Like him, what to do, I like her, what to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-18
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe you're both too young to know how to weigh your love. People are easy to blindly choose to find comfort behind the hurt, everyone will find someone who loves themselves, he does this, on the one hand, it shows that he actually has a scar in his heart, he knows that you like him, will be good to him, and the comfort you give can make him feel unharmed. Maybe his feelings for you now are not pure feelings, mixed with some gratitude, but he should have feelings for you, because no one will be with a person he doesn't like at all, there are many times, the truth is easy to explain, but it feels like this thing is indescribable, if you really love him, you can slowly influence him, bit by bit occupy all his heart, it is completely possible, and when that time, his feelings for you will not have any color other than love.

    You also need to be patient, emotional things, two people call us, neither party can go wrong, love someone, too much is easy to cause more harm than not between each other! Sometimes, it's just overthinking!

    I wish you all happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No relationship is eternal, if you treat him well and give, he will definitely see it, and it is too easy for a woman to chase a man, but if you start it, he may not be able to let go of A.

    Men are like this, in short, those who can't get their hands on it must be good for that woman.

    You don't have to think all day about who you are, you're better than them, are you happy when you're with him? Happy? Have more questions? Since you are happy, happy, why think about other things, if he doesn't love you, will he still choose you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as you still like him, then don't give up, I believe that one day he will be touched by you. Whether he likes A or not, and whether he still likes A or not, you shouldn't give up easily, and we shouldn't jump to conclusions until the end of anything.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't think about things unilaterally! We're all pulling! Be considerate of others!

    Maybe he's still in love with A! But he can only open his mind to tell his distress when he is with you! This shows that he loves you and believes that you are like this!

    If he doesn't love you! He probably won't tell you anything! You may never know these things!

    To love Him is to believe in Him! Time will prove that he loves you!

    It doesn't matter if he still loves A now! He's already there for you! Only you are the only one for him now! As for whether he will forget A, it depends on how deeply you love him!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Whether he likes you or not, if he does something wrong, then he shouldn't mention A in front of you, you should tell him that if he loves you, don't mention other women in front of you! Otherwise, it means that he doesn't love you! Tell him!

    If he loves you, let him prove it to you, otherwise don't torture you like this!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You are really generous, you are too generous to your feelings, I don't agree with your feelings for yourself so much, you are indirectly hurting yourself, do you know, is it so good to live in the shadow of others? Do you think you'll be fine even if you're together? He loves a so much, and his kindness to you I think should come from his sympathy, pathetic!

    You are a generous girl, but for your own sake, don't let others ruin your happiness! Let's think about continuing to love her!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't be silly! Now that you know it, why do you have to be a substitute?

    There will be better boys waiting for you!

    Don't grieve yourself!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why do you think about the past, and when it is gone, it is gone, and you have not passed? Why do you have to be cornered, you know that you love him enough, don't you?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm dizzy, he doesn't like it, just break up, why make him choose.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are still a high school student, brother, I suggest you study hard.

    Good love will come later.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Dizzy! If it were me, I would never be a substitute for A, huh!

    And he didn't say he liked you, did he?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you like someone, you must treat him with sincerity, care more about her when you are with her, tolerate her and move her with your sincerity, boldly confess to him, if he also likes you, he will definitely be willing to be with you Love this matter, it is never easy, you want to hold hands with someone to the end of the day, but the reality may not be as desired, more often there will be a lot of love and can't.

    Maybe when encountering this situation, everyone's heart is sad, and even a little persistent, always thinking about why they love him so much, but in the end they can't get him.

    It is precisely because of such an idea that it is likely to entangle, will force, and in the end only end up with one injury, and the other party is completely indifferent.

    If you love someone, you must be together, this varies from person to person, some people will feel that if you love someone, you must find a way to be together, and some people will put this love silently in their hearts, and he will look at him from afar, for her, this is also a kind of happiness.

    Forced love will not last long, forced people will not be happy, everyone has some obsessions in love, when the person you like doesn't like you, or two people who love each other are separated for some reason, in this case, there will often be a lot of reluctance in the heart.

    Many people will not be able to let go after a breakup, nothing more than nostalgia for his kindness to you, reluctant to give up the good memories of the past, every time I think back to these, I will feel like returning to him.

    But the more reluctant you are, the more you will not be able to let go, the more reluctant you are, the more you will make yourself miserable, and when you can't love, the best thing to do is to take a step back and open the sky, rather than continue to entangle, which is not good for anyone.

    No matter how beautiful the past is, it is also a thing of the past, no matter how good he is to you, he will never come back, don't cling to it, don't be nostalgic for the past, tell yourself to look forward.

    If you can't love, then let go of the nostalgia for the past, only in this way can you get out of this relationship faster and move forward bravely.

    Leave the wrong feelings.

    The more you can't get something, the more you want to get it, this is the common nature of human beings, but can you get it by forcing it? It might just make you more uncomfortable.

    If you know that the other party doesn't love you, then stop the loss in time, don't continue in a wrong relationship, that is the biggest harm to yourself.

    For love, we can only go with the flow, obey the arrangement of fate, and force it not to come.

    Some people are lucky to meet the person who has been with them all their lives at the beginning, while some people have to search for the right person to meet them.

    In this waiting process, maybe you will experience some love but can't, at this time, you must learn not to force, only in this way, it is possible to reap the happiness in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1) Be close to her.

    You should stop standing at a distance and silently admiring her, you should try to get close to her, get to know her, or take a roundabout approach to the people around her first. You have to learn about her preferences through various channels and signs, such as what books she likes to read, what flavors she likes to eat, and what she likes to go to leisure.

    These will be your future attacks.

    2) is close to her.

    With the first step, you'll be able to use what you've learned about her usual whereabouts to create a chance encounter.

    For example, if you go to a café where she frequents and you have a book like hers in your hand, you are pleasantly surprised. Add to that your previous homework, and it's just a matter of casual conversation about topics that interest her.

    3) is to pursue her.

    After understanding and contacting the above two steps, you may find that she is no longer the goddess who is high up. At this time, you can also make a judgment: whether you really like her and whether you want to pursue her.

    If you find that the other party is not your cup of tea at all, and all your original beauty is an illusion, you don't have to "make people haggard for Yi" anymore. If you think that she is indeed the one who "seeks her in the crowd", then you already have the opportunity and courage to pursue her at this time, what are you waiting for? Blow the horn of the charge!

    In conclusion, I would like to say that even if you do not achieve positive results in the end, you should be brave enough to take this step. Because I missed it, I only regret it. After love, there is growth.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, you have to know whether she likes you or not, and if he likes you too, you should boldly confess to her; If you are wishful thinking, and you like him very much, you try to get along with her slowly, and she doesn't hate you during the relationship, which means that she still has a good impression of you, and I believe that it will be OK after a long time; If she doesn't want to, she should give up as soon as possible.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you like her, you should confess to her directly, in the situation you described, she has accepted your love in her heart, but she is a girl, I am embarrassed to confess her love to you first, but if you confess to her and show her in action, she will definitely accept to become a lover.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Like her, you should take the initiative to reach out to her and fight for her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you like her, be brave enough to pursue it. Love is beautiful and sweet, but it will not come to the head for no reason, it must be through your own efforts, take the initiative to confess, bravely pursue, and persevere. Only then can you get wonderful love. I wish you success.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you like it, you can bravely say to her, if you miss it, you will never get it back, don't let your life leave regrets, even if she doesn't agree, you can know your own shortcomings, young man! Be brave enough to confess to her! I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married! Come on!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Chase her, confess if you like her, pursue it, don't let it go even if you fail, maybe she likes you too.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If he has a girlfriend, advise you to give it up, because it's hard to accept someone you don't know; If you are single and care about you, then you can try, but don't be too anxious because you need time to get to know each other.

    When two people fall in love, it is not necessary for the boy to take the initiative to have a result, on the contrary, the woman chases the male compartment, and the male chases the female compartment, so that he knows that you like him, he will pay attention to you, want to understand you, give him time to think, communicate with each other more, understand how the other party wants you, step by step.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you really like her, find an appropriate opportunity to confess to her, and if she likes you too, she will accept you. If she doesn't like you, she'll reject you outright. You expressed your heart's desire, it doesn't matter if you are rejected, goodbye from now on, love stays in your heart.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Love needs to be fought for, love her and say it directly, time waits for no one, the opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared, you must confess to her quickly, otherwise it will be someone else's bride if it is late. I'm sure you'll be able to catch her. Come on!

    Be brave enough to speak up. Confession is the best way to do it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    As long as you like this girl, then you should be bold to get along with this girl, or as long as the two of you are in the process of getting along, you definitely need to express this kind of love for your girl, and slowly this girl should like you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you like someone, you will boldly confess and pursue. In this case, you need to take the initiative. If you don't take the initiative, girl, I don't know you like her. He could be pursued by other boys. Then you will lose the opportunity and regret it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You like her, do so many things for her, and pay a lot, but you didn't confess to her directly, how do you know if she likes you or not, you should confess directly, if she also likes you, isn't it very satisfying, if it rejects you, then you give up as soon as possible.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you like this girl, take the initiative to confess to him, say that you like him, see how he reacts, he should like you, not reject you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you like the other person, you take action, take the initiative to contact the other person, and move the other person with your actions, so that you will chase the other person.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you think you really like him, talk to them and talk to them about topics of mutual interest. to make the other person like themselves.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You've made it very obvious that you're going to confess directly.

    If she rejects you, then you don't have to keep sending things.

    If she meant that, it would have been.

    But you have to think about it, emotional giving is not a one-sided thing.

    After getting along with you, can you accept that she always goes out to dinner with her male colleagues.

    I feel like you're a relatively simple person, think about these things, and then think about whether or not to be her boyfriend.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you like her, boldly tell her that you love her, only then can she understand your mind, and you don't have to worry about her all day, just say it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What should I do if you like him? If you like it, we will pursue it, strive to pursue, and pursue it boldly, as long as this is the case, now treat the person you like honestly and honestly, and take it seriously.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think there's nothing wrong with liking someone, and if you like it, you should work hard to pursue it, not be submissive. In other words, if you like it, you have to express it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Since you like her, boldly confess to her, even if she refuses, you will not regret it, because you have worked hard.

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