What does it feel like to look good but not have confidence?

Relying too much on electronics to understand life from the virtual scene of the Internet is not grounded. Many people are still quite happy when playing games and watching jokes, and they are always amused, but what about later? Away from the screen, you are greeted by an infinite sense of emptiness.

Because I really didn't do anything, I seriously lacked a sense of existence and value.

In fact, there are many people in life who have the same self-confidence as you and me. In fact, an important reason for this result is that my vision is not enough. Exposure to different things, going to the Himalayas to listen to lectures, going to Tencent classes to see how others do it, and seeing how many things are suitable for you in this world.

Look at the successes of others. Then determine what you want to work on. I once said a word.

No matter how stupid a person is, even if he insists on memorizing five English words a day, he will become a different big coffee after 5 years. It's as simple as that.

You're not alone. If the world is rudely divided into two groups of people, then one is pessimistic and the other is optimistic. People who are happy and sad have a lot of thoughts, sentimentality, and they feel that they are not good here or wrong, but they can always see some facts.

This is actually a kind of self-limitation, you have to try to think in another direction, if you work hard today, you will know a little more than yesterday's self, have a goal in mind, and there will be a qualitative leap over time, then you will one day become what you want to become.

Moderate busyness in real life can give people a strong sense of fulfillment and satisfaction, because in the busyness, they find that they can do things in an orderly manner (from which self-confidence comes from) and the tedious things that they think are impossible have been overcome.

I say this because I want to see if anyone feels the same way I do. I feel that I am not happy and unhappy like this. Anxiety, restlessness, mood is good and bad, state is good and bad, emotions and states are also very unstable.

I wanted to study hard, but my state and emotions were a big disturbance to me, and my mood and mood changes also made me poor in interpersonal communication. My life is tiring and boring. But I feel that my own heart is not a depraved person, and occasionally it will fall, but my heart wants to be myself.

There is a kind of person in this world who is the most terrible, that is, a person who has nothing to ask for, if there is desire, there is motivation, and if there is something to seek, you can find the entrance, if a person has no sense of anything, it is dangerous. Therefore, we have to find and stick to a thing that we are passionate about, because it is something we like, we will generally be very dedicated, autonomous, active, and enthusiastic to do, a person who has his own passion and interest, he can easily become a healthy lifestyle and state of mind.

Just as many people will have such an experience: when they are depressed, they will return to the place where they feel the most comfortable and relaxed, think back to the happy times, and cheer themselves up; Or do what you love, leave your worries behind, and let yourself soothe your emotions with peace of mind and pleasure. The things we are passionate about, the places we love, are the habitats that give us peace of mind.

Maybe your understanding of beauty and your own good-looking are not the same style, or it may be that you should be better, because of various factors that fail to achieve it, resulting in your own psychological gap and inferiority. Unconfidence may also be the "weakness" in the heart, not everyone is born with the confidence of the fan.

This should be considered as a family problem, it may be that the education of the family is not in place since childhood or the family conditions are not very good, even if they are beautiful, they feel that they are not as good as others, so it leads to these girls being very inferior and have no self-confidence.

Because she may not realize that she is good-looking. Then it may be that she has less contact with fewer people, and then she can't open her heart. So it's also going to be very introverted.

It's because they may not have enough security in their lives, so even if they look good, they are very inferior.

Because such people are more humble, and they will all have appearance anxiety, so they are so unconfident.

Self-confidence is not given by appearance, it has a lot to do with a person's growth environment and the attitude of the people around him.

This is because these people do not realize that they are very good-looking, and they only see their own shortcomings.

Yes, this is a manifestation of self-confidence, no matter what a girl looks like, as long as she has self-confidence, she will be particularly beautiful, she will have excellent ability, and she will be particularly comfortable in the process of interacting with others.

This is not a sign of self-confidence, but rather an excessive narcissism, which is easy to fall into a paranoid illusion and cannot extricate itself.

Yes, this is indeed a sign of self-confidence, they do not feel anxious about their appearance, and being able to face it positively indicates that they have a better personality.

Generally speaking, if some girls are simply beautiful on the outside and lack of internal motivation, it is difficult to support external self-confidence, which leads to lack of self-confidence. In fact, I have to say that some girls, although they are beautiful on the outside, are not motivated on the inside, and because they are difficult to support on the outside, they are very insecure because of this.

Very pessimistic. There may be some girls who are obviously very beautiful, but because of the influence of their families, they are low-key and have low self-esteem. In fact, I have to say that some girls are really good-looking, but because of the influence of their families, they are also very low-key, especially inferior, and insecure.

This is also because of the long-term situation of the family from which it was born, so it is very difficult to change to a large extent, and it will also accompany a person throughout his life.

How can it be improved? If you feel that you are inferior to others in all aspects and do not see your own strengths and strengths at all, it is a sign of mental unhealth. This kind of inferiority engraved in my bones may be related to my life experience.

This situation requires a quick internal and external initiator and effort to change. On the one hand, it is necessary to struggle with one's own psychology, have a deeper communication with one's own heart, examine oneself more, untie one's own knots, and let oneself return first, so that there is a certain psychological quality.

On the other hand, take action and improve your abilities to make yourself good enough. People around you will take the initiative to ask you for advice. In this way, over time, self-confidence will increase.

It's a very difficult thing to get rid of negative thoughts of self-denial and control what's in your head, but it's a great way to train yourself. Try to record all the thoughts that come into your head during the week. And write about those things that are related to self-doubt.

Ask yourself the question, "What evidence can I use to support this idea?" After analyzing your notes, you will understand that most negative thoughts do not have reliable information from the banquet hall, and they can address the rest of the squeezing and anxiety causes.

Also, make a list of your positive traits and accomplishments. When negative beliefs enter the stream of thoughts, you can read it.

The original family of these people is not particularly happy, and they are often hit by their parents, Bu Ling, although they are very beautiful, but they don't find their merits at all. First of all, you should find your own shining point and magnify it infinitely, learn to believe in yourself, hold your chest high when you walk, and read more.

The main reason is that their clothes are not good, and they can't choose clothes that suit them according to their own body characteristics and style; The best way is to completely grasp your own advantages and disadvantages, and then try to choose some clothes that can highlight the advantages of your body when buying clothes, so that you can look tall and fair, such as choosing a white puff sleeve top and a combination of high-waisted wide-legged pants, which is very fashionable.

It may be because these people don't find their own strengths, and at the same time there are some shadows in their childhood, so they will make themselves very inferior.

Personally, I think your eyes are too big and you look uncomfortable.

As long as you have a unique skill, your heart and eyes are stronger than anything else, and besides, you are not bad, you want me to score above 80, study hard, and it will become the climate in the future, you will not care about these, because you are facing more things to do.

When he saw that I was straight, he said that he was not good-looking, that he was too bad.

No, I think it's very good, I think it's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's cute, I don't think the appearance is important, the important thing is that the confident woman is the most beautiful.

It's beautiful. The eyes are big, the nose is very straight, ** is also very good, and the figure is very good! Believe in yourself?

To be honest, ugliness doesn't count, I don't like girls like you, I feel very depressed.

You can't talk about ugliness, and you can't talk about beauty! Popular girls are universal.

Not ugly. Very good, why care so much about looks.

Don't be ugly, don't pay too much attention to your appearance, you should concentrate on reading.

Not ugly! Besides, you're a woman, what are you afraid of? There are about 30 million men and more than 30 million women in China.

How old are you, why are you worried about this! Very cute, pure and beautiful!

First, at a glance, I look good, honestly, not ugly, not too beautiful, but really can, second, everyone has a time when they doubt their own belonging, and the most beautiful people sometimes wonder if they are not beautiful, not to mention those of us who are okay? Everyone has their own self-confidence, and self-confidence and inferiority depend on how they transform. Truth be told, you're not ugly, you're beautiful!

You look like a schoolboy, why do you think so much? It's cute, but it's a little more serious.

I'm a man, and to be honest, I don't think the hairstyle looks good.

The face is 6 points, **white, plump, and looks quite clear, there will be many men who like it.

The face is cute, not as ugly as you say,

What's the matter, it's beautiful! Come to me with confidence!

It's ugly, but it's the type I like