disaster for the poor to live a rich life.

The rich generation is all poor, and they are not convinced!

No, that's why!

Introduction: Since he can remember, Qi Yan has been dissatisfied with himself in two ways. One is that the name is not powerful enough, and the other is that the length is not powerful compared to the name. However, all this did not affect him to embark on the road of the steel-toothed white rabbit.

The author's language is fluent and natural, and the words are full of real life. The opening chapter accurately grasps the image of the protagonist, so that the reader is full of imagination. In terms of subject matter, Goldfinger's counterattack has both legendary metaphysical elements, which greatly increases the readability of the article.

Classic lines:1. If you are together, you will gather, and if you are not together, you will be scattered, and you will not get any good results if you are too forced.

2. It's good to not understand and understand, and to understand the wonders of understanding.

3. People's hearts are flesh and blood, don't be suspicious of the people closest to you because of a few words from outsiders, that's a fool's thing.

4. When you're fine, just come with me to save the world.

5. In the name of true love, there will be retribution for hurting innocent people.

The main meaning of this sentence is that people can't evaluate a person from the surface, just like the sea water is not spring, Zhongheng can measure a training situation with our water holding tools, judging people by appearance has been a bad habit of people throughout the ages, and most people are indeed like this, even today many people are also judged by appearance, in fact, this phenomenon can not be said to be completely wrong, at least a normal excellent person usually cares about their appearanceBut one of the main reasons why the ancient Chinese warned us not to do this is that many supreme masters, under normal circumstances, may not be able to just look at appearances, but also remind us that we should be as cautious as possible in our daily interactions with people, after all, be careful to drive for thousands of years, and the benefits of this are as follows:

1. It makes people feel very qualified

First of all, if we can not judge people by their appearance, it will directly make many people feel that we are very qualified and cultivated, because throughout the ages, it is a very high-quality person who will not judge people by appearance, and will also treat each other with courtesy, so that at least others will feel that we are a person who has been educated by higher education since childhood.

2. Stay away from danger

I believe everyone has heard of the phrase "the benevolent is invincible", in fact, the sentence of the benevolent is not to say that as long as we are benevolent enough, there is really no enemy, but no one wants to be an enemy with a more benevolent person, just like saying that if you can do it without judging people by their appearance, then many people will respect you equally, so that we can also stay away from danger, which can be said to be a strategy to protect ourselves.

3. It is easy to get help from superiors

Many people with eccentric tempers are very fond of different people, so in the case that most people are judged by their appearance, we can do not judge people by their appearance, which reflects our quality on the one hand, on the other hand, it is easy to get the help of the master, and some of the company's senior managers are particularly fond of associating with different people, and they will also consider this aspect when they want to promote people.

The bunny is very long and very cute, she is so cute and beautiful. I look in the mirror several times a day, and I wear a nice little dress whenever I go out.

Little Rabbit is in first grade, and there are five students in her class: the little oriole, the kitten, the little monkey, the little hedgehog, and the little sheep. The little rabbit thinks that the little hedgehog is full of thorns, but it is ugly.

As a result, she never talked to the little hedgehog and only played with other classmates. When the little hedgehog found out, he was very sad.

One day, the little rabbit was bouncing on his way to school and came across the big bad wolf in the forest, who loved to bully other small animals. When the big bad wolf saw the little rabbit alone, he said to the little rabbit, "I'm going to eat you."

The little rabbit was frightened, and began to cry and beg the big bad wolf not to eat him. The big bad wolf said, "I haven't eaten for days, I'm hungry.

You must be eaten with caution. "The little rabbit was so scared that he didn't know what to do. Suddenly I heard the voice of a little hedgehog:

Big bad wolf, you don't bully others. When the big bad wolf saw that the little hedgehog was so small, he didn't take her to heart and ignored the little hedgehog. Just when the big bad wolf was about to eat the little rabbit, the little hedgehog pierced the thorns on his body, and the big bad wolf ran away in pain.

So, the little rabbit was saved, and she was very grateful to the little hedgehog, and she was also ashamed that she used to judge people by their appearance. The little hidden rabbit understood, it turned out that the little hedgehog long thorn was used to protect himself and use auspicious pins to protect others. Since then, the little rabbit and the little hedgehog have become good friends, and the little rabbit will no longer judge people by their appearance.

Knowledge Expansion: 以貌取人: yǐ mào qǔ rén, which means to judge a person's qualities and talents according to their appearance. Children, don't judge people by their appearance. ）

The main meaning of this sentence is that people can't evaluate a person from the surface, just like the sea water can't be measured by our water holding tools, judging people by their appearance has been a bad habit of people throughout the ages, and most people are indeed like this, even today many people are judging people by their appearance, in fact, this phenomenon can not be said to be completely wrong, at least a normal excellent person usually cares about their appearance,But one of the main reasons why the ancient Chinese warned us not to do this is that many supreme masters, under normal circumstances, may not be able to just look at appearances, but also remind us that we should be as cautious as possible in our daily interactions with people, after all, be careful to drive for thousands of years, and the benefits of this are as follows:

1. It makes people feel very qualified

First of all, if we can not judge people by their appearance, it will directly make many people feel that we are very qualified and cultivated, because throughout the ages, it is a very high-quality person who will not judge people by appearance, and will also treat each other with courtesy, so that at least others will feel that we are a person who has been educated by higher education since childhood.

2. Stay away from danger

I believe everyone has heard of the phrase "benevolence is invincible", in fact, the phrase "benevolence is invincible" does not mean that as long as we are benevolent enough, there is really no enemy, but no one wants to be an enemy with more benevolent and righteous people, for example, if you can do not judge people by their appearance, then many people will respect you equally, so that we can also stay away from danger, which can be said to be a strategy to protect ourselves.

3. It is easy to get help from superiors

Many people with eccentric tempers are very fond of different people, so in the case that most people are judged by their appearance, we can do not judge people by their appearance, which reflects our quality on the one hand, on the other hand, it is easy to get the help of the master, and some of the company's senior managers are particularly fond of associating with different people, and they will also consider this aspect when they want to promote people.

Ding zero zero ......"School is out. I went home with my school bag on my back. Don't look at me just carrying a school bag, it's a heavy and big school bag.

Because this bag is very fat, I call it "Chubby". Chubby is the fourth bag I bought, and it's also my favorite.

I saw how heavy my bag was and decided to help it**. I'll tidy up my bag. I took the books I didn't need out of my bag and put them on the table at home.

The next day, I went to school with my bag on my back, and I didn't feel any lighter as before.

When I got home from school, I was walking on the road and thinking, why hasn't this sedan chair bag become lighter? At this point, it occurred to me that I could leave some books at home that were not in class. However, the next day, the teacher said that the class had changed, and as a result, I was criticized by the teacher for not bringing a book.

After this incident, I learned a truth: in fact, fat does not mean such a thing or this person. It's not good, fat also has the benefits of being fat, for example, although a person is fat, as long as he is not fat or obese, then he must have strength.

Skinny, but without strength, it's not good. Therefore, we cannot judge people by their appearance, because the ruler is short and the inch is long.