My relationship with my boyfriend is stiff right now, and I don t know if I should continue or choos

He doesn't love you. If he loves you, he won't do anything sorry for you, the landlord, I really admire you, and I asked him to hang out with other girls, I really don't know if you are too great or a little bit I have been with my boyfriend for three years, and it is a long-distance relationship, and I really feel very tired now. I also felt that he didn't care much about me anymore, and although I was very unwilling and reluctant, I still decided to let go.

This situation like yours is worse than my boyfriend, and you'll let it go after a long time. At first, I cried every day and felt uncomfortable every day, but now I'm not so sad, time can really dilute everything.

Give up, this man is not worth living with him at all, with you, and having a relationship with other girls, even if you know, he doesn't take into account your feelings, blatantly, do you think he still has a sense of security for you? If you continue to live with him, you will only suffer more.

Love also needs self, you can't throw yourself away and blindly accommodate him. I don't think he's a responsible person, nor is he a single-minded person, and such a person loses his favor as soon as possible. But you also have to know that you are good to your lover, and some things should not be too generous.

No matter how much you say, I don't know your love status, and I can't make a more reasonable judgment!

Say a few words based on your own feelings, just for reference, ask your own heart, can you forgive him. If you still can't let go of him, then ask yourself if he is worth it, whether he is worth it, whether he is worth it, whether he is worth forgiving him, and whether it is worth the ...... you pay for himLove, don't always listen to anyone, in fact, it's all in yourself!!

Good luck.

In terms of feelings, it is always hurt to be affectionate! Nothing, follow your heart, but remember not to lose the last vestiges of your dignity, there are some people we really don't have to wait! I've had it before, and it's only been a relationship for less than a year, but I haven't forgotten it after four years, and slowly time will ** myself!

There's a paragraph, you see:

Do it for you, do it for yourself".

Consolation, to say forget.

I want to forget, but I remember.

If you love, don't love deeply.

Because separation is not just an outsider.

If I abandon it, I will not be complete.

Don't want to admit that I don't love you.

Willing to torture himself.

I don't know what kind of person you are, I've encountered this kind of thing before, but I can't tolerate his betrayal of my body, everything a man says is actually just an excuse, and a man's heart is an immutable law.

Love needs the test of time, and if it's yours, go for it.

First of all, it is your own habitual attitude that indulges your boyfriend's thoughts, everything is obedient, everything is listened to him, and all aspects of economic life are under his control, then your boyfriend will naturally treat you as an appendage. (The wording here may be a bit harsh, forgive me).

First of all, you have to change your submissive lifestyle and have a temper. I also said it, my own conditions are not bad, I can find a better one, you are not attached to him, you have your own ideas, you have your own requirements, you have your own dissatisfaction, these are said in person, don't feel embarrassed, don't be upset.

Secondly, since you have your own income and are financially independent, not only do you need to be financially independent, but your boyfriend's money can also be used at will, and your boyfriend needs to listen to your opinions when he has major financial spending, rather than deciding for himself. Form a situation where he is at home and at home you are in charge.

Third, it's not impossible to live with your parents, but you must have your own nest, and you can go in and hide when you are angry. Learn to make yourself strong. Women are never men's accessories, and they should stand higher and see farther.

In the end, if you don't change yourself, just change the object, the result is likely to be the same. I hope what I say can help you.

It's you who have the problem.

He has given you living expenses for so long without a word of complaint, which is very good.

Men and women patting and dragging, why do you want to eat him and use him, do you think he is cool and you are not happy.

My principle is that you can invite you to dinner, buy small gifts, and watch movies, which is the affection between boyfriend and girlfriend, but you must not give living expenses, no matter how much, this is a matter of principle. You didn't have a job before, and it makes sense for him to help, and if you have a job and earn money, you shouldn't support you anymore. Getting married is another case.

I suggest you just go find someone who is richer, so as not to hurt your boyfriend.

There are some people who only have ten dollars, but he is willing to give you eight dollars. How to understand.

There are some people who have 100,000 yuan, but he is willing to give you 10,000 yuan, how to understand.

Money, nothing more than that, where is the meaning of money, is to create happiness for the people we cherish, of course, the necessary expenses should be saved, a person has money, if there is no one to share with, what is this, what is it a person, such a person, is pathetic,

He was so lucky to have such a girl who really loved him. Hehe. Women can grieve themselves for love, for their families, and for their children, but don't forget, they are all human beings, so why be so lowly.

Women, if you want to live out as a woman, if you are too submissive to your lover, it is an abnormal relationship. We deserve our own dignity.

Are you sure that you broke up on your terms Can you find a better life is a very realistic thing According to your description Your boyfriend's economy is pretty good You say that it is useless to get married Who doesn't buy a ring when you get married Don't use a car Gift money This is all a program I want to save money to open a store by myself Have you calculated how many oceans you have a month I don't think it's realistic Maybe he just said it so casually Don't be whimsical Now it's all right You find a better one Why are you talking empty words are useless.

What you want to express is that you could have asked for a lot of things, but you didn't ask for it, you feel wronged, right? You think you're considerate of him, don't you? In other words, in your eyes he is neither romantic nor generous, so why have you been talking for 2 years?

You say that he said a word, and your heart is cold. Do you mean that you want him to keep you? Did he raise you before all bubbles and illusions?

It's just a spur of the moment, don't take it to heart

When you are in a bad mood, you will inevitably say something that makes the other person uncomfortable.

I really don't love that much ... Calm down carefully and think about it to see if you really love it or not... It's good for everyone not to be decisively separated... Good luck LZ.

Doesn't it feel like you're at the same time? Why make a big deal about small things It's not divided, it's not tired, it's not tired, the pressure of men is not what you women can imagine Every day you are together Cherish a day Don't think so much Cherish what is in front of you and look forward to the future.

In fact, the key is not how good the conditions are, but how willing to spend for you, the simplest has 1000 to give you 800 and 10000 to give you 800 The concept is different, there are unwilling to give and do not try to give you a little better, you should not let me say more. As long as a man is self-motivated, he will not be bad, but if he is not good enough now, how good will he be in the future?

People should be self-reliant, at least financially, not to mention whether they love you or not, it's not good for you to rely on each other like this.

In fact, think about it, what you have paid, what you have paid, and what he is, compare them with each other, and you will find that they are actually about the same. I wish you all happiness.

Some of them are quite picky, but after all, it's all a process, if you say too much coldly, you're very sad, he won't persuade you, this kind of person just won't care about girls, if it were me, I might break up, because boyfriends are used to take care of themselves, love themselves, can't find that kind of arrogant and domineering person, do you think what I said makes sense, no.

When a man is rich, he becomes bad, and when a woman is bad, he is rich. There's no reason to talk like that, or it's angry, you can sit down and have a cup of tea and have a chat.

In fact, LZ already has the answer in his heart. Divide it.

Give up, not be favored by your parents, love is unhappy.

Or just let it go and be a fool.

Or try to make your parents see the good in him, slowly believe, and accept the war between his children and his parents, and the child will always be the final winner.

Because all the intransigence of parents is aimed at the happiness of their children.

Break up, the long-distance relationship basically broke up in the end, if you marry away alone, the pressure and risks you need to bear are absolutely unimaginable, a girl, if you encounter any difficulties, your relatives are not around, it is very terrible, and it is very troublesome to live after marriage, you can't go back to your parents' house at every turn, that kind of helplessness is something you can't imagine. I guess your parents will never let you go. One of my previous boyfriends was also out of town, and then they broke up, because he didn't want to stay, I didn't want to leave, and when the time came, I quarreled every day about these issues, and I broke up after arguing.

Now my husband is in the same city as me, in fact, think about it at that time, it was just too willful, and your parents would not harm you, listen to them, maybe you don't want to compromise now, but in the future you will find that letting go will make you happier.

This is also the case with my sister, and now my parents are calling her home and nagging. If the man is talented and has potential, you can follow him, so that you will not be unable to take care of your parents due to financial problems in the future. In addition, if you care more about your parents, they will also be afraid, afraid that you will not be able to be filial to them in the future, and you have to let them understand that you will always care about them.

mm Family and love are very important, sometimes I really can't tell which side to choose, because everyone's thoughts are different, some people say that our parents raised us so big, we can't be so ruthless and don't care about their feelings, but some people say that their feelings are their own decisions, because it is he who wants to live the rest of his life with you, not his parents.

So, it's up to you how you choose, and if it's really that hard to decide, just let everything run as it should, as the saying goes, the bridge to the bow of the boat is natural, and you don't want to be unhappy.

Let it be... Time will tell.

It's the same situation. Hehe. I'm like you, too.

The next few decades are what you're living and not the other one.

Girls who don't have opinions, what does your business matter to your parents, make your own decisions about your own happiness, it's not easy to find a boyfriend who loves you, the old man's thoughts are like that, distance can also be a reason for two people to be together, do they agree to find a neighbor?

Give it up, with the blessing of your parents, you can only be happy.

Don't choose when you can't choose, take one step at a time, and let God choose for you.

If you really want to break up peacefully, you should have the courage to talk to him.

If you are afraid that he will be vexatious, you can write a letter to him, or on QQSend him a message explaining what you think and why you are not suitable. And tell him that if he can calm down, you can still be friends.

If he has been vexatious, you can choose to change numbers and avoid him.

If you really want to score, make up your mind, don't hesitate or be soft-hearted, it's good in a short time, he's just a little excited now, you can make up a reason or your parents don't agree or whatever.

It seems that it is hopeless for you to break up peacefully, and the most fatal blow is to find a new boyfriend in front of him.

Love is gone, what else to talk about, women change their hearts so quickly, it hurts people a lot, why did you promise people at that time, hurry up and divide it, and give people less pain early.

Be decisive, confess directly, and change your mobile phone number.

It is impossible for such a person to break up with him peacefully. Because when the two of them face emotional problems, he thinks about himself and not you. Such a person, you are not really happy with him, it is better to be thorough, you think you have a good talk with him, if you can talk about anything, just talk about it.

Sometimes it's impossible to be friends again after a breakup, unless you both don't like each other anymore.

Love in college is simple, but how many can go to the end? Breaking up is really not good, it still depends on how you solve it, talk to her well, there can be a few friends after the breakup, don't watch the stories on TV, it's all fake, it seems that your boyfriend is also a person who values feelings, but it's good to get together and divide up, the two of you sit down and talk about it!

You see if she really loves you, if she is really good to you, the conditions are good, then cherish each other together, if you really don't feel it, you can divide it with him like this: communicate your thoughts with him, if not, ignore him, and he will be impatient with you after a long time.

I think you can do that, you and he says, let's talk about it when we're all graduated! Study hard now! After graduation, you will go back to your hometown, change your mobile phone number, and he will not be able to find you!