My boyfriend and I have some hiccups right now? I don t know what to do?

Do you know what two people want in the end? It's trust, if you don't even have the least trust, then I suggest you can change it, no one needs space and freedom, if you keep making each other feel like a prisoner, restrained, bound, then I don't think it's good, it will have the opposite effect, give you the best advice: give each other space, trust each other.

Love is always defined by no eternity.

Because everyone's experience and perception are different.

Love is beautiful, but there are times when it fades.

It's like a firework.

Only a brief moment of beauty remains.

It is a joy and happiness for two people who love each other to be together.

Because it is not easy, it should be cherished more.

Don't wait until you lose it.

In the same way, love needs to be inclusive.

Remember the saying:

People who love each other have the warmest hearts for each other.

In fact, love is nothing but a feeling.

So he falls in love with you because he has this feeling for you, and out of instinct to be nice to you and make you happy, on the contrary, he doesn't love you because he no longer has this feeling for you, so he no longer has the heart to be good to you and make you happy.

Love is giving and understanding, understanding and tolerance, it is he who is happy so I am happy, it is two people who are attached to each other to face every laugh and sorrow.

Although quarrels are inevitable, although anger is often present, forgive him because of love, and you will make changes for him because of love.

A man's normal communication is also indispensable, and you don't have to be too suspicious, which will only lead to discord in your relationship, and if you get the evidence, make trouble.

You should trust the people you love, this is the most basic, normal mindset to face.

When you encounter a problem with Dou Mo, your boyfriend always thinks that you are making a fuss about Youbi, what is the reason for this? Two people are together to live a good life, and there must be some reason for such a problem.

First of all, you have to reflect on yourself, whether you really like to make a big fuss. In life, because of the little things that are insignificant, they will cause you unpleasantness. People who are too sensitive will always care about what others think of them, so they will also care about everything about the other person.

For example, your boyfriend makes a loud noise when he eats, your boyfriend doesn't wash the dishes after eating, your boyfriend loves to scold people when he plays games, and so on, if you quarrel because of such trivial things, it is true that after a long time, both of you will be tired, which may be your problem, but you yourself have not found your own problem.

If your boyfriend always runs away from problems, he will throw the problem at you and say it's your problem. This situation is usually because your boyfriend himself is such a person, and you don't know his character at first, but after a long time, human nature will be exposed, and saying that you are making a fuss about this problem is proof of it. Whenever you want to solve a problem, your boyfriend doesn't want to solve it, he is impatient, just say it's your problem, then you have to communicate with him to prove that it is not your problem.

If your boyfriend has a bad attitude and refuses to change, then you can consider changing your boyfriend. The next one is more well-behaved.

There is also a possibility, that is, you are good at the beginning, your boyfriend is of good character, and he is not empty. So be careful if it's a sign that he's going to change his mind. His attitude towards you has changed, he is impatient with you, and he refuses to communicate when you want to talk to him about problems, because he has given all his patience to others, which means that there is a third person among you.

In this case, you can choose to tell him clearly, ask if there is someone you like, and since you don't want to be together, you will separate. At this time, if your boyfriend realizes that he has done something wrong, he will correct it and take back his half-heartedness. If he generously admits that he doesn't want to be with you anymore, then stop the loss in time and don't entangle with him.

If you encounter a problem with reed pants and your boyfriend always says that you are making a big fuss, then you have to let him know that you are not making a fuss and making a fuss, just one. Let's take the example of a spine file to illustrate.

Maybe you are a more thoughtful person, and you are not understood by your boyfriend, so you should sit down with your boyfriend and talk about why you will do this so thoroughly.

Since you love this boyfriend, then take the opinions of your boyfriend Chi Fengyou as the main thing, and let him solve the problem when he encounters a problem, and if he doesn't mix with his opinions, there will be no contradictions.

Then you should examine yourself first. For the kind of things that are not too important, there is no need to think too much about it, or do something. You must know how to do things, what to do and what not to do.

Then you have to self-reflect, it's not that you really make a fuss and like to make trouble.

Sometimes some simple things don't need to make it big, it's better to make big things small, small things into nothing.

Two people must learn to understand each other in order to get along well.

You should improve your ability, you should make yourself better, you should find something you like to do in the dust, and you should also have your own interpersonal interactions. They also rely on each other.

You should break up with such a boyfriend, because such a boyfriend is relatively naïve, and he doesn't love you at all and doesn't want to change for you.

I think you can break up with him, because it's not good for the relationship at all.

When encountering problems, how can there always be a big fuss with you, this kind of key difference man is not a big deal, the heart will not be broad, small belly chicken intestines, such a man, if you can accept it, you will get along with him, if you don't accept it, you will be clear with him as soon as possible.

After being together, I found out that my boyfriend has some small problems that I can't accept, what should I do?

Everyone is imperfect, what if you find out that your boyfriend has some small problems that you can't accept after being together?

The first looks for his merits and thinks that you marry him because of his merits. In this relationship, but you have to live with his shortcomings, each of us will have shortcomings. Whether it's for ourselves or for our significant other, it's necessary to make the necessary changes.

Otherwise, it will not only make each other unhappy, but it will also make it difficult for your relationship to deepen, let alone get married, no matter how good a man is, there are shortcomings.

Second, in the face of men's bad habits and shortcomings, women seek breakthroughs, subtly influence him with tenderness, and turn him into a good man in their own eyes. There are no two absolutely suitable people in the world. Maybe you think this person is right for you in the first place.

It's just another person's trait that matches you very well, learn to accept her little faults. Or communicate with your boyfriend about his minor faults, and then ask him to correct them, believing that he will accept your point of view.

Third, learn to tolerate his shortcomings. Many married women always complain that their husbands have a lot of shortcomings. But we must know that no one is without shortcomings, and we must first tolerate the shortcomings of our husbands.

Then communicate with them patiently. This negativity will only make things worse. Not only are they controlled by this negativity, but the people around them also spend their time in fear and anxiety.

Fourth, learn to look at him in a positive light, everything in the world has a good side and a bad side, and so is man. Everyone has disadvantages and advantages. Learn to divide them into two parts, and how do you know the true meaning of the hints of misfortune and blessing.

You can't stare at each other's shortcomings and complain about life. Not only will this not be good for your life, but it will ruin your happiness in life, so learn to accept your partner's.

In the face of such a situation, you should communicate with your boyfriend, and you should also put forward your own opinions and suggestions, and you should also let your boyfriend make appropriate changes, and you should also let your boyfriend's thinking make some changes. Also help the other person to correct bad habits.

If these small problems involve principled issues, then break up as soon as possible, and if they are not involved, then you can communicate with your boyfriend to make him realize that these small problems must be corrected.

You can talk to your boyfriend and ask him to get rid of these little problems, if he is willing to fix these little problems for you, you can continue to be together, and if you can't change them, you can consider breaking up.

You need to accept these small problems of the other party, but if you feel that you can't accept it, you need to communicate with the other party and let the other party make changes.

According to your description, you have been having an awkward relationship with your boyfriend recently, and you think that he has a lot of problems, and the reason is that they are all due to him, but the key is that he also knows that the problem is **, but he just doesn't want to tell you. In this case, I think your boyfriend may be a more reserved personality, and if you want to get along with him for a long time, you really need to communicate with your boyfriend well.

Generally speaking, if a man is more introverted, or even a little introverted, it is useless for the woman to be too anxious at this time. Because a person's personality is formed by accumulation over a long period of time, especially when he was a child, his experience has a great influence. I think your boyfriend knows that the problem is **, but he is unwilling to communicate with you, is your temper too impatient, and he thinks it makes little sense to communicate with you?

After all, your boyfriend is on the passive side of the relationship, and if you have a temper, you often can't communicate well.

Secondly, in this case, you need to be more patient, take the initiative, and communicate with him. If you still want to save your relationship, try to take the initiative to communicate with him calmly, express your thoughts and suggestions, and listen to his thoughts and opinions. But don't use a critical tone, it's easy to backfire.

Finally, is there a possibility that a lot of what you think is wrong with him is not really his problem, but your wrong guess? It's not impossible, you need to think about it.

If you still want to save your relationship, it is recommended that you take the initiative to communicate with him, and express the problems you find and your feelings truthfully, but remember not to use an accusatory tone, which is easy to backfire and touch his rebellious psychology